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Doodledog Sat 14-Sept-24 21:54:11

A good friend of mine is moving to another area soon, and I’d like to get her a present but am not sure what to get.

We haven’t known one another long but have a lot in common. We share hobbies and interests so spend a fair bit of time together, and meet up outside of interest-related events and activities.

Anyway. She is downsizing so has got rid of a lot of things like books and personal possessions, so I don’t think getting that sort of thing would be appropriate. I’d like to get her something that would remind her of me, but I’m not sure what.

I think we’ll keep in touch and I know that I’ll miss her when she goes (she is moving to be near family, as she lives alone and is getting older).

I wondered about something to do with the town we both live in now. I have probably left it too late to commission something personalised though.

Does anyone have any ideas please?

Feelingmyage55 Sat 14-Sept-24 22:44:50

I would send flowers about a week after she has moved.

Greyisnotmycolour Sat 14-Sept-24 22:54:18

Will she have a garden ? If she will, I'd get a plant, maybe a flowering shrub that could go in a pot and won't need much maintenance.

Greyisnotmycolour Sat 14-Sept-24 22:55:47

Maybe a small print/painting of your current town as a reminder.

crazyH Sat 14-Sept-24 23:05:50

Greyisnotmycolour - I was thinking the same.

Or, a silver bracelet with the name of your town engraved

HelterSkelter1 Sun 15-Sept-24 05:59:40

I gave a friend, moving from our town, a book of photographs of the town from the 1800s onwards produced by the local historical society. But if she has a garden, patio or balcony you can't go wrong with a plant. Or an indoor one.

Mollygo Sun 15-Sept-24 09:46:07

I gave my friend who moved to NZ a framed tile with a painting of the local market square, but there is a shop that sells that sort of thing for tourists.
Otherwise I’d be with the plant givers.

Doodledog Sun 15-Sept-24 09:56:22

Thank you all. Yes, she is a keen gardener. I don’t want to give her something fragile that she’ll need to transport, but I could have something delivered later - that’s a good idea.

I am looking into getting a picture commissioned representing our ‘things’ in our town, but that will also have to be sent after she’s gone as the timescale is tight.

I had hoped to have a send off for her, and give her a gift then, but maybe I should adjust my ideas and concentrate on just getting it right.

There are books about our town, but I know she’s had to make difficult decisions about getting rid of books because of downsizing.

BigBopper Sun 15-Sept-24 10:02:53

My favourite gift which always goes down well especially when someone is moving into a new property, is a luxury M & S hamper depending on how good friends you are, otherwise a bunch of flowers, a bottle of wine and a Good luck in your new home card.

Greyisnotmycolour Sun 15-Sept-24 10:10:08

You could pop a photo of the plant in the leaving card so they know to expect it and it doesn't look like you haven't bothered to get anything.

Greyisnotmycolour Sun 15-Sept-24 13:38:35

I've been pottering in the garden and noticed the bird feeders, so that's another idea. if she already feeds birds she will probably have a few and there's always room for one more. If she doesn't then she could get started. There's a huge range of styles & to suit any budget.

Kim19 Sun 15-Sept-24 15:34:40

How about a 'snowscene' of something/place personal to you both.

Doodledog Sun 15-Sept-24 18:06:15

There are some great ideas here, thank you all.

gentleshores Sun 15-Sept-24 20:21:33

A friend of mine sent me a lovely ornament for the Christmas tree. It was a porcelain bell. I think of her every time I hang it on the Christmas tree :-) It's lovely and I'm careful with it.

I can't see anything similar online. Emma Shipley also has some lovely ceramic things. The mugs come beautifully boxed

emmajshipley.com/collections/mugs

gentleshores Sun 15-Sept-24 20:23:46

Wedgewood has some nice Christmas tree ceramic ornaments :-)

www.wedgwood.com/en-gb/home-decor/christmas-decorations-and-ornaments/christmas-decorations#aq=%40categories%20%3D%3D%20(%22Christmas_Decorations_2024%22%2C%22Christmas%20Decorations%22)&numberOfResults=27

NotSpaghetti Sun 15-Sept-24 23:47:13

It depends on how much you want to spend and how you know each other.

What about some tea from Fortnum and Mason?
Or a small F&M hamper?

sweetcakes Mon 16-Sept-24 12:37:09

Some lovely ideas here especially the Christmas ornament.
What about a throw for her chair every time she snuggles she will think of you. I've been on the receiving end of a M&S gift and it was lovely or a Cornish gift box that contains scones, jam, biscuits, tea, as well as cornish pasties.

Frenchgalinspain Mon 16-Sept-24 12:51:07

I think a Christmas tree ornament could be an extraordinary gift.

The other choice mentioned that I thought was exceptional and personalised is the silver bracelet ..

A few thoughts, with autumn and winter coming:

1) A furry throw blanket for the sofa in a neutral color ..

2) A gorgeous wool scarf in her favourite color(s) ..

3) A gift box of teas, marmalades, biscuits, scones or cheeses and charcuterie ..

Doodledog Mon 16-Sept-24 12:52:39

A Christmas bauble is a great idea. If I can find one with a reference to Hometown, even better.

Applegran Mon 16-Sept-24 13:05:34

You can order a special map from Ordinance Survey with her new home in the middle. You tell the OS what to write on the outer cover and you supply a photo too - so you could put a picture of her and call the map 'Person's name new home' or something like that.

Applegran Mon 16-Sept-24 13:08:00

shop.ordnancesurvey.co.uk/custom-made/

You can get a folded map or a framed one - the framed ones cost more.

NotSpaghetti Mon 16-Sept-24 13:26:26

Good idea Applegran
I have gifted these - both the old area and the new. They have been well received.

The other nice gift was an ariel photograph.

knspol Mon 16-Sept-24 13:56:38

A hamper is a nice idea to be delivered once she arrives at her new home or maybe a photo frame with a pic of the two of you on some outing you enjoyed?

cc Mon 16-Sept-24 14:10:56

Greyisnotmycolour

Will she have a garden ? If she will, I'd get a plant, maybe a flowering shrub that could go in a pot and won't need much maintenance.

Yes, sounds like a lovely idea. Perhaps a garden centre voucher would be good, and maybe you could offer to go with her to choose it if she won't be too far away?

Llamedos13 Mon 16-Sept-24 14:17:33

Checkout lotsy.co.uk. They make personalized prints.I recently ordered one for a family member moving from Canada to Barbados and was very impressed with the print. I will attach a picture so you get the idea. You can choose colours, what the message is and pinpoint on the map where you are moving from and where you are going.