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kittylester Thu 05-Sept-24 18:43:42

I have just watched a piece on BBC News about this and was slightly horrified to hear parents say that they can save money by going during termtime and they might not be able to go on such nice holidays during the school holidays.

What happened to doing what you can afford during the holidays?

Out children asked every year if we could go somewhere hot and sunny instead of trailing round Europe camping. As there were 7 of us we couldn't afford hot and sunny and always ended up in a tent somewhere in Europe.

I bet lots of us were like that.

Why can't people do similarly now?

M0nica Sat 07-Sept-24 09:29:15

Actually biglouis there were overseas holidays for 'working class' people in the 1950s.

Cheap packaged holidays to Spain and the Ballearic Islands started in the mid 1950s. DH's father worked on the assembly line at Vauxhall and DH had his first holiday abroad in about 1957. His parents continued to have a annual holiday in Spain or Majorca for the next 25 years.

Oreo Sat 07-Sept-24 09:21:56

Shelflife

I understand why parents feel this way , however......school is school and our children are fortunate to be given free education. Going on holiday in term time is not acceptable , I know it's expensive - so what !? They should go away in term time and if this means having a modest holiday in this country then so be it! I have no sympathy what so ever. We are privileged to have a sound education system and if parents can't appreciate that they don't deserve it ! No patience at all , if children are taken out of school for foreign holidays then a heavy financial penalty should be the ' price' they pay. They don't recognize how fortunate they are !!!!!!!

Am with you all the way on this.
Schools have leeway to make special exceptions for pupils where there are circumstances that merit time away but generally pupils need to attend in term time.

Goldieoldie15 Sat 07-Sept-24 09:15:28

Classroom is not the only place where education takes place. Holidays, particularly abroad are not only educational and memorable experience but serve to develop child’s social skills. And the memories last a life

biglouis Sat 07-Sept-24 01:07:26

Once we had done our GCEs my friends and I regularly "bunked off" school for the afternoon. My mother worked afternoons in Vernons Pools and didnt get in til 5 30 so she never found out. Or we went into Liverpol and hung around the shops.

The trick was to get your name on the register first. Then instead of going to the class you were supposed to be at you sloped off. The class teacher knew the register had been taken so never remarked on absentees unless it happened several days in a row. This was the late 1950s so things were a lot more relaxed then,

Holidays for us was a week in a caravan in Wales and we always went in the school holidays. There were no trips abroad for working class kids in those days.

4allweknow Fri 06-Sept-24 23:51:18

If holiday companies didn't put prices up during school holidays it 6 be like trying to get tickets for an Oasis concert. When my chijdren were at school my husband had holudays allocated to him eg May one year, June the next and so on up to October.He had no chouce unless he coukd find someone with same rank, experience who was willing to swop. We didn't do holidays by the pool/amusement parks. Travelled over Europe camping. Family has great memories of all the experiences, countries visited. Schools were informed of situation ie no choice when to take holidays and we never had any issues or problems with falling behind.

Mollygo Fri 06-Sept-24 23:00:16

Valdavi if you have read this thread, it seems it’s the school’s job to catch children up, regardless of the impact on other children, and the parents’ job to teach their children to choose which rules to follow and which not.

valdavi Fri 06-Sept-24 22:35:13

I don't think it impacts negatively on childrens' education if they & their parents make sure the topics missed are looked at at home on their return. I used to be taken out for holidays as we were a family farm harvesting soft fruit all through the summer but I hated the copying up after. (from friends' notes). I guess the issue is, do parents these days take responsibility for this or do they just expect the school to catch their children up? & if they leave it to the school, where are the resources for this coming from?

Mollygo Fri 06-Sept-24 19:18:35

Rekarie

I'd say you're the exception, not the rule

No. Not in local schools where I live, nor in schools in other parts of the north west, but I’m not claiming it doesn’t happen.

tictacnana Fri 06-Sept-24 19:14:49

I couldn’t do it as I was a teacher ! Also as a single parent - with no help from the father. couldn’t afford holidays very often .

Rekarie Fri 06-Sept-24 19:07:49

I'd say you're the exception, not the rule

Mollygo Fri 06-Sept-24 19:03:13

Rekarie

Lots of schools close for polling day, Mollygo. I'm in the north west of England. We have a few here that close.

will take place during term time and as local returning officers can take over any state school to use as a polling station your child’s school could be closed

I think I'd find it very unlikely that schools would open with numerous people traipsing in and out all day.

I’m talking about NW schools it is the decision of the individual schools’ leadership teams whether they stay open or not

As I explained, we open one classroom. Voters are not allowed in the rest of the school buildings. It is possibly more difficult for older schools to do that.

Rekarie Fri 06-Sept-24 18:51:19

Lots of schools close for polling day, Mollygo. I'm in the north west of England. We have a few here that close.

will take place during term time and as local returning officers can take over any state school to use as a polling station your child’s school could be closed

I think I'd find it very unlikely that schools would open with numerous people traipsing in and out all day.

icanhandthemback Fri 06-Sept-24 18:46:27

LOUISA1523

Pippa22

GrannyGravy13 that isn’t quite it, after two periods of unauthorised absence you are taken to court which results in having a criminal record.
This has already started and is law so no ifs or buts and understanding headteachers that’s it.

Only if those unauthorised absences are reported to the council by the head .....which won't happen in many cases ....many heads will only refer on if its repeated .....most kids will be able to take a term time holiday per school year without getting referred to the council....it won't be authorised ....still logged as unauthorised....but the head still has discretion to decide what will be passed on for fines

Not these days. The new rules make it so the Head is duty bound to record all absences and to notify the appropriate authorities.

Mollygo Fri 06-Sept-24 18:45:05

V3ra
I’d love to know which schools close completely for polling. Local schools in our area have to close a classroom and make alternative entrances for children for H&S reasons-those classes are catered for elsewhere in the school.

Fascinating that people who would absolutely frown on those who say quite truthfully that “spanking never did me any harm” are happy to use the same excuse for taking term time holidays.
The answer, as many have said is to persuade holiday providers to stop hyping prices. But that’s not going to happen.

V3ra Fri 06-Sept-24 18:14:52

I find the hypocrisy of the government/councils/authorities, etc, appalling.

I take to and collect children from four different primary schools.

Two of them in the same academy trust, barely half a mile apart, are always required for polling days and both schools close completely for the day.

Another school on the other side of town, a different academy trust, makes the use of one room available for the election day and the rest of the school carries on as normal.

The fourth school, a Catholic church school, is never required and never closes for polling days.

Very unfair on the parents who always have to be inconvenienced and the children who always miss a day's education, while others never do.
I've heard some say this is one reason why they have no qualms taking their child out for a day if it suits them 🤷

Allira Fri 06-Sept-24 16:47:02

No, not 35! More like 25 years as she was at senior school, I'm not that terrible.

Allira Fri 06-Sept-24 16:45:58

I only realised this year what a terrible mother I was when DD confessed that she used to double back when I'd dropped her at school on my way to work, then go home and watch Wimbledon.
She seems to have done ok and the school never mentioned the unauthorised absences.
It was about 35 years ago.

LOUISA1523 Fri 06-Sept-24 16:35:15

Pippa22

GrannyGravy13 that isn’t quite it, after two periods of unauthorised absence you are taken to court which results in having a criminal record.
This has already started and is law so no ifs or buts and understanding headteachers that’s it.

Only if those unauthorised absences are reported to the council by the head .....which won't happen in many cases ....many heads will only refer on if its repeated .....most kids will be able to take a term time holiday per school year without getting referred to the council....it won't be authorised ....still logged as unauthorised....but the head still has discretion to decide what will be passed on for fines

Ziplok Fri 06-Sept-24 16:23:01

Schools - so inconvenient, aren’t they? 😏

biglouis Fri 06-Sept-24 16:21:54

As far as I can remember when I was a child the first week of a new term was taken up with bits of admin and the last few days with just playing about and clearing up the classroom. I was never taken out of school at those times but I certainly would not have missed much.

If parents are going to take their kids out during term time then they must bear some responsibility for helping the child make up the missed work, I wonder how many parents do that!

Chocolatelovinggran Fri 06-Sept-24 16:19:06

I did have a parent who told me that she suffered from a genetic condition which prevented her getting up in the morning.
She did offer to have him ready if I would pop round to pick him up.

missdeke Fri 06-Sept-24 16:18:10

When my kids were young my husband was a fireman and we had no choice as to when we had a holiday. Holidays were allocated. We didn't even have holidays abroad until my eldest was 9 when we had a self catering holiday in Sweden to explore where my mum was brought up. Our holiday were frequently in term time. Were my kids meant to not have holidays at all just because we were allocated term time holidays? I think most children, would not suffer from term time holidays, mine certainly didn't even though with summer birthdays they were the youngest in their classes. All left school with good qualifaications and are having successful lives.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 06-Sept-24 16:14:47

Mine and my siblings were taken out of school due to parents work commitments, we have turned out well

We took our five children out of school and they are all high achievers.

Chocolatelovinggran Fri 06-Sept-24 16:13:43

Holidays are only one aspect of attendance issues.
I found the one- day - off most weeks / regular late arrivals/ we don't do Mondays/ it was raining type parents exasperating.
One regular poor attender returned mid week, handing me a note from home, and when asked why she had been off, paused and said " what does it say in the letter ?"..

GrannyGravy13 Fri 06-Sept-24 16:11:42

grandtanteJE65

Parents are doing this e in many countries, or at least some of them are.

IMO there is only one way to stop i;a whopping great fine for each day each child is away from school for an unauthorised holiday.

That would soon make it cheaper to go on holiday during the school holidays.

And if the fines are not paid, authorise the Inland revenue to collect them from the parents' wages before their employers pay out the monthly wage.

Now that is rather silly.

Teachers have no qualms about striking, putting students in front of videos (usually Disney or light entertainment) during the last weeks of July.

But heaven forbid a poorly paid family want a holiday together and due to the parents work commitments they can only go in term time, let’s fine them into submission!!