Staying overnight with friends

When I stay with one DD I have my own bedroom with ensuite. With my other daughter I have my own bedroom but share the bathroom with my DGD'S, they don't hear me when I get up in the night.
I wouldn't be comfortable sharing a bathroom with other adults.
When it's DH and I we always stay in a hotel.

Goodness me
I have never considered staying anywhere other than with family if I m visiting
Friends I don’t know? I ve never stayed with any ! Most of my friends are mainly local

When we visit one of our daughters, we have to share bathroom. Fine with such close family. ButI would not if I had to share with friends these days. Just stay nearby in Hôtel or B&B, etc. But do not stop visiting.

It wouldn’t be an issue for me, sharing a bathroom with another couple but not having a second loo in the home would be I think.

We stay with friends but there are two bathrooms. Same when they come here. I suggest booking a B n B or and Air
BnB.

Even when visiting my D I opt to stay at a nearby PI.
It suits me and it suits them.
Too old by far to share anything.

This interests me. As many of you know, we designed and built our own retirement home, to be comfortable for 2 of us day-to-day, and have space for visitors.
Upstairs we have our bedroom, with an en-suite, and one bathroom for the other 3 bedrooms (honestly, this felt like luxury!). But we have become aware of the issues you describe. When family stay, it really isn't an issue - there is a loo (and shower) in the ground floor and they are young enough to run up and down the stairs easily.
When a couple of our own age stay, usually they don't have to share the bathroom with anyone else, so other than wearing night clothes, it's not an issue.
However we are about to have a couple of our own age stay with us, and I was asked if some other folk could visit overnight and I said 'no' because I worried about the 'sharing'.
As lots of us grew up thinking one bathroom was a luxury, and for most it is still standard, I wondered if I was feeling a bit 'precious' but it seems it is shared by others.

The friends and family that we mostly stay with seem to have a bathroom quite handy that isn't shared with the hosts (as I type this, I feel rather 'posh'!)

I used to stay with a very good friend, but for similar reasons I decided to use a hotel. It works well this way. I am relaxed in my room with ensuite. I visit my friend for coffee /lunch at her home on one of the days and see other friends in between. Then I meet with my special friend again for lunch at a restaurant before returning home. This arrangement works well for us both, especially as we are getting older, it's less stressful all round.

When we go to visit our daughter in New Zealand, we always get an Aire B+B.

I’m very particular about where I stay now - I can’t/won’t for example share an ordinary double bed any more - I find it far too cramped.
TBH rather than stay with anyone but very close family nowadays, we’ll opt for the nearest Premier Inn, or equivalent. Lovely big bed and your own bathroom. Plus a kettle and teabags!

I feel uncomfortable with sleeping in other people’s houses now too.
We usually book a Premier Inn for these sorts of visits.

I don't like staying over with people, even family, now. I usually book in somewhere nearby for the night and have a bathroom to myself.

I'd have problems, too.

That's why it's such a help to have a second loo, or at least a separate one.

Yes, I'd not like waiting/sharing a bathroom.

Hotels and B&B exist for such reason.

Yes, it would be a pain, I'm afraid. I'd be thinking I may wake them up going to the loo in the night. Ideal would be an ensuite!