Am I asking too much

Get well soon. My husband is used to me doing everything and gets very grumpy when I am poorly (which is rarely) and I need help. I am recovering at present from an operation and it would be so lovely to have a meal cooked for me. As we are retired now I am encouraging him to be more hands on but difficult to stand back and see the chaos. I have brought this on myself as I am fussy how I like things done😂

Hope you soon feel better

Rainbow

Get well soon Rainbow24!

Thank you all for your best wishes. I think the nail has been hit on the head I never ask for help, usually it’s me that puts myself out! Have a good day x

He is just being a whinge bag. A member of my family is like that but has a heart of gold.

I guess you do everything for him and he's not used to being put out.
My ex husband was like that. If asked for him to do something.
I'd have to wait.
Different if a friend asked, he would be there like a shot.
Yes, hurtful isn't it.
Get well soon.

Do feel sorry for you as not being well his moaning is the last thing you want to hear. Never mind. He is probably used to you being fit and independent so not used to being asked to do anything outside his routine. Some men,unlike most women, find being adaptable to circumstances quite difficult.

He was being unreasonable if the shoe was on the other foot….
Don’t be so easily available when he needs your help he has a lesson to learn maybe. Hope you feel better soon 💐

Just want to say get well soon.

Does he eat breakfast?
Does he take lunch to work?

If not, maybe he should!

Absolutely he is a miserable git. Picking up a prescription is something you'd do for a random neighbour if they asked to you to, you shouldn't need to think twice about doing it for your partner no matter what the inconvenience to yourself. He is well out of order. I hope you're better soon.

Men eh? Glad I’m single !!
Hope you feel better soon

Try not to let it upset you too much just concentrate on getting better. If you’ve been together 35 years I’m sure the opportunity will arise when you can make your point in no small detail as to how upset you were and make sure he ‘gets it!’

Revenge is a dish best served cold!

Of course you are not asking too much.
Sending you lots of get well wishes

Yep.
He's a miserable sod!

Assuming you’re married, as you refer to him as your husband, didn’t he marry you in sickness and in health? He’s a misery guts, imo.

I hope you feel better soon.