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"That old lady"

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eggplant Wed 09-Oct-24 12:48:19

MissAdventure

nanasam

Surely, if you accept that you're old then you ARE old. I'm not letting that person in.

You're old, regardless.
All the trendy clothes and whatever makes no difference to the year you were born.

By "you", I mean "one".

There is nothing wrong with being old; it's natural.

I agree Miss A. We are what we are. Its a strange thing this reluctance to be otherwise.

Perhaps it depends on extrenal factors? I was a much older Mum than many, so I fitted in with 20 somethings when I was nearly 40.
My own parents were extremely old and I wasn't " like that"
Now I am old. It is what it is.

Sarnia Wed 09-Oct-24 12:43:33

75 is officially old but age is but a number. When I was in my early 60's one of my granddaughters who was helping me celebrate my birthday informed me that I was 'getting to really big numbers now, Granny'.

MissAdventure Wed 09-Oct-24 12:43:32

Me?
Or "one"? smile

Allira Wed 09-Oct-24 12:42:34

MissAdventure

nanasam

Surely, if you accept that you're old then you ARE old. I'm not letting that person in.

You're old, regardless.
All the trendy clothes and whatever makes no difference to the year you were born.

By "you", I mean "one".

There is nothing wrong with being old; it's natural.

But are you old in your head?

MissAdventure Wed 09-Oct-24 12:40:56

nanasam

Surely, if you accept that you're old then you ARE old. I'm not letting that person in.

You're old, regardless.
All the trendy clothes and whatever makes no difference to the year you were born.

By "you", I mean "one".

There is nothing wrong with being old; it's natural.

Allira Wed 09-Oct-24 12:39:36

Old people behave with decorum, don't they?

I haven't reached that stage yet so I can't be old.

HousePlantQueen Wed 09-Oct-24 12:37:28

What a great attitude vampirequeen!

nanasam Wed 09-Oct-24 12:37:26

Surely, if you accept that you're old then you ARE old. I'm not letting that person in.

gulligranny Wed 09-Oct-24 12:36:01

I accept that I'm old (79) but I'm definitely not grown up ...

vampirequeen Wed 09-Oct-24 12:34:25

Since we were 50, DH and I have been growing down. We'd done the grown up stuff and it was boring so we decided that, as long as it didn't hurt anyone, we would do whatever we wanted regardless of what people thought. So if you see a rather large lady up a tree or playing in an adventure playground before the children arrive, that's probably me grin

MissAdventure Wed 09-Oct-24 12:29:08

When I got ill.

Rosiebee Wed 09-Oct-24 12:27:36

At the supermarket last week, there were some young boys offering to help with packing. They belonged to a sports charity. I declined politely and just gave them a donation. I'd previously had a bad experience of squashed bread and fruit etc after letting someone else do my packing. I carried on and heard one of the group say "Have you asked that old lady?" I looked around but couldn't see any old dears and was horrified to realise they meant me. I'm 72 and still waiting to feel grown up. I do remember when I was 13, finding out that David McCallum was in his 30s and felt heartbroken that he was sooo old. When did you start to feel "old" or are you like me, still waiting?