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GrannyIvy Tue 18-Feb-25 18:06:45

Is anyone else noticing how cold it is in pubs and restaurants at the moment . I have had two lunches out in nice pubs and one dinner in a local hotel restaurant in the last week and all three lovely venues were just so chilly. I was dressed warmly food was good but not much heating going on. I ended up sitting in my coat.
Also why do pubs restaurants play their music so loudly. I like to meet friends for a chat and a nice lunch or dinner but hate battling with the background (definitely not background) music!

BevSec Tue 18-Feb-25 18:14:25

Yes definitely. The young people who work as bar staff and waitresses etc like different music to me, its usually loud and not what I would choose to listen to. It really puts me off going back to venues if I have had that experience.

GrannyIvy Tue 18-Feb-25 18:23:13

Yes the bar staff were all youngsters today the owner wasn’t there. Everyone in the pub was older so I’m sure I wasn’t alone not enjoying the trendy music.

Jaxjacky Tue 18-Feb-25 18:54:57

I’d have had a quiet word and politely ask if the music could be turned down a little and mentioned the lack of heating, I’ve left a pub/restaurant before because when walking in it was too cold.

Washerwoman Tue 18-Feb-25 18:58:22

I think a lot of cafes and restaurants have been struggling with rising costs and I have also felt uncomfortably chilly at times.Not conducive to returning!Only today a friend was telling me how an afternoon tea booked as a treat was spoilt by not being warm enough.
As for music.I ask nicely and politely if it can be turned down somewhat if it makes conversation difficult. And try to avoid sitting near a speaker.

GrannyIvy Tue 18-Feb-25 19:02:03

We did ask for the music to be turned down a little and they happily agreed to but then 10 mins later up it went again! I wished I’d mentioned to them how cold we were. I felt guilty tho about the music and my friend had already informed them no toilet paper in all three of ladies toilets! I don’t think we will return there for lunch, another one off the list… food is excellent tho

madeleine45 Tue 18-Feb-25 19:02:37

I would definitely ask politely for the music to be turned right down and if it was really annoying I would ask for the "noise" to be turned off. Or alternatively I would ask for another table where this racket was not audible. As I am a singer and music is an important part in my life, I definitely do not need to hear endless music not to my taste, when I am out to lunch. For me it is at least eating in a work atmosphere, and worse cringing when it is appalling stuff and you can hear horrible cracks and hisses etc.After all I am paying for this, so that at the least we should be able to eat without any music. If they turn it down and try to be helpful I may come back but otherwise not only will I not return but would also warn all my musical friends to avoid it too!

M0nica Tue 18-Feb-25 19:22:53

Not met this problem locally. We have eaten out at a number of pubs/restaurants recently, I have taken my coat off and not noticed the temperature of the room.

I haven't come across muzak either, only the occasional live performer. Is this an urban v rural issue? I live in a rural area.

GrannyIvy Tue 18-Feb-25 19:34:18

I live in a fenland village very rural but a few of our lovely old pubs are playing music louder than they should. Another my DH and I visited a few months ago replied to our request for their music to be turned down “otherpeople like it” and it wasn’t turned down so we left! There was only us in there!!!!

Oreo Tue 18-Feb-25 20:11:35

Washerwoman

I think a lot of cafes and restaurants have been struggling with rising costs and I have also felt uncomfortably chilly at times.Not conducive to returning!Only today a friend was telling me how an afternoon tea booked as a treat was spoilt by not being warm enough.
As for music.I ask nicely and politely if it can be turned down somewhat if it makes conversation difficult. And try to avoid sitting near a speaker.

Same here.

Redhead56 Tue 18-Feb-25 20:45:55

We had a meal out recently it was cold in the dining room and the meal soon went cold. Quite a few people complained but felt they wasted their time as the heating remained off. It’s not fair because the food and drink prices have risen considerably.
The restaurant doesn’t have a lot of staff even when they need to at Christmas.
The customer's are paying for their extra expenditure but getting poor service.
It’s a tough time for both pubs and restaurants but the paying public deserves better.

Astitchintime Tue 18-Feb-25 20:57:31

I visited a local cafe just before Christmas and they were playing Christmas songs on a CD player - at full volume! They turned it down when asked but sneakily increased the sound when they thought we were not looking! Won't be going back there! It is the same in some shops too.

M0nica Tue 18-Feb-25 22:27:47

I suppose they assume that if the music is loud enough you will not notice how cold it is.

Redrobin51 Tue 18-Feb-25 22:32:58

Yes I've noticed this and it seems to have got worse. I've got a medical condition which doesn't respond well to the cold and I have had to stop meeting a friend weekly as the only cafe is too cold for me. Such a shame as the proprietor is lovely and the food good. It is an old building and she said she is struggling to meet the cost of electricity.

Whitewavemark2 Tue 18-Feb-25 22:36:05

Not all restaurants has music playing. In fact I can’t say that I have been recently to any restaurant where music is being played.

Whitewavemark2 Tue 18-Feb-25 22:37:21

Haven’t felt cold either.

I would complain quite frankly.

srn63 Wed 19-Feb-25 00:07:21

I always ask for music to be turned down if too loud and heating to be turned up if too cold. If it doesn't happen I leave and don't go back and often leave an honest review. I can sit at home and be warm, I'm not paying to sit elsewhere and be cold.

Homestead62 Wed 19-Feb-25 00:43:07

The loud music is to create a 'hostile' environment so you will move on quickly. I rarely eat out now. Expensive food in a freezing restaurant does not appeal.

BevSec Wed 19-Feb-25 07:01:12

Homestead62

The loud music is to create a 'hostile' environment so you will move on quickly. I rarely eat out now. Expensive food in a freezing restaurant does not appeal.

Same here.

M0nica Wed 19-Feb-25 08:32:14

Good food in a warm restaurant does, so this is what we go out to eat. No problem with that round here.

Rainbow1235 Wed 19-Feb-25 11:04:04

I meet a friend once a month in a marstons pub and always warm in there . There is music in background but u could hardly hear it

Tenko Wed 19-Feb-25 12:50:39

Our two local pubs both have a log fire and it’s lovely and cosy . Sometimes it gets too hot . And the music is very low . It’s very much a locals pub and when the locals complain, things get done .
OP have you tried putting a review on Tripadvisor with your complaints? Many publicans and managers do look on TA and respond to any complaints. Especially as many pubs are struggling.
The problem is many pubs are staffed by young people who aren’t bothered by loud music or the cold as they’re busy , plus they probably don’t communicate your issues to management . I would have approached the manager or owner .

Cossy Wed 19-Feb-25 12:52:38

M0nica

I suppose they assume that if the music is loud enough you will not notice how cold it is.

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Cossy Wed 19-Feb-25 12:53:21

srn63

I always ask for music to be turned down if too loud and heating to be turned up if too cold. If it doesn't happen I leave and don't go back and often leave an honest review. I can sit at home and be warm, I'm not paying to sit elsewhere and be cold.

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Witzend Wed 19-Feb-25 13:05:53

Worst I’ve experienced for cold, was a busy Cote Brasserie, where people who were arriving were continually standing in the doorway, instead of coming in and closing it! It was midwinter and the air was freezing. More than once I had to call out, ‘Could you PLEASE close the door?’