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Lack of motivation - give in or fight it?

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kittylester Tue 27-Aug-24 13:53:16

Usually, I am really busy with volunteering, grandchildren, cooking etc. 0h and DH!!

As it's the end of the summer we are grandchildless and my volunteering hasn't got into gear again yet.

I have loads of things I could do - new biscuit recipe, new bread recipe, I need new bras, I'm sure I could find something housewifely to do if I tried but I can't be bothered.

My answer was to start a thread on GN grinbut, would you give in and read a book, watch TV or fight the inertia?

fancythat Tue 27-Aug-24 13:57:52

Definitely give in for now, at this point.

fancythat Tue 27-Aug-24 13:59:40

I am in the same sort of position. Just finished with the 5th lot of visitors this summer.

I would chill. But going somewhere at some point, so decided before I flop, to do some packing, while I am still standing.

AreWeThereYet Tue 27-Aug-24 14:03:11

Probably give in and do something I want to do, like read a book. I only fight the inertia if it's ongoing for days and I'm getting nothing done. That's when it becomes pure laziness grin

AGAA4 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:05:42

It's good for you to occasionally give up and do very little. We need to recharge out batteries sometimes. That's my excuse for not doing much.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:17:07

Give yourself a holiday till 1st September then roll up the sleeves.
I have started now to give myself a proper lunch break. And a proper coffee and tea break and will stop trying to do several things at once.

eazybee Tue 27-Aug-24 14:19:14

Read a book.

Babs03 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:30:26

Do nothing. Is underestimated as ‘a thing’ but is definitely a thing with us. Whenever babysitting duties, house moving traumas, and having relatives stay eases off we just lounge around and do nothing. Never lasts long so we make the most of it.

BigBopper Tue 27-Aug-24 14:34:25

I would say take things as they come, we get to a certain age and for the past goodness knows how many years we have lived to a timetable but now it is time to stop and smell the roses.

Septimia Tue 27-Aug-24 15:31:24

Read a book definitely. But planning a time to get down to some of these things is probably a good idea, if you can stick to it (I'd have difficulty!).

madeleine45 Tue 27-Aug-24 16:34:21

revel in the feeling of freedom from commitments ! Enjoy being able to choose to do nothing It wont last long as soon you will see some interesting classes you want to take or the garden will need attention or whatever so just dont feel guilty for having a little break. Sitting still is an art and doesnt cost anything , so long as you dont look round and see several jobs waiting for your attention. I was a teacher and to me this time of year is the beginning of things and certainly when I start looking at classes etc. The autumn is nearly here and you will have some leaves to scrunch through in the woods and find conkers etc. Make the best of your rest and no doubt it is well deserved

karmalady Tue 27-Aug-24 16:43:18

I have a timetable but only meal times, I don`t need to look at the clock. Breakfast, lunch and early light tea and that is it. Anything else in the day just usually evolves but no day ends on a negative wasted note. Rest days are there for a purpose

Allira Tue 27-Aug-24 17:12:10

“Don't underestimate the value of Doing Nothing, of just going along, listening to all the things you can't hear, and not bothering.”
“doing nothing often leads to the very best of something”

Winnie the Pooh.

LauraNorderr Tue 27-Aug-24 17:17:24

Have to say I agree with AGA, Allira and Winnie the Pop.
Just chill out and go with the flow.

LauraNorderr Tue 27-Aug-24 17:18:19

Winnie the Poo. Why on earth would autowhatsit change that!

Desdemona Tue 27-Aug-24 17:18:29

I would give in, read a book for a bit followed by some good tv and then a crossword puzzle to 'sharpen my mind.'

merlotgran Tue 27-Aug-24 17:19:01

I give in every time. In fact I’m just about to start a new book! 😂

GrannyIvy Wed 28-Aug-24 11:41:57

I have busy times and value the quiet times when I can potter on my garden and read, time for me. Don’t feel guilty. We all need downtime. Enjoy

Sharr22 Wed 28-Aug-24 11:42:18

A hiatus now and again is great for the soul. By choice is best but occasionally we're forced into one!

rowyn Wed 28-Aug-24 11:45:06

I'd fight the TV, watch the book and give in to inertia.
Oops I've already done the latter.

JaneJudge Wed 28-Aug-24 11:47:01

I could have written this. I also desperately need to buy some new bras, a couple of pairs of work trousers and some work tops. Maybe something nice for my holiday.. What am I actually doing? I am sitting on gransnet with my dog at my feet smile

JaneJudge Wed 28-Aug-24 11:47:56

Yesterday I decided I needed a rest so watched the first series of Brassic (lots of sex, drugs and swearing) and then watched 'to Leslie' which was quite a sad film to watch
I need to watch something more lighthearted

Chicklette Wed 28-Aug-24 11:57:15

Read a book! It’s what I’d like to do 10 hours a day 😂 But I’d also argue that reading isn’t doing nothing. You’re expanding your knowledge and use of language. So it’s a good thing to do. Also very relaxing.

Siope Wed 28-Aug-24 12:02:29

Why is it ‘giving in’? I’d see it as delightfully free time to do what I wanted. I’d probably have a lie-in, take myself off for a longish walk finishing at a pub or cafe, have lunch & read a good book, walk back and read more.

kircubbin2000 Wed 28-Aug-24 12:03:28

I'm like this unless I have something to do first thing. Today I had an appointment at 9.00, did some shopping and now I feel like going back to my keep fit class that I have been avoiding.