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Sewing Boxes and Name Tapes

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Marmight Wed 17-Jul-24 15:31:09

I’ve just been sorting through a sewing box which my Mum gave me over 50 years ago. It’s tall, thin, opens like a book & is made with wood from a redundant altar. I have never emptied it or cleaned it in all those years - first time for everything. It’s now dust free & shiny with Pledge! I found all sorts of odds and ends, full of memories, buttons, a needle case made by my Mum before the War, ribbons kept ‘just in case’ and packs of name tapes for all three daughters which got me thinking of the panic sewing-on of the wretched things the day before the new term. Having seen Camilla on the news today all done up in her finery, I wondered, as I sorted, whether she’d ever had to do this. 🤔
What memories good or bad are hidden in your sewing boxes?
(I hate sewing btw 🤣)

NotSpaghetti Thu 18-Jul-24 14:49:54

I have bought second hand coats for my grandchildren from brands we love such as Oilily but which are expensive new. I have rejected any with names written in.

If you want something a bit special you don't usually want someone else's name in it.
If you want something for schoolwear then you would have to scribble any names out!

M0nica Thu 18-Jul-24 14:43:08

It causes a problem if you then want to hand the clothes on to either younger children, friends and family of sell through a unfiform shop.

welbeck Thu 18-Jul-24 13:33:23

can't the names just be written with indelible ink.
most people these days never sew anything.

JamesandJon33 Thu 18-Jul-24 13:23:50

We also had to have our full name embroidered in chain stitch on the back waist band of our sports culottes . Plus our initials, in a chain stitch circle, on sports blouses and cooking aprons.

NotSpaghetti Thu 18-Jul-24 00:41:54

Because, Casdon - you are obviously going to mend it ... one day
grin

Casdon Wed 17-Jul-24 22:06:20

I don’t like sewing, but I’ve got a sewing box for repairs. It’s quite organised, but it contains the original striped jumper that my Sindy wore in the 1960s, which has a hole under the arm and down the side seam. Why I haven’t thrown it away I have no idea.

HelterSkelter1 Wed 17-Jul-24 21:58:11

I did the same with the Cash's name tapes. Surname in the middle and each daughter's name either side to fold under.

And I have one table napkin with my name sewn on which came with me on a school holiday in Torquay at a boys' boarding school in about 1960.

Romola Wed 17-Jul-24 20:32:25

Yes, Sago, you are right about name tapes for residents in care homes. I sewed on a lot of them for my friend with MS. Her brain was as good as ever but hands no longer worked. I like sewing, so it was a pleasure to sit and chat with her while I sewed.

Witzend Wed 17-Jul-24 20:26:40

I not only had to sew name tapes on to dds’ uniform, but their initials had to be embroidered on the front of their senior school games sweatshirts - ‘to prevent ‘borrowing’’.

I dread to imagine dd ever having to embroider anything for her children - she’s ‘allergic’ to any sort of sewing! TBH the embroidery was enough of a trial for me.

Witzend Wed 17-Jul-24 20:20:57

I inherited my MiL’s sewing basket (and her mega-tin of buttons) and in it I found a couple of school uniform name tapes of Dh’s youngest brother, now 66!

Sago Wed 17-Jul-24 20:01:17

96 Cash’s name tapes were sewn on when my youngest started boarding at school!
Everything had to be marked!
It was laborious but a necessity.
The joy when they had all finished school was something else.
Sadly I had to do it all again when my mother went into a nursing home.

Visgir1 Wed 17-Jul-24 19:53:52

My Mums sewing box was something I wanted when she passed away. She was a Needlework teacher who also taught at Night school Soft furnishings, she was amazing.
I was a willing apprentice and able to turn my hand to most thing but not a patch on my mums skills.
I found in her sewing box not sure what you call them? a Needle case /book that I made her, with cross stitch in a fabric with little holes. I have no idea what age I was but probably at Junior school. She kept it all that time.

foxie48 Wed 17-Jul-24 19:36:56

My mother refused to sew anything including name tapes. When I told her I'd got into trouble because my school gym kit wasn't named, she said, tell them if it doesn't have a name tape and it fits you, it's definitely yours. I used the same argument with my own daughter!

CanadianGran Wed 17-Jul-24 19:00:51

I keep a very minimal mending box, actually a tupperware with divided areas. Just your basic needles, thread, seam ripper and a thimble. An old jam jar nearby is for buttons, which my Gkids enjoy arranging.

I do remember my Mum's box, though. It was tapestry covered with a silky lining. Much more interesting than mine!

ayse Wed 17-Jul-24 19:00:03

JamesandJon33

Cash’s name tapes. That takes you back. We even had to have them on each sock at grammar school in the 50s.
I have a button box and a sewing box. I used to do a lot of embroidery so there are quite a few skeins of embroidery silk, plus needles in the box. Sadly unused now as I can’t see well enough to embroider. But lots of knitting needles and patterns. Love having a sort through it .

I remember the name tapes on socks. What a nightmare. I have a large amount of sewing stuff and some of it goes back to my great grandmother. This includes silk thread, probably used for embroidery. I’ve two pairs of pinking shears, tatting thingy and loads of other bits and pieces. It’s the button box with so many odd buttons, none of them very inspiring. My mother cut off loads of shirt buttons once she’d turned the collar twice.

TBH, I love all the old stuff I have.

ElaineI Wed 17-Jul-24 18:53:58

Mine has all my children's name tags, swimming badges, brownie badges. My DGC have their names written in black ink! DD1 gets her MIL or me to do any sewing 😂

JamesandJon33 Wed 17-Jul-24 18:48:33

Cash’s name tapes. That takes you back. We even had to have them on each sock at grammar school in the 50s.
I have a button box and a sewing box. I used to do a lot of embroidery so there are quite a few skeins of embroidery silk, plus needles in the box. Sadly unused now as I can’t see well enough to embroider. But lots of knitting needles and patterns. Love having a sort through it .

NotSpaghetti Wed 17-Jul-24 18:23:38

You were kind to offer.
I'm afraid I didn't! grin.

Maggiemaybe Wed 17-Jul-24 18:19:15

A couple of them have, and I did offer. But it seems my sewing skills aren’t needed in these days of adhesive name tapes. smile

NotSpaghetti Wed 17-Jul-24 18:01:39

Maggiemaybe if your grandchildren have the same surname you could just use the middle bit!

Maggiemaybe Wed 17-Jul-24 17:56:34

My sewing box (a small Victorian writing desk adapted by my dad) is packed full with lots of stuff I’m probably never going to use, such as Wundaweb, bias binding, tiny buttons, lace and elastics of all sizes and colours, but the needles and cotton still come in and I lent one of the family my deadly upholstery needle recently. I must have a few dozen Cash’s woven name tapes, most of them with our surname in the middle and our DDs’ names to either side. Canny, but I still had to buy new ones for their brother.

If ever any of them feels the need of a name tape in their coat, I’ll be there!

M0nica Wed 17-Jul-24 17:37:29

My sewing box is a large one like a small table and concertinas out on both sides. My mother bought it in Hong Kong in the early 1950s and it is beautifully carved and it is a treasured piece.

I am a sewer, not a very good one, so mine has been emptied and sorted many times - but yes, I still have my own school nametapes, the needlecase my beoved maternal grandmother used and all sorts of other things.

We also used to run an antiques stall and at one point sewin boxes sold well and when DD and I bought them at auction, they usually still had their contents in them and we would sort through them, keep a lot, DD is a keen and very good needlewoman, sell on more and throw the rest away.

Millie22 Wed 17-Jul-24 17:29:08

I love my sewing box with all the little bits and bobs inside 🪡🧵

eazybee Wed 17-Jul-24 17:17:37

I inherited my mother's sewing box, (wooden inlaid marquetry,) which had belonged to her mother who inherited it from an older sister who died. I use it as a jewellery box.
I have name tapes for me, and for my two children, and I sewed them on, not neatly but they stayed in place. I found bias binding, tailors' chalk,cards of hooks and eyes, press studs, thimbles, wooden darning mushrooms and yards of elastic, plus wooden spools of silko thread, and darning wool.
My mother sewed; I do not.

Gin Wed 17-Jul-24 17:01:22

Many years ago I bought a hand made wooden sewing box at a jumble sale in the Netherlands. It had the most interesting collection of things in it: an old cigar tube full of crochet hooks; upholstery needles; a box of metal popper fasteners; folding embroidery scissors; a small retractable tape measure and a beautiful enamel box of French pins which I still use. Most of the box is now full of cotton on large reels obtained when a local coat manufacturer closed down. It had enough elastic to hold up an army’s knickers!