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Cressida Sat 11-Jan-25 19:02:21

On Stagecoach buses in the East Midlands you can ask for Angel Street if you need help.

www.stagecoachbus.com/promos-and-offers/east-midlands/askforangelstreet

M0nica Sat 11-Jan-25 18:52:07

I have read all about the 'Angela' system, but I have never seen anything about it anywhere I have been.

Babs03 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:28:44

Wheniwasyourage

The Ask for Angela scheme is often advertised in pubs or restaurants, usually in the Ladies. The idea is that you go to the bar and ask for Angela if you are with someone who is causing you anxiety, perhaps on a first date or with an abuser. They are then meant to either take you to a safe place or call you a taxi to get away. According to a BBC report recently, I think it wasn't working everywhere, but it may have been tightened up now.

I saw the BBC piece on this where a woman had gone to a bar and asked for Angela but nobody knew what she was talking about. Am not sure what happened to the woman as a result. The thing is I hadn’t heard of the ask for Angela code until I watched this piece. Also if it is given more publicity - which would be a good thing tbh - wouldn’t men who are threatening or abusing women know about it too which would put the victim in even more danger?

Whingey Sat 11-Jan-25 18:25:26

Pubs tell you to ask bar staff for Angela if you are being harassed then they will hide you and call a taxi. Men can ask for Mark

silverlining48 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:22:59

X post wheniwasyoung.

silverlining48 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:22:14

Yes it’s supported by the met police as well as in other parts of the country. It’s Ask for Angela in Shops bars restaurants etc

Wheniwasyourage Sat 11-Jan-25 18:21:56

The Ask for Angela scheme is often advertised in pubs or restaurants, usually in the Ladies. The idea is that you go to the bar and ask for Angela if you are with someone who is causing you anxiety, perhaps on a first date or with an abuser. They are then meant to either take you to a safe place or call you a taxi to get away. According to a BBC report recently, I think it wasn't working everywhere, but it may have been tightened up now.

silverlining48 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:17:21

There is a code name of Angela I think to use to report domestic abuse in shops, if the person is with the abuser. Wondering if the shops have advised the ir staff.

Georgesgran Sat 11-Jan-25 18:01:31

Yesterday, I heard of a recording of a telephone call handler speaking to an abused woman. She was pretending to be ordering a pizza and the c/h was asking her to reply pepperoni if she was being threatened or another topping (can’t remember) if children were present and a third option if both she and the children were at risk of harm. I believe Police were then sent to the address.

Daddima Sat 11-Jan-25 17:53:52

Well, my son had a school rehearsal for their Christmas concert last month, and it ran a wee bit over time. On his way home he saw one boy standing at the bus stop, so stopped to ask him if he thought he had missed his bus, but, as they were talking, the bus appeared, and the boy got on it.
Later that night son had a couple of missed calls from an unfamiliar number, which he ignored, but then one left a voicemail asking him to phone the local police station!
It appears the bus driver had seen the boy talking to son, and asked him if he had got out of that car, and the boy said no, he had just been ‘talking to the guy’! Bus driver had phoned the polis with the car registration ( courtesy car from garage), so they had son’s details.
Next day, police came to school to interview staff and boy to confirm son’s story.
I think it is a good thing that people do flag up things they are worried about, and that they are taken seriously. It does make a change from all the tales of ‘red flags’ which are allegedly ignored by the authorities.