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Babs03 Wed 16-Oct-24 21:02:46

Are you superstitious?
I always salute a single magpie and say ‘hello Mr Magpie how’s your lady wife,’ which can be embarrassing in public 😂
I will not put new shoes on the table or open an umbrella inside the house.
One of my SiLs has parents who will not eat a banana when travelling.
Any other superstitions people have?
The stranger the better. 🤪

MissAdventure Wed 23-Oct-24 20:43:00

How about not having the pram in the house before your baby is born?

Babs03 Wed 23-Oct-24 21:50:50

MissAdventure

How about not having the pram in the house before your baby is born?

I think this must be because until a baby is born there is always the chance something unfortunate might happen and the baby might not make it.
One of my daughters who suffered a terrible miscarriage insisted that we keep all the baby stuff at our house until the baby was safely born.

Babs03 Wed 23-Oct-24 21:56:27

Babs03

Are you superstitious?
I always salute a single magpie and say ‘hello Mr Magpie how’s your lady wife,’ which can be embarrassing in public 😂
I will not put new shoes on the table or open an umbrella inside the house.
One of my SiLs has parents who will not eat a banana when travelling.
Any other superstitions people have?
The stranger the better. 🤪

When I posted this I hadn't a clue why my SiLs parents will not eat a banana when travelling and nobody else on the thread could either so of course when we saw them recently I asked them and apparently it is because the father's father served in the navy for many years and was a superstition at sea that eating a banana could be dangerous because a sailor could slip on the skin and fall into the sea. There are apparently many other superstitions. But anyway this supersition was passed down and became associated with any kind of travel.
xx

Granmarderby10 Wed 23-Oct-24 22:13:29

MissAdventure I think the superstition about the pram may come from the sad reality of infant mortality at one time. So perhaps not as silly as some.

Debbi58 Wed 23-Oct-24 22:15:08

This thread made me wonder if superstitions are dying out . I remember my grandmother and Mother saying a few whilst growing up . But I never told my daughters any , they're 32 now . My granddaughter who's 14 has never heard of superstitions before

MissAdventure Wed 23-Oct-24 22:17:38

Yes, it makes sense, at least.
It's just that my mum reacted as if I'd done the worst thing ever when I got my new secondhand pram.

Elegran Thu 24-Oct-24 09:43:26

I should think many superstitions began as sensible reactions to cause-and-effect. No new shoes on the table, for instance. Could it be that if the new shoes were made of leather from the hide of an animal which had died of anthrax, enough of the spores of the deadly disease remained to contaminate the table or any food on it and cause a death in the house? Before the means of the spread of infection were known, it was just a mysterious and unpleasant death. It is an unlikely thing to happen now, but the superstition would be remembered.

Maybe if people who are plagued by superstitious dreads could analyse why certain things or actions became a cause for worrying they would be able to ignore them?

Religious taboos (some seeming very similar to superstition) might date back to genuine safety concerns, too. Take not eating pork, an ancient dietary rule which is also followed by people with no religious reason to do so. In Old Testament times, most people in the Middle East lived their lives in small villages with little or no sanitation, using the great outdoors instead. There was no municipal cleaning department either - that function was performed by wandering swine, who ate anything they could find lying around. In these conditions, pork could easily become infected with parasites, picked up from the faeces of an infected person. I won't go into the life cycle of that parasite, but if you didn't eat pork, you avoided infection. Nowadays pig farmers are careful what they feed to their pigs, but the habit of not eating pork lives on.

Witzend Thu 24-Oct-24 09:46:21

I could understand the magpie-greeting thing when they were a relatively rare sight, but since they’ve been a protected species, we have masses of them around here. Too many, TBH!

sazz1 Thu 24-Oct-24 23:05:34

My French gran wouldn't have lilac in the house. OK in the garden but bad luck in the house

Crossstitchfan Fri 25-Oct-24 12:09:54

sazz1

My French gran wouldn't have lilac in the house. OK in the garden but bad luck in the house

My Welsh grandmother was the same, and so was my Mum!

Fleurpepper Fri 25-Oct-24 12:14:51

none

lizzypopbottle Fri 25-Oct-24 23:19:45

NotSpaghetti I hadn't heard of that version.