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Allsorts Sat 02-Nov-24 18:51:12

Recently seen a few women shop assistants over 50 with tattoos all over their visible skin, hand, neck and stopping only at their faces. Men too of course. One lady had spiders and webs as her art form. I know people will say its their choice but it turns my stomach. I’ve really tried but it’s as if I have a phobia so I don't shop there..

grandmac Mon 04-Nov-24 18:04:10

My daughter announced she was going to get “sleeves”. (Tattoos that cover the arms) I was horrified but so long as her husband and children don’t mind who am I to object. The first time I saw them I was surprised at how nice they looked. The design is beautiful and the colours are pretty. Still wouldn’t have one myself!

wetflannel Mon 04-Nov-24 19:55:36

What a lot of judgemental people on here. Tattoos are a personal choice but no one should be judged because they have them. I would draw the line on facial tattoos personally. I am 72 and proudly have 8 tattoos and skin sags with age tattoos or no tattoos. Not all tattoos are stencils either, mine were designed for me personally. As the old saying goes don't just books by their covers. Tattoos have no bearing on how a person is in their heart.

wetflannel Mon 04-Nov-24 19:57:20

Judge not just predictive text (angry)

ordinarygirl Mon 04-Nov-24 20:19:49

I don't understand tattoos unless for the radiologist to direct radiotherapy or to cover a scar. What will happen in years to come when fashion changes ?
Whilst I don't understand piercing ( I recently saw a lady with 15 gold earrings in each ear), the jewellery can at least be sold or traded in the future. You can't remove skin to trade .
I have no idea of what a tattoo actually costs but my question is in the current economic climate - should people pay for the tattoos
and how much does it cost to remove a tattoo?
I suppose the plus side is that the tattoo industry has created employment for several people

Aveline Mon 04-Nov-24 20:30:21

MissInterpreted I'm tattooed and judgemental! grin

Fleurpepper Mon 04-Nov-24 20:41:24

Just don't get it. The people I know who have lots and lots of tatooes all over are artists- and constantly complain they have no money. But those tatooes cost 1000s.

Fleurpepper Mon 04-Nov-24 20:44:42

What is the difference between tatooes and plastic surgery?

debsf1 Mon 04-Nov-24 21:08:43

I had my first tattoo done at the ripe old age of 60. I’m now 67, I have tattoos on my inner forearm, my upper arms and both outer calves. Each one has a particular meaning attached to it. In 2 weeks time I am having more added to my calves. I do them for me, no one else. If someone doesn’t like my tattoos that’s their issue not mine, in fact I have had more compliments about them than negative comments. Until I retired last year I worked in Crematoriums and as a Funeral Director. No one ever complained, nor did they complain about my young female colleague who had lots of very visible tattoos and piercings, in fact she was regularly praised for her empathy and caring manner when dealing with bereaved families.

Milest0ne Mon 04-Nov-24 21:25:08

Calendargirl

I also think they look dirty, and maintain that what looks acceptable on a young, trim person does not look anything like that on an old, wrinkled, overweight pensioner.

I saw a cartoon of two old wrinklies playing "Guess the tattoo"
Hilarious.
The only use I can see of having a tattoo is if you have a serious allergy, diabetes or a rare blood group

Rusume Mon 04-Nov-24 21:48:28

I have a tiny butterfly settling on a rose on my shoulder blade. Naturally I've never seen it up close except in the mirror and I forget it's there. Not long after I had it done my then 16-year old DD had both her eyebrow and her tongue pierced without telling me. I went absolutely ape** but all she said was that she could remove hers at any time but my tattoo was permanent and there was nothing i could say about it. That was nearly 25 years ago. Her piercings are long gone and healed over but, of course, I still have my tattoo! grin

Silverlady333 Mon 04-Nov-24 23:17:58

I don't find tattoos offensive. Some are very badly done and others are works of art. However this advert put me off ever having one myself www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrFfkbkT4ig

MissAdventure Mon 04-Nov-24 23:24:42

I saw on youtube a young woman who allowed her 3x to tattoo her back.
He did a great big pile of poo (not literally!)!

Grams2five Tue 05-Nov-24 02:58:57

They’re not for me either I’ve never seen one I thought attractive or good looking enough to think it should be there for life. And fry though I might I find o shy away from people covered in them because I cat fathom the thought process. Sadly for me one of my ds has a few on his arms and while I’d never say anything to him - his arms his life and all that I can’t help but feel a little ping of hurt whenever I see them. They’re just so ugly to me and he was always such a handsome young man.

VenusDeVillendorf Tue 05-Nov-24 04:16:14

My favourite tattoo is:

“NO RAGRETS”

Hilarious!

VenusDeVillendorf Tue 05-Nov-24 04:19:55

Although this is quite an interesting book
on Japanese Tattoos It’s worth a glance!

Midnightblue Tue 05-Nov-24 08:14:51

I did toy with the idea of having my mastectomy scar tattooed. I even had a design in mind.
I didn’t think I’d be able to find a tattooist to trust, and I think most tattooists seem to just have a catolgue of designs to choose from. Mostly gothic designs, spiders webs, skulls and the like.
The only tattoo I’ve seen that I liked was a young woman who had a beautiful fern on her forearm. She said her daughter was called Fern.
I once saw a young woman who’d had half her face tattooed. It looked like it had been an act of self harm. Felt so sorry for her.

sunglow12 Tue 05-Nov-24 08:52:41

I think I have met a few young ladies with that problem . One said her husband had 42 and had a bargain 3 for about £1000 for a few years - money they probably needed for their very young family .

Primrose53 Tue 05-Nov-24 09:00:08

I think what a lot of people fail to realise is that tattoos soon date just like clothes, shoes and haircuts!

Just yesterday I went to aqua aerobics and our instructor has one of those celtic bands tattooed around her upper arm. I would guess she is in her 50s. It must be about 25 years old and looked very dated.

I remember being on holiday abroad and loads of young Mums tattoos were very visible - their kids names at the base of their spine /top of backside.

GrauntyHelen Tue 05-Nov-24 12:52:48

Not for me but each to their own

Regina65 Tue 05-Nov-24 21:22:38

I'm 60 next year and never wanted a tattoo when I was younger I promised my mum ill never have one I kept that promise. Iwas born without them and shall die without them

MissAdventure Tue 05-Nov-24 21:28:55

These are beautiful, I think.

Silverlady333 Fri 08-Nov-24 12:21:30

I think a rose on a nubile body could look beautiful but more like a weed when the person is elderly!

Hithere Fri 08-Nov-24 12:37:58

Silverlady

Way to sexualize our gender, thank you very much!

Now I am going to vomit

Shinamae Sat 09-Nov-24 21:52:30

Now I consider this a work of art..

Gwyllt Sun 10-Nov-24 08:44:05

I think WORK OF ART is the key phrase
A well executed work of art can look fantastic. Unfortunately many seem to be created by very amateur xx. I hesitate to use the words tattoo artist