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Does anyone actually know of anyone who had an unhealthy lifestyle but lived to a ripe old age?

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Kandinsky Thu 31-Oct-24 07:58:14

You often hear of the man who smoked 60 a day but lived to be 90, but have you ever known anyone personally like that?

I haven’t.

Sallywally1 Sat 09-Nov-24 08:17:46

There are always going to be exceptions,my own mum for one who smoked all her life and died age 92, but generally speaking giving up smoking is the best thing anyone can do for their health. Experts are also saying that any alcohol at all is bad for people. I think a little bit of what you fancy does you good, but would never smoke and that moderation is the key here (with the exception of smoking).

Kamiso Wed 06-Nov-24 11:06:11

MissAdventure

It's one of my pet hates, the "positive thinking" idea.

Obviously it's better for general wellbeing, and better to live that way, but I don't suppose any of the long lived people gave it much thought.

They just lived how they wanted.

This positive thinking cult can be very hurtful and damaging. My friend was diagnosed with a terminal cancer (delay due to an ignorant GP) and found the “stay positive and you’ll be cured” very hard to deal with

Catterygirl Tue 05-Nov-24 00:37:34

I have found this to be such an uplifting post.

Jaberwok Mon 04-Nov-24 16:27:05

Yes, my MIL, she smoked, and drank like a fish all her adult life, together with being one of the most unpleasant woman I've ever met, she lived to the ripe old age of 94 dying in her bed during an afternoon nap!

Allira Mon 04-Nov-24 16:05:39

I must try to find that 🙂

janeainsworth Mon 04-Nov-24 16:04:33

Although I have never met him, I am rather fond of Keith Richards. His interview on Desert Island Discs is a joy.
I agree Houseplantqueen. Loved his choice of music 🖤

Allira Mon 04-Nov-24 15:18:06

Kate1949

Keith Richards dead man walking. I read his autobiography. How he is still here is beyond me.

He's not aged well but he's still here!

HousePlantQueen Mon 04-Nov-24 15:07:34

Kate1949

Keith Richards dead man walking. I read his autobiography. How he is still here is beyond me.

Although I have never met him, I am rather fond of Keith Richards. His interview on Desert Island Discs is a joy.

Le15 Mon 04-Nov-24 14:26:21

im convinced your health is a lottery, my father smoked all his life, never very active, loved his tv ,and lived to 95. I had a friend who never drank, or smoked , was a vegeterian, went to the gym every day and died at 50! I had a well person check last week at the surgery and was told by someone half my age im 67 that my BMI was 1 point over 25 which apparently is the normal limit, i walk my dog for an hour every day, dont drink or smoke i like my cake and fish and chips ,she suggested i take up swimming and i said no thanks i think my walking is enough !!

Kate1949 Sun 03-Nov-24 23:15:57

Keith Richards dead man walking. I read his autobiography. How he is still here is beyond me.

Allira Sun 03-Nov-24 22:43:06

janeainsworth

Not that I know him personally, of course 😆

He looks older than 80!
Must be the life he's led.

Azalea99 Sun 03-Nov-24 22:07:39

I refuse to eat an all-natural diet because the majority of people die of natural causes

Milest0ne Sun 03-Nov-24 21:18:21

GGF was 95 when he died, I have a photo of him aged 87 wearing a leather coat and helmet and sat on a motorbike. Was that living dangerously? I wish I had known him.

janeainsworth Sun 03-Nov-24 20:12:04

Not that I know him personally, of course 😆

Smithsurvey Sun 03-Nov-24 19:12:28

We just lost my grandfather-in-law at the age of 105. He didn't smoke or drink and led an active life into his 80's but his diet was anything but good. He ate what he wanted when he wanted and was known to eat a full 6 pack of crisps in one day alongside his regular meals, cream cakes, biscuits chocolates and sweets! His doctor advised not to restrict his diet in the later years as the stress would cause more harm than the fat, salt and sugar. In the end he had a fall and had to move into a nursing home where he decided he was not hungry and refused to eat anything. He knew it would end his life but he made his decision and stuck to it.

singingnutty Sun 03-Nov-24 19:07:07

My Dad lived to 97 and ate few vegetables or fruit but a lot of sugar. He had all his teeth and only ever had a couple of fillings. I once asked him about how the troops cleaned their teeth during WWII when they were in combat etc and he said he never cleaned his teeth at all when in the army - in other words for 6 years! He did garden and do DIY until his 80’s but never walked at all and had a sedentary job.

NannyMags Sun 03-Nov-24 18:31:10

Yes, my granddad, he smoked a pipe and cigarettes (untipped) ate cream, butter, homemade cakes and pastries. He was a gunner in WW1 He loved his food, ate three good meals a day. Fried breakfast, cornflakes and toast with jam for breakfast. Cooked meal at lunch time and a sandwich, cake etc at tea-time. They always had cream crackers and cheese before bed. He was 96 when he died. Pneumonia got him in the end.

murrec Sun 03-Nov-24 17:29:28

I smoked for 40 years and didn’t have a particularly good diet until my middle years. I am 80 years old and although I have health issues I very rarely see a doctor. I walked 7 miles one day last week with no problems. I do feel very lucky.

hollysteers Sun 03-Nov-24 17:26:36

Babamaman An inspiring story!👍

Blinko Sun 03-Nov-24 17:12:07

My paternal Grandmother smoked 40 cigarettes a day, plus sherry and a pint of beer; took no exercise and was overweight. She lived till she was 87. As did her mother, my great grandmother, who was slim, lithe and active, didn’t smoke….

Musicgirl Sun 03-Nov-24 17:00:08

I have had asthma all my life. Almost all adults smoked in the sixties and seventies and I am sure that l was very much affected by passive smoking. Interestingly, it is becoming more and more recognised that the low fat diet that has been pushed on us for the past forty years is nowhere near as scientifically sound as we have been led to believe. Low fat margarine, for example, has no end of chemicals that turn into carbohydrates, aka sugars. Also all those chemicals cannot be good for us. The list of ingredients on these products is terrifying. Butter has one ingredient - milk - and two if a little salt is added. I have goats' butter as it helps my allergies. It tastes so much better, too.

SunnySusie Sun 03-Nov-24 16:28:19

My mum smoked for 75 years and died at the age of 91 from old age, never had any smoking related illness. Her diet consisted of every sweet thing known to mankind and three spoons of sugar in her tea, drinking 8 cups a day. She also loved bread and dripping, bacon, sausages and fried food in general. She was always slim and active.

BettyBoop49 Sun 03-Nov-24 16:14:29

Sorry! A second comment.
Does everyone want to live into their 90’s?
Do you? Not I thank you!

BettyBoop49 Sun 03-Nov-24 16:10:29

Yes. My Mum - smoked into her late seventies. Sedentary lifestyle - lived to 89.
My partners aunt - smoked like a chimney into her 80’s. Heavy wine and gin drinker - now 92!
My beloved Grandfather. Pipe smoker through life. Sedentary in later life - lived to 92.
It’s all in the genes!

Allira Sun 03-Nov-24 16:04:18

I like her style!

My MIL had clotted cream every day but only made it to 87.
She never ate fruit.