Feeling betrayed by name change

What a fuss about nothing.

Perhaps the initials are better the other way round?

Don't take offence .
You are being honoured !

She has your name, what difference does the order make?

My sons first daughter has her other granny’s name asa middle name,daughter number two has her other granny,s name as a middle name (ten years between then and a different mum)when daughter no three arrived in the spring they told me that she was having an old fashioned “flower” name and my old fashioned name as a middle name.I was surprised and pleased and never assumed that’s what they,d do ,I get on well with the other grannies and GD one lived with us half of every week for ten years.That didn’t give me rights their babies their decision.
My mother really disliked my daughters name and refused to call her it ,she insisted on calling her by her middle name for months until my Dad called her out on it ,she wouldn,t have been happy if my granny had done that with her kids.Dont cause a problem where one wasn,t intended just enjoy the baby,they don’t stay wee for long

It is so easy for us - the other grandmother and I have the same name! It’s our granddaughter’s middle name.

For goodness sake, no. Let it go, it really isn’t worth falling out over.

Like @winterwhite, I wondered if the names “flow” better now. Try not to feel hurt though. Life’s too short!

I’d feel hurt too if it had already been mentioned but not humiliated. Do the names flow better the other way round perhaps. Anyway can’t be altered now. No point in raising it.

No. Short answer I know but if you want to stay friends don't go to war on this, She can name her children who she likes. They are hers. Your will probably end up giving the baby a pet name of your own.

No, if she still has your name somewhere be happy and enjoy your new granddaughter xx