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Some small thing you longed for as a child, but never got. šŸ™

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Witzend Tue 02-Jul-24 11:56:47

Inspired by the donkey rides thread.

Until I was about 9, the whole family (6 of us) made a Saturday shopping trip to a town with an arcade where there were always a couple of Shetland ponies with bells on their harness. You could have a ride for sixpence.

I longed painfully for ride, but never even asked, since I was aware from a very young age that spare sixpences weren’t exactly plentiful.
What did you long for that never happened? (If anything.)

sarahcyn Thu 04-Jul-24 12:12:35

Crazygrandma60

I really wanted a Barbie doll but had to make do with Sindy instead. My mother reckoned Barbie was too "tarty"!?

So did mine! Sindy was wholesome apparently!
I have to say her clothes were exquisitely made.

sarahcyn Thu 04-Jul-24 12:11:43

The Barbie house.
Sparkly high heeled shoes like my friend Sharon's.
Sleeping in a caravan.
Having a pet lion.

Crazygrandma60 Thu 04-Jul-24 12:07:21

I really wanted a Barbie doll but had to make do with Sindy instead. My mother reckoned Barbie was too "tarty"!?

red1 Thu 04-Jul-24 12:02:02

feeling loved and wanted, all the material things mean nothing!

Lilyflower Thu 04-Jul-24 12:00:58

We were not overly well off but my mum tried to give us one thing we asked for at Christmas and for our birthdays and I was very happy with that. I think I knew from an early age that some things were not for us.

RosesAreRed21 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:56:50

I always dreamed of having a dolls house but sadly never got one until my husband bought me one for my 50th birthday

Irismarle Thu 04-Jul-24 11:55:22

I also wanted books but hardly ever got them as presents - I usually got ā€˜useful’ presents like clothes and handkerchiefs. My best friend, an only child with quite well off parents, had a complete set of The Famous Five in hardback - this was the 50s. How I envied that! I had to make do with the library. I loved Chalet School books but read them in a very random order depending on what was available to borrow. I was just too young for the cheap paperback versions which came out in the 70s.

Pearlsaminger Thu 04-Jul-24 11:54:08

Siblings.

I desperately wanted NO SIBLINGS.

I had 9 of the things and couldn’t give them away šŸ˜‚

MissAdventure Thu 04-Jul-24 11:53:24

Oh yes, footwear was always an issue from me.

The only choice I had was black or brown.
Not platforms, or even a small wedge.

FannyD Thu 04-Jul-24 11:50:06

Black patent shoes. With a bar. I only ever had Clarks brown lace ups, which had to last all year. I had to wear them for parties, when other girls had silver party shoes or black patent shoes, and in the summer when I really wanted some Clarks sandals. If we were going on holiday, I was allowed to take my school plimsolls. That was in the 1950s. Towards the start of the 60s dad’s hard work had led to promotion and I got summer sandals, and ā€˜brogue’ style school shoes, but it wasn’t until I was old enough to buy my own that I got black patent!

Cazza1953 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:48:49

I always wanted the Jacko monkey that Woolworths sold. Never got one though.

Applegran Thu 04-Jul-24 11:46:35

I wanted both a monkey and an elephant! I think that even as a child, I knew I could not have either of them. I am struck by the number of people who wanted things and did not tell their parents, who might in some cases have been able to get whatever it was for the child. How many of our children or grandchildren now want something but don't feel able to ask for it? Not necessarily material things - perhaps something like being listened to more and 'told' less. As a child it never occurred to me that I could say anything like that.

MissAdventure Thu 04-Jul-24 11:41:14

cc I used to run around with a cardigan on my head, with the arms hanging down so I could flick them around like long hair.

Mazzer04 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:39:35

A father

Jeanieallergy21 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:38:47

An Easter egg. We were given bars of chocolate for Easter because Easter eggs were expensive for the amount of chocolate you got. I didn't care about value for money, I just wanted a proper Easter egg!

MissAdventure Thu 04-Jul-24 11:38:26

I had a pogo pony!!
A horrible bright orange plastic thing that looked nothing like a pony.
it had springs on its feet (ungrateful wretch that I am)

cc Thu 04-Jul-24 11:38:09

MissAdventure

I wanted long hair.
Mine was kept short, as it was thin and fine, but I wanted long, black, beautiful hair.

I wanted long hair too, but my mother had hated her long hair as a child and wouldn't allow it. She said that it hurt too much to brush it

JdotJ Thu 04-Jul-24 11:37:23

The Corona man used to come to our street in his van but we never had any spare money for 'fizzy pop'

cc Thu 04-Jul-24 11:34:55

Juicylucy

To have a sibling

I'd have preferred not to have one, happily would have given you mine!

JaneJudge Thu 04-Jul-24 11:34:46

a mr frosty and a brother grin

cc Thu 04-Jul-24 11:34:07

yogitree

A pogo stick.
They were too dangerous apparently. I was however allowed to go out riding on a horse in traffic!

I did have a pogo stick and it was really boring after the first hour!

Juicylucy Thu 04-Jul-24 11:33:39

To have a sibling

Nannipocci1 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:32:49

My parents to show love and affection to me !

orly Thu 04-Jul-24 11:32:32

SKY TV if you believe the bloke who should be on the first plane to Rwanda after the 5th

JRTW2 Thu 04-Jul-24 11:32:02

I always hoped for (didn’t ask) for a Tiny Tears, a doll with plaited hair and Lucozade when I was ill. I didn’t get either