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ferry23 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:17:56

There's a few threads about Holocaust Memorial Day and the liberation of Auschwitz with some really lovely, respectful and meaningful posts. So lovely to read.

Rather childishly and annoyingly interspersed with political rhetoric and telling us we should be remembering.....other things (I can't think of another way of putting it).

Holocaust Memorial Day is about remembering the Jews that died at the hands of the Nazis. Nothing else.

On Remembrance Sunday we don't tell others they should be remembering victims of the Great Fire of London, or victims of terrible floods. Neither do we launch into discussions about Archduke Franz Ferdinand or the origins of WW2.

On September 11th we remember those who perished in the terrorist attacks in the US - we don't tell people they should also be remembering victims of other atrocities or manipulate the narrative to opinions as to why it happened in the first place.

I wish some posters would show some very basic respect and let those of us who wish to commemorate and remember those in whose honour for whom the day is reserved in a peaceful and reflective manner.

The "hiding in plain sight" posters are getting very predictable.

Kamiso Tue 28-Jan-25 20:32:27

ferry23

I've just said that I apologise for omitting some other groups. My thoughts still remain the same.

Babs03 - you don't know what the thread is trying to achieve? I'm sorry, I thought SM was about expressing views, I didn't know I should have an end goal.

I thought some of the posts were inappropriate. Excuse me for voicing my opinion.

You are free to express your views and so are others posting even if they aren’t aligned. That’s how these groups work.

escaped Tue 28-Jan-25 20:27:41

some of them crossed themselves as they placed their candles, which led me to believe that they were probably Polish
Yes, I believe that the Poland that existed before WW2 was multi-ethnic, so some of the prisoners would have come from faiths other than Judaism. That is why many in Poland focus on the non-Jewish victims.
If I remember correctly, I read only one inappropriate comment on the other thread, to do with Trump being a modern Hitler? Otherwise, all posts were written in a respectful and reflective manner, nobody resenting the focus on any particular group's suffering.

Smileless2012 Tue 28-Jan-25 20:13:39

Hope it goes OK tomorrow theworriedwell flowers.

RosiesMaw2 Tue 28-Jan-25 20:10:30

I wish some posters would show some very basic respect and let those of us who wish to commemorate and remember those in whose honour for whom the day is reserved in a peaceful and reflective manner.
The "hiding in plain sight" posters are getting very predictable
Who are the “hiding in plain sight posters” ?
Unnecessarily goady and entirely at variance with OP’s stated objective confusedconfused

theworriedwell Tue 28-Jan-25 19:57:51

maddyone

There was nothing wrong with it theworriedwell.
It seems appropriate.

Thank you, I'm on heavy painkillers due to a tooth that's cracked in half, being pulled out tomorrow. I thought I was missing something in my brain fog.

maddyone Tue 28-Jan-25 19:55:23

There was nothing wrong with it theworriedwell.
It seems appropriate.

theworriedwell Tue 28-Jan-25 19:53:17

I still don't understand what was wrong with Angela Rayners message. Can anyone enlighten me.

maddyone Tue 28-Jan-25 19:53:06

I only saw Angela Rayner’s tweet here on GN as I don’t do Twitter/X. It seems an entirely appropriate tweet to me.

maddyone Tue 28-Jan-25 19:51:09

27th January, Holocaust Memorial Day, is about remembering all the victims of Nazi persecution, which included several groups already mentioned upthread.
However we all know that by far the largest group were Jewish people, which is perhaps why there is a huge focus on the Jewish people.

I noticed yesterday, whilst watching the surviving victims of Auschwitz lightning their candles, that some of them crossed themselves as they placed their candles, which led me to believe that they were probably Polish, or one of the other groups that the Nazis targeted.

My Jewish friend always posts an image of a candle on her Facebook page in remembrance on 27th January, so it is fair to say that she marks the day.

It was mentioned yesterday that 60 million people died across Europe during WW2. What a sobering thought.

Never again.

valdali Tue 28-Jan-25 19:33:31

Agree, Lucky Girl, Holocaust remembrance day is also for the other minority groups put to death, although Jewish people were by far the nost numerous victims. I thought the ceremonies & coverage did reflect that, but the OP doesn't.

theworriedwell Tue 28-Jan-25 19:33:05

SilverBrook

What did Rayner say in her social media post that was wrong? She wrote:

^Tonight, I'm lighting a candle to remember all those who were murdered just for being who they were, and to stand against prejudice and hatred today. Never again. #LightThe Darkness #HMD2025.^

I can't see what's wrong with that. Much better than excluding groups.

RosiesMaw2 Tue 28-Jan-25 19:31:20

SilverBrook

What did Rayner say in her social media post that was wrong? She wrote:

^Tonight, I'm lighting a candle to remember all those who were murdered just for being who they were, and to stand against prejudice and hatred today. Never again. #LightThe Darkness #HMD2025.^

Hear, hear

theworriedwell Tue 28-Jan-25 19:30:36

ferry23

I've just said that I apologise for omitting some other groups. My thoughts still remain the same.

Babs03 - you don't know what the thread is trying to achieve? I'm sorry, I thought SM was about expressing views, I didn't know I should have an end goal.

I thought some of the posts were inappropriate. Excuse me for voicing my opinion.

You omitted all the other groups.

RosiesMaw2 Tue 28-Jan-25 19:30:21

Holocaust Memorial Day is about remembering the Jews that died at the hands of the Nazis. Nothing else
I have taken several A level History trips to Berlin as part if the Rise of Hitler element of the syllabus and each trip has included a day at the former Sachsenhausen concentration camp at Oranienburg. I have also visited Bergen Belsen and my father was part of one of the battalions whose awful task was to "clean up" that camp after its initial liberation.
One thing has always been clear- not only Jews perished in their hundreds of thousands, or millions at the hands of the Nazis in camps such as these- Roma, political prisoners, gays, communists, the physically disabled, so called "decadent artists, those of mixed race among them.

Do we not remember their persecution and annihilation too?

SilverBrook Tue 28-Jan-25 19:28:22

What did Rayner say in her social media post that was wrong? She wrote:

Tonight, I'm lighting a candle to remember all those who were murdered just for being who they were, and to stand against prejudice and hatred today. Never again. #LightThe Darkness #HMD2025.

Anniebach Tue 28-Jan-25 19:24:01

Why was it in a thread remembering the evil that was the Holocaust?

love0c Tue 28-Jan-25 19:21:55

Angela Rayner's tweet. I sincerely hope you did not know this.

Anniebach Tue 28-Jan-25 19:05:59

I didn’t see a post from Angela Rayner

love0c Tue 28-Jan-25 19:04:15

ferry23 I understand your inference. Angela Rayner's post ,well ,left me speechless.

foxie48 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:58:12

"Holocaust Memorial Day is about remembering the Jews that died at the hands of the Nazis. Nothing else."

Actually that's not true, ferry23 Please take a look at the actual site, I have posted a small part.

"Holocaust Memorial Day is a time when we seek to learn the lessons of the past and recognise that genocide does not just take place on its own – it’s a steady process which can begin if discrimination, racism and hatred are not checked and prevented. Discrimination has not ended, nor has the use of the language of hatred or exclusion. There is still much to do to create a safer future and HMD is an opportunity to start this process."
The above was taken from the HMD site, link attached
hmd.org.uk/what-is-holocaust-memorial-day/why-mark-hmd/

Indigo8 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:43:30

I believe that the 27th day of Nisan in the Hebrew calendar, (which is usually in April or May in the Gregorian calendar)
is when Jews commemorate the Jewish victims of the Holocaust. Though, of course, all victims of the Holocaust should have been remembered on 27 January.

ferry23 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:40:51

I've just said that I apologise for omitting some other groups. My thoughts still remain the same.

Babs03 - you don't know what the thread is trying to achieve? I'm sorry, I thought SM was about expressing views, I didn't know I should have an end goal.

I thought some of the posts were inappropriate. Excuse me for voicing my opinion.

SilverBrook Tue 28-Jan-25 18:32:56

Two websites you need to visit ferry23:

hmd.org.uk/what-is-holocaust-memorial-day/

It states:

The Holocaust Memorial Day Trust encourages remembrance in a world scarred by prejudice and systematic, targeted persecution. We promote and support Holocaust Memorial Day – the international day on 27 January. The Holocaust is central to Holocaust Memorial Day and we remember the 6 million Jews murdered during the Holocaust. We also commemorate the millions more people murdered through the Nazi persecution of other groups and in the more recent genocides recognised by the UK government, and the genocide in Darfur.

27 January marks the anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz-Birkenau, the largest Nazi death camp.

... and the chart reproduced from:

auschwitz.net/the-victims/

Babs03 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:30:43

I agree but don’t think a thread about this is necessary. The thread I read about Holocaust Memorial Day seemed very respectful and some merely pointed out that not much had been learned. Which is true.
Am not exactly sure what this thread aims to do, except perhaps allow others to have a go at commenters they feel over stepped the mark.
I didn’t comment. I marked the occasion by watching the service attended by the King.
But I think we all know how to report a post we think is inappropriate.

ferry23 Tue 28-Jan-25 18:30:32

Yes, I apologise it is about remembering other groups who were victims and other genocides. But my thoughts remain the same.