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Dinahmo Sat 21-Dec-24 13:32:54

Born in 1947, benefitted from the NHS and grammar schools.

Throughout my school years everyone seemed to come from similar backgrounds - middle class I suppose. I and my siblings had an enjoyable time - we were able to roam freely and without fear. There was little mention of strange danger; just don't take lifts or sweets from strangers. If we went out for an adventure we were told to be back by a certain time and we were.

I moved to London in 1966 when it was easy to find a flat to rent, grim as they were. It was also easy to move from job to job. Womens' Lib came into being and life was pretty good for me and my friends and acquaintances.

I didn't want to go to Uni, despite the protestations of my Dad who worked at UCL. I just wanted to earn my own money and have a good time. Both of which I did.

I met my future DH when I was 21 and together we went to many music events. I had started when I was at school, seeing Bob Dylan at the Albert Hall and the Tamla Motown Road Show amongst many. In fact it's easier for me to say whom I did not see rather than list those that I did.

There were dozens of venues, often attached to a pub where entry was often free but the price of drinks was higher.

We did not buy a house until we were 32 and that was only because my GM had died and I borrowed 1/2 the deposit from my Dad. The other 1/2 came from my tax savings (I was self employed at that time). Yet young people (sometimes in their early 20s) today bemoan the fact that they cannot buy a house.

By choice we are child free. Had we had children neither of us could have worked as we did. My DH was self employed from the age of 21 and I had a mixture of employment an SE. I was not particularly ambitious and only changed job when I go bored. That was until we moved to Suffolk and my job moved to Milton Keynes.

I am content with my life. We have a nice house with lots of art works which have been acquired during many years of jumble sales and car boots. We are not rich and don't have good pensions which is why I continue to work. Luckily I enjoy and have had some of my clients for more than 40 years.

Every now and then I wonder what the grown up children of our friends think about the current situation in the world, especially because most of them have children of their own.

There are wars everywhere it seems - Ukraine, Middle East and threats from Russia and China and atrocities on all continents.

The mass of people are discontented and who can blame them? Their discontent has brought about the rise of the extreme right the world over. There are atrocities everywhere. The MRC Militia, with the aid of thousands of soldiers from Rwanda are raping women and executing young children. Mass graves have been found in Syria. The list goes on.

We mustn't forget global warming and the destruction of the rain forests.

So my question is, what do you think will happen in the future and does it worry you for your children and, more importantly perhaps, for your grandchildren?

Skydancer Sun 22-Dec-24 14:36:35

Caleo

The biosphere as we know it will very soon collapse, a matter of a few years now. Our only hope is in new technology.

Meanwhile politics world wide is showing a trend towards the right and even dictatorships with accompanying atrocities.

You are correct, Caleo. We are burying our heads in the sand while we destroy the environment. As you say, unless science comes up with something fast there’s no hope for humans. The planet will of course carry on without us.

Dickens Sun 22-Dec-24 14:23:26

Iam64

Well said Dickens. In my work, it was accepted that some tasks were more easily completed at home. We shared offices, writing detailed histories or reports in the middle of a busy office was less efficient than doing that from home, 20/30 years ago.
Plus carriadagain - your conspiracy theories on covid vax aren’t supported by the evidence

Plus carriadagain - your conspiracy theories on covid vax aren’t supported by the evidence

There's a whole heap of fact-checked evidence to debunk the conspiracy theories Iam64, but it's a slog and doesn't have the appeal of short, 'catchy' phraseology that conspiracy theorists like to latch on to, generally speaking. So might be ignored.

www.factcheck.org/2023/04/scicheck-no-evidence-excess-deaths-linked-to-vaccines-contrary-to-claims-online/

Cossy Sun 22-Dec-24 14:06:18

CariadAgain

One thing that's been overlooked by those of a more "positive" take on things - or rather two.

The "Covid" Lockdown - when, afaik, I don't think Britain got "locked down" for literally centuries before that. That's one of the downsides of the Internet - as in They wouldnt have been able to stage a Lockdown if we hadn't had the Internet. Then the Covid Jabs coming along shortly after that started up - and people are still having "sudden deaths" and illness from them ever since.

Neither of those two types of things happened in anything remotely like our lifetime - until 2020. So yep....the evidence life has become noticeably worse than it was for quite some time before....

I did read exactly which "plague" type illnesses came along just in my lifetime alone - and there were 4 or 5 - but the difference was there wasn't a Lockdown for any of them (ie because there wasn't an Internet then and there wasn't such a culture of "work or shirk" from home then - as jobs didn't lend themselves to it). Some worked - but a lot did shirk.

As someone who WFH before, during and after lockdown, I find your “shirk” remark really patronising, offensive and inaccurate, imo, those few (not many) who did “shirk” are those who same people that when in their offices etc. “shirk” there just as much!

Parsley3 Sun 22-Dec-24 13:57:14

My grandmother, born 1901, was always complaining that things were so much better in her young day and that the world was going to hell in a handcart. She died in 1976. Since she grew up with 11 children and 2 adults in a two roomed tenement flat and lived through poverty and two world wars, I am not sure about her judgement. Having been subjected to her doom and gloom take on modern life, I was determined that I would not repeat the pattern of being an old misery to my young family members. Bluebell's post about selective memories is spot on. Life will go on for our descendents because they will deal with whatever life throws at them as we have had to so I am not worried about the future of the UK or the World. It will just be different.

Caleo Sun 22-Dec-24 13:42:45

Iam64

Caleo Sun 22-Dec-24 13:42:09

"Caleo- our only hope is in each other and ourselves. Cup at least half full always and at this time of year at least threecquarters"

For the next few years maybe but when the crunch comes it will be every man for himself and his immediate family.

CountessFosco Sun 22-Dec-24 13:35:44

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Iam64 Sun 22-Dec-24 13:35:43

Caleo- our only hope is in each other and ourselves. Cup at least half full always and at this time of year at least threecquarters

Caleo Sun 22-Dec-24 13:32:53

The biosphere as we know it will very soon collapse, a matter of a few years now. Our only hope is in new technology.

Meanwhile politics world wide is showing a trend towards the right and even dictatorships with accompanying atrocities.

RosiesMaw2 Sun 22-Dec-24 13:26:31

Well, whatever.
I’m delighted somebody saw fit to start this jolly light-hearted thread just in case any of us might be feeling down or nostalgic as we contemplate Christmas or a bleak future without loved ones.
If all else fails we can always “Put our heads between our knees and kiss our arse goodbye”
In the face of all this doom and gloom, is it worth even thinking “Happy New Year” ?

Iam64 Sun 22-Dec-24 13:18:19

Well said Dickens. In my work, it was accepted that some tasks were more easily completed at home. We shared offices, writing detailed histories or reports in the middle of a busy office was less efficient than doing that from home, 20/30 years ago.
Plus carriadagain - your conspiracy theories on covid vax aren’t supported by the evidence

NotSpaghetti Sun 22-Dec-24 13:12:05

I agree Dickens. Misplaced.

Dickens Sun 22-Dec-24 12:36:50

CariadAgain

One thing that's been overlooked by those of a more "positive" take on things - or rather two.

The "Covid" Lockdown - when, afaik, I don't think Britain got "locked down" for literally centuries before that. That's one of the downsides of the Internet - as in They wouldnt have been able to stage a Lockdown if we hadn't had the Internet. Then the Covid Jabs coming along shortly after that started up - and people are still having "sudden deaths" and illness from them ever since.

Neither of those two types of things happened in anything remotely like our lifetime - until 2020. So yep....the evidence life has become noticeably worse than it was for quite some time before....

I did read exactly which "plague" type illnesses came along just in my lifetime alone - and there were 4 or 5 - but the difference was there wasn't a Lockdown for any of them (ie because there wasn't an Internet then and there wasn't such a culture of "work or shirk" from home then - as jobs didn't lend themselves to it). Some worked - but a lot did shirk.

...there wasn't such a culture of "work or shirk" from home then

When I worked in Norway in the early 2000s it was not infrequently impossible to get into the office because heavy snow made some routes impassable, so we worked from home.

The owner of the company I worked for was so pleased with the results that he called a meeting and asked us if we'd like to consider WFH on a structured regular basis.

Some people shirk when they are in the office, gabbing away on private telephone calls or with their colleagues, as they do when WFH.

Others get on with the job either in the office or at home. My sales-figures improved when WFH because I like a peaceful and quiet environment without the constant and disruptive interruptions from colleagues.

Your blanket condemnation is misplaced.

CariadAgain Sun 22-Dec-24 12:10:59

One thing that's been overlooked by those of a more "positive" take on things - or rather two.

The "Covid" Lockdown - when, afaik, I don't think Britain got "locked down" for literally centuries before that. That's one of the downsides of the Internet - as in They wouldnt have been able to stage a Lockdown if we hadn't had the Internet. Then the Covid Jabs coming along shortly after that started up - and people are still having "sudden deaths" and illness from them ever since.

Neither of those two types of things happened in anything remotely like our lifetime - until 2020. So yep....the evidence life has become noticeably worse than it was for quite some time before....

I did read exactly which "plague" type illnesses came along just in my lifetime alone - and there were 4 or 5 - but the difference was there wasn't a Lockdown for any of them (ie because there wasn't an Internet then and there wasn't such a culture of "work or shirk" from home then - as jobs didn't lend themselves to it). Some worked - but a lot did shirk.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sun 22-Dec-24 11:47:03

I’m optimistic because of A.I. in ways we can barely comprehend yet. The young ones will harness this.

Dickens Sun 22-Dec-24 11:38:51

David49

For the last 50 yrs the UK has been slowly sinking, we have been spending more than we have been earning, selling ever more national assets to the highest bidder. The rich get richer the poor get poorer, do I realistically expect any polititian to change that - no, we all want jam today it’s not going to happen.

... we all want jam today it’s not going to happen.

We want jam today- because we are continually promised jam tomorrow.

... and not only do we not get the jam, increasingly the bread on which to put it is in short supply also.

I think most reasonable people just want a decent wage, food on the table, and an affordable roof over their heads. In the 21st century in one of the world's wealthiest countries, it really should not be too much to be asking.

blue14 Sun 22-Dec-24 10:58:35

No, I don't actually worry about the future BUT I do often wonder what this country and the world will be like in 50 years regarding ever evolving technology, climate change, pollution - etc. etc.
I'd love to 'come back' just to see the changes.

nanna8 Sun 22-Dec-24 10:44:12

When my children were babies I was able to stay home with them until they went to kindergarten and we could live reasonably off my husband’s wage. I don’t think that is so easy these days, mums have to resume work a lot earlier because of the massive mortgages hanging over them. I don’t worry so much about climate change because that has been going on since time began and there is not much we can actually do about it. We are not King Canute. Way back then the seas were much higher and a lot of our land was under water. There were ice ages and species were wiped out. For the last 200 years we have been closely monitoring things and kidding ourselves that it is different from what it has always been. Have we had a Lake Taupo event ? Did the sky darken for weeks? Have we had a Pompey event ? Where were the cars that caused those events? Where was the fossil fuels that caused those events?

Mamie Sun 22-Dec-24 10:05:46

I worry most about climate change and the increasing number of appalling weather events we are seeing. Above all I want our grandchildren to be able live on a planet where people care about the environment and do their best to halt thoughtless destruction.

NotSpaghetti Sun 22-Dec-24 10:04:20

TeriT - we now, of course know that
the miners strikes continued with all the violence
Was perpetrated by our own government - by Margaret Thatcher's own directive.
...not her finest hour.

Cossy Sun 22-Dec-24 09:59:15

BlueBelle

I think sone people have very selective memories and just want continual digs and fears about ‘strangers taking over Our land’
(especially brown strangers not so bad if they're white or European )
Etc etc I m with Monica, being born at the end of the war I remember many frightening times I have a picture I painted as a teenager of my fear for the people starving in Biafra It’s a very very ‘dark’ picture, and made a huge impact on me
then there was the Suez crisis and I remember being very scared of a world war starting I remember hearing about the dreadful black shirts and Oswald Mosely Then there was the horrendous Enoch Powel and his rivers of blood
The Vietnam war remember the little girl running from te bomb isn’t that a picture imprinted on your mine then the Vietnamese boat people coming here
I remember worrying about Russia and their power many times over the years , then there were all the strikes in the 70s
(was it 70 s) with only having electricity so many hours a day
The awful fears nearer home over Ireland the dreadful IRA bombs going off in shopping centres/ malls etc
No I don’t believe there has ever been a time to not see fear or worry about the world going up in Smoke

And as for youngsters not getting houses my mum and dad were in their 60 s when they got their first mortgage I was in my 40 s when I got mine my paternal family never had one they were in council housing all their lives
Rose coloured glasses
As for the original question no it’s no more worrying than it’s always been, up and down, never smooth, just like life really

I completely agree.

Cossy Sun 22-Dec-24 09:57:56

I’m 66 and feel that nothing much is that grimmer than now. I still remember from my youth sad and terrible things happening, wars happening, the miners strike, power cuts, children starving in Biafra, my friend at primary school had a baby sister who died in a car accident as no baby seats or seat belts.

There was much less traffic in the roads and communities knew it each other as people tended not to move so far away from family. This meant children played outside on their own more.

There was no social media so we knew less of what went on, “nasty” people didn’t have a “dark web” in which to unite.

We have 5 wonderful children between us and wouldn’t ever ever wish not to have had them.

NotSpaghetti Sun 22-Dec-24 09:54:04

Dinahmo I think you are maybe forgetting the conflicts - I can't even describe the anxiety I felt for my children during the cold war.
That cast an enormous shadow over my life and my continued respect for the women of Greenham Common (remember ^Women for Life on Earth) - who led the protest against having American Cruise missiles here on our soil in the UK is real and sincere.

Don't you remember the apartheid struggles in South Africa and the thousands of us that protested/boycotted/wrote letters/saw our MPs to campaign for change?
And then the wars in Afghanistan...

joannapiano Sun 22-Dec-24 09:38:15

I grew up in the 50’s, in a three bedroom rented house, with two families and my Nan, no bathroom and an outside toilet. Heating was one coal fire. Bullying father.
Life is so much better for my grandchildren, the girls in particular have many more opportunities.
I think the world has always had various conflicts, dating back to the Stone Age probably.

BlueBelle Sun 22-Dec-24 09:03:41

I think sone people have very selective memories and just want continual digs and fears about ‘strangers taking over Our land’
(especially brown strangers not so bad if they're white or European )
Etc etc I m with Monica, being born at the end of the war I remember many frightening times I have a picture I painted as a teenager of my fear for the people starving in Biafra It’s a very very ‘dark’ picture, and made a huge impact on me
then there was the Suez crisis and I remember being very scared of a world war starting I remember hearing about the dreadful black shirts and Oswald Mosely Then there was the horrendous Enoch Powel and his rivers of blood
The Vietnam war remember the little girl running from te bomb isn’t that a picture imprinted on your mine then the Vietnamese boat people coming here
I remember worrying about Russia and their power many times over the years , then there were all the strikes in the 70s
(was it 70 s) with only having electricity so many hours a day
The awful fears nearer home over Ireland the dreadful IRA bombs going off in shopping centres/ malls etc
No I don’t believe there has ever been a time to not see fear or worry about the world going up in Smoke

And as for youngsters not getting houses my mum and dad were in their 60 s when they got their first mortgage I was in my 40 s when I got mine my paternal family never had one they were in council housing all their lives
Rose coloured glasses
As for the original question no it’s no more worrying than it’s always been, up and down, never smooth, just like life really