I've really loved America when I've been there and aspects of their culture, but over there, just not here. A lot has been exported, the prom for example, as mentioned numerous times, the outfits, the hire of limousines, it all adds up. Surely the same amount of pleasure could be had from an end of term disco without the almost obligatory tack.. Immense pressure all round, the parents' purse, girls to compete with each other on how they look. Events around school are an industry in the US graduations take place from nursery even, so having gone through the system with those happening at year ends, the actual graduation from university has been superseded so many times, it may have been relegated to just another one! The demands expectations of keeping up are an immense pressure on the beleaguered parent over there. I remember seeing cars with stickers on their back window with "I'm a hockey mom" Oh God what does that even mean living vicariously through my child's sporting achievements, sounds hell!
Our high streets are very homogeneous, more so than France and Italy for example, but whilst my perception is that they retain their individuality more than us, they still have all the trappings of American multi nationals. On that note I did like this from a proprietor of a coffee shop in Rome when asked whether he was bothered about a Starbucks opening nearby he replied "not really, they serve hot drinks, we serve coffee!"
Baby showers take away the spontaneity of gifting a present to an expectant mother, this is what my friends and I did when we had our respective first babies on the way. Now it's been replaced by an organised event , in worst case scenarios, with a hand in hand conformity as to gifting. Even more ridiculous the gender reveal gatherings.
We were always far more low key, maybe it took us so long to recover from the austerity of the war, the US didn't have that. I think much of these new phenomenons exponentially gathered momentum when MacDonalds hit our shores. Yeah! I blame the Golden Arches