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Applegran Mon 05-Aug-24 15:10:46

I was born early in the second world war, and remember some things from that time, and the years after it. Like ration books, hearing air raid sirens, collecting silver paper from the fields (which I think were dropped to confuse radar), every window covered in black out material, and bomb sites being a feature of the world around us for a long time after the end of the war.
My grandmother told me of her memories of the news of the relief of Mafeking, in the second Boer war in South Africa. She told me there was dancing in the streets of London! I wish I'd asked her about memories she might have heard from her grandparents, which would have gone back to before the Victorian era.
My aunt told me that her brother had bought a car - a real novelty - and the whole family took turns to drive it. No test was necessary. She told me that they used to rub a candle over the windscreen, so rain would run down in sheets, not drops, and the driver had a better chance of seeing out. Then someone invented windscreen wipers! All the driver had to do, was lean forward and turn a lever from side to side.
The world has changed at a great rate in the life time of people my age, and those who came immediately before us.
For younger generations this is all long ago and strange to them. And it is history! I wonder what historic memories others on GN may have?

Allsorts Mon 05-Aug-24 15:16:48

In my lifetime, the television, men going to the moon and walking on it, Concorde, the world opening up for air travel anywhere, so much, women getting equal pay, 8 never did, I feel that I have lived in the best of times although with little money. Glad I am not being born now, if I were young now I wouldn't have children although mine have been the best thing in my life and they had opportunities I never had.

Babs03 Mon 05-Aug-24 15:26:00

I remember JFK being assassinated, the Cuban missile crisis with everyone believing a nuclear attack was imminent. We thought ducking under our desks at school would save us. The disaster at Aberfan, when my old mum cried and even my dad wiped away a tear. And of course the moon landing, hippies/the sexual revolution - though we didn’t get much of that in Lancashire, Vietnam, natural gas putting an end to coal fires, and textile mills near us going from full production, keeping the community alive, to nothing.

Chestnut Mon 05-Aug-24 15:31:39

I was born after the war so my memories are 1950's onwards but how it has changed. You only have to read some of these threads, the dentist thread even shocked me.

I think you should write up your life story with memories like that Applegran. It will be fascinating for your (great) grandchildren to read. If you can do it on a computer then you can save or print or both. Add photos if you can. If writing is all is too much then do a voice recording, just depends what suits you. I am writing up my story, it's like taking a trip down memory lane.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 05-Aug-24 15:59:00

Suez being closed in 1956. Aberfan. The Six days' war, Yom Kippur war. The Prague Spring,

And I know precisely where I was and what I was doing (teaching a evening class in business English) the evening the Berlin Wall came down.

One of the women had gone to her office to check her calendar on her computer, and we honestly thought she was having us on when she came back and told us the news!

There we were, ten people jostling for space round a single computer to watch something we had genuinely never believed we would see.

polomint Mon 05-Aug-24 16:00:52

Yes indeed chestnut. Writing some of your memories down will prove interesting in years to come. The young ones nowadays have certain aspects of life so easy compared to the memories I have of my parents life. My husband is amazed at the fascinating tools our grandson has and in that respect, he wishes he was younger now to use them!

polomint Mon 05-Aug-24 16:03:58

My memories start in the fifties. I can remember one day at school writing the date in my jotter of 5/5/55 and wondering where I would be at 6/6/66. In 1955 I was 10 and in 6/6/66 I had been married for 1 month!

Mizuna Mon 05-Aug-24 16:04:04

I worked for the BBC when it went from black and white to colour, not exactly a majorly historical item but long enough ago to make me feel like a dinosaur!

Imarocker Mon 05-Aug-24 16:05:09

I remember the news of JFKs assassination being announced and watching the March on Washington. I also remember Churchill’s funeral. It was on a Saturday and the streets were deserted as everyone was watching on tv. I also remember Queen Mary dying. I saw her photo in the paper.

polomint Mon 05-Aug-24 16:16:03

I remember my parents being worried about suez canal situation. I remember a friend of my dad's being sent Burma while he was in the army

annsixty Mon 05-Aug-24 16:26:48

I was born in 1937 so I remember being fitted for a gas mask, taking a packed lunch to school everyday in case we had to go in the air raid shelter, we never did.
We had an evacuee ftom London billeted on us, a girl my age, sbout 6 I think.
I remember the end of the war and the street parties with very litte nice food but welcome all the same.
We welcomed the end of rationing .
I remember with distress my uncle coming home from a prisoner of war camp.
He was a broken man and he never recovered.
I think he took his own life but not sure , he maybe died from his incarceration.

boheminan Mon 05-Aug-24 16:46:24

Some of the things I remember from 1950's London. The rag'n'bone man ringing a bell, with 'Smokey' the horse pulling the cart. the scissor and knife sharpener, the weekly rent man with a big pink card to sign, the Hearts of Oak and 'Pru' men, the baker with a basket of bread and cakes over his arm, butter in a wooden barrel, mum used to 'pat' her wanted amount, the little kiosk at the end of the shop to pay at, sawdust on the floor...and Mars bars were at least a foot longgrin

Nannarose Mon 05-Aug-24 17:18:10

I'm lucky to come from a family, and community that talked a great deal about their lives. I have family memories that stretch back to the mid 19C. We also have an active local history society that collects oral histories. I am interested in how this gives a different perspective to that of official histories!

ferry23 Mon 05-Aug-24 17:29:05

I think the Suez crisis was the first bit of "real" history I remember. JFK. Martin Luther King. Bobby Kennedy. Churchill's funeral - I was at my best friend's house and they had a TV in their kitchen - the height of luxury! I remember her Mum shedding a tear. I remember watching Princess Margaret's wedding with my Mum.

The moon landing. Winning the World Cup in 1966 - my Dad bought a colour TV. It seems it hasn't come home sincegrin

Kate1949 Mon 05-Aug-24 17:30:53

In the 1950s if we took rags to the rag and bone man, he would give us a live chick 🐣 Can you imagine? Later it was a goldfish.

Applegran Mon 05-Aug-24 17:32:23

Having read these posts I am remembering more things, like the milkman coming with a horse and cart to deliver the milk - no refrigeration. And we didn't have a fridge till the 1960s I think - i remember my aunt had a thing called a 'food safe' which stood in a shaded porch and had netting for sides to let air circulate. It is interesting to read others' memories.

Grannynannywanny Mon 05-Aug-24 17:52:43

Our first fridge was in the late 1960s and it was gas fuelled. Not sure of the facts but it was thought be cheaper to run than the more common electric variety. It was connected to the main gas supply just like the cooker. We also had a gas fire fitted in the living room around the same time in what was previously the coal fireplace. Heat at the touch of a button. Luxury!

Oreo Mon 05-Aug-24 17:58:20

I was born in the 60’s so no memories like the ones on here that are fascinating.
I guess we are all living history, as time goes on 2024 will seem very quaint.

Greyduster Mon 05-Aug-24 18:05:08

I watching the Queen’s coronation on a tiny black and white tv. I was seven and a half. Then the first man into space in 1961. I was talking to GS recently about the Cuban missile crisis and telling him how scary it was to be seemingly on the brink of Armageddon. It seems almost commonplace to be on the brink of something or other now. The day of Winston Churchill’s funeral I was in uniform on route lining duty on Ludgate Hill. It was an incredibly moving occasion but it was so bitterly cold and we’d been in position for so long that we wondered if our legs would move again when the order came. More recent history that I will never forget was 9/11. We had been cycling round a couple of the Peak District reservoirs and stopped for a drink at the cafe. We thought what we were seeing on the little tv was some sort of disaster movie. When we realised it was real everybody gathered there was crying. DH and I were in shock all the way home, and for the rest of the day.

Grandma70s Mon 05-Aug-24 20:34:06

I was born in 1940 so I have the usual memories of wartime rationing, gas masks, and hearing about Spitfires, which I thought were enemy planes because it was such a nasty name! Oddly I don’t remember the end of the war at all, but it must surely have been a day of great joy which might have impressed a young child. The death of King George VI when I was 12, and subsequent coronation of our late queen. The assassination of JFK, the dreadful tragedy of Aberfan.

It can hardly be called important history, but I have very vivid memories of the day sweet rationing ended permanently. I was about twelve, and I ran down to Mr Mattingley’s shop by the station and bought as many sweets as my pocket money savings would allow. I went to him instead of Mr Bridger’s in the village because he always gave me a few extra sweets. He may have done this for all children, but I thought I was special.

Esmay Mon 05-Aug-24 20:46:10

I remember most historical events fairly clearly from 1950s , but what sticks in my mind I'd my father building a television set and a radio with the aid of a book .
Whenever my mother wanted anything done -he did it with his handy tool box and DIY books .
There was never any question that he couldn't fix or make anything .
And my mother could make evening dresses or curtains on her sewing machine ,which used to give me electric shocks !
My Grandma was a great cook and grew fruit , salad and vegetables .
What I really remember us absolutely nothing was wasted .
Nothing was bought on credit .

grumppa Mon 05-Aug-24 21:21:18

The end of sweet rationing. I bought a bar of Fry's chocolate on the way to school.

Floradora9 Mon 05-Aug-24 21:37:47

I can remember a lamp lighter coming round each evening to light a street gas lamp . I think he would have been called a leerie . He had a long pole to light it .
I remember being in the playground and our headmaster notice a flag at half mast on the local factory. We later discovered it was because of the death of Kinf George V1 .
I used a slate and a slate pencil when I went to school at first. We took a wet bit of sponge in a Ponds cold cream jar for rubbing out .
When I first started work at 17 in a bank we sat at high desks like Bob Cratchet. All passbooks were hand written as were all the ledgers . One of the older men could write beautifully in these ledgers. Cheques had no names on them we had to recognise the signatures . This was 1960s.
I remember the cranes all dipping down as Churchill's cofin was taken down the Thames.
I can remember Eisenhower being president of the USA we called him Ike.

Applegran Mon 05-Aug-24 21:45:12

I remember when sweet rationing ended the local sweetshop ( which I think was called Maynard’s) quickly ran out and when we got there we saw a notice on the closed door saying ‘ Sorry no sweets’. For us this became its name for ever more!

dotpocka Mon 05-Aug-24 22:21:59

1957 usa ny
born to seamstress and cop

jfk killed
iremember because it was in half day school kindergaten
watching singing in the rain when the tv cut itoff for news

i remeember malcom x
bobby k
mlk
moon walk

rolling stones
yard birds
blues in general
mom liked elvis
so had to listen
elvis
drive-in watching elvis
vietnam in the news about1968
iwas baysitting and the little guy iwascaring for came downthe stairs and saw some of the battle footage
he asked me what it was gave him a simple answer.
his dad he took care of he next day
kent state shooting

my dad doing security to black sabbath concert/he said never again;)

a lot of rock and roll inperson security,back stage crew,concert in club
marry a sailor
first cool car 442 oldmobile
running away from disco

univeristy there for 2years moved across country for ta job and more classespaid for by the school i taught at