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What’s your idea of a favourite night out?

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Oreo Mon 02-Dec-24 20:37:24

What do you enjoy most from a night out? Is it a cosy meal out in your local Chinese restaurant with family, a candlelit romantic meal out with your DH/partner/toyboy, an evening at the theatre seeing a serious dramatic play, going to see a musical with a group of friends, a trip to the cinema/ ballet/ opera maybe?
My treat is an Italian restaurant local to me, with three friends, four ladies with plenty to say, lots of laughs, good food and wine.We love it.Life is busy for us all but we do this about four times a year.

foxie48 Tue 03-Dec-24 09:03:40

Kate 1949 I went to an outdoor Bootleg Beatles concert one summer. I went with a group of friends, had a lovely picnic and sang and danced the night away it was such a fun evening. Have a fantastic time.
I meet up with friends most weeks either for a meal, theatre or some other event. I usually enjoy being out and about but always enjoy the following evening when I like to stay home with OH and the dog.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 03-Dec-24 09:13:12

I love being out with Himself, family or friends. Or all three together sometimes. People are so important to our well being. Company is to be treasured no matter the ‘where or when’.

Daddima Tue 03-Dec-24 09:13:21

For me it used to be dinner then a concert or theatre, but nowadays I much prefer to go out for lunch or afternoon tea. I have long lost any notion for evening ‘functions’, so I tend to avoid them.

LaCrepescule Tue 03-Dec-24 10:25:17

Well, if I have to go out, it’s usually a film at our lovely independent cinema (walking distance) with friends or an early meal.
I much prefer doing things during the day now so I can be home in the evenings.
To think I was going to raves till well into my forties!

Kim19 Tue 03-Dec-24 10:37:06

Any occasion with family or friends over some sort of meal is a delight but finished off with a theatrical musical would totally ice my cake. Wonderful......

Mollygo Tue 03-Dec-24 10:37:54

Meal at our favourite tapas restaurant, then something, usually comedy at the local theatre.
We used to do it the other way round, but eating late doesn’t suit me anymore.

Oreo Tue 03-Dec-24 10:38:21

It’s common for older people, especially those who live alone to stop wanting to go out in the evenings, Mum in her 80’s has to be prised out by us but when we get to wherever we’re going she has a really enjoyable time.I also think that many won’t go out if it’s dark or drive, it’s understandable.
I agree FriedGreenTomatoes that family and friends are so important for our well being and that if they don’t like being out at night then a daytime treat can be arranged.It’s more difficult for those of us still working of course.

JackyB Tue 03-Dec-24 10:38:23

A glass of red wine, in a cosy venue with some live musjc, preferably where I know the musicians personally.

Not a meal out (I don't enjoy eating)

Oreo Tue 03-Dec-24 10:42:43

JackyB 😃wine
That reminds me of my Dad who used to be a fan of Dean Martin, ‘Little Old wine drinker me’ he used to sing it around our house ( Dad, not Dean)😁

Allira Tue 03-Dec-24 10:51:26

downtoearth

All of the above, but during the day, I am not a night person

Yes, I'd rather go out to lunch nowadays 🙂

Perhaps on a warm summer's evening, a meal outside at a local pub with a view, but otherwise, I'd rather not go out in the chilly winter evenings.

MissAdventure Tue 03-Dec-24 10:58:05

A nice pub lunch, sitting outside on a warm (not hot!) day.

A ploughman's lunch, even half a pint of bitter shandy, and sitting beneath trees, to enjoy the dappled light.

Oreo Tue 03-Dec-24 11:03:28

Why, you’re a poet MissA😃

MissAdventure Tue 03-Dec-24 11:09:06

grin

Cossy Tue 03-Dec-24 11:28:02

Meal with our besties, then something at the theatre!

We are so lucky we are 5 mins walk to our local theatre and there are a number of restaurants to choose from within close proximity,

sweetcakes Tue 03-Dec-24 12:53:31

On a warm night sitting outside eating a nice meal at a bistro with either friends or my hubby but definitely no children with in ear shot!

Cateq Tue 03-Dec-24 12:55:15

My perfect night out is usually early evening dinner with my DH, AC’s their partners and our DGDs. Having a family get together on 29/12 at home as AS2 is going away for Christmas.

TheWeirdoAgain59 Tue 03-Dec-24 13:13:06

Our local Fine Dine Indian Restaurant, 7eventi1, OMG I love their food!

Esmay Tue 03-Dec-24 13:15:09

It has to be live jazz .
It's great with a meal and a drink .

SillyNanny321 Tue 03-Dec-24 14:42:57

Another Status Quo gig or if he was anywhere near this time round after seeing him twice in his talk gigs Francis Rossi!

Babs03 Tue 03-Dec-24 14:48:32

Recently we have been babysitting so our worn out daughters and SiLs can have a night out. They put fun snacks out and we look up what’s on Netflix and enjoy the whole experience.
A bit boring am sure.

boyjess Tue 03-Dec-24 14:51:30

Indian for me

pen50 Tue 03-Dec-24 17:51:31

A good dinner with good company.

gentleshores Tue 03-Dec-24 17:53:57

Theatre, but it doesn't happen very often!

M0nica Tue 03-Dec-24 18:23:11

A night at the opera, not grand and glitzy at Covent Garden but any touring opera performing at a local theatre, church, or garden or even the amateur groups that perform real opera and whose productions are often of an exceptionally high quality.

Etoile2701 Tue 03-Dec-24 19:58:44

My favourite night out is to stay in and watch TV. I don't go out in the evenings