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Dolly Parton’s DH Has Died.

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Calendargirl Tue 04-Mar-25 07:34:00

Just seen this.

Her husband of 60 or so years.

Carl Dean, 82.

He was the inspiration for her hit ‘Jolene’, apparently, about a bank teller who fancied him.

A very private marriage out of the public spotlight, but I hope it was a happy one.

Shelflife Tue 04-Mar-25 18:18:01

I am sad to hear about the death of Dolly's husband. 60 years is a long time! I think people are interested because Dolly is such an interesting woman and loved by many. She has given £1000' s to charity. The gossip about Dolly is disrespectful at this sad time.

NotAGran55 Tue 04-Mar-25 18:13:10

Calendargirl

NotAGran55

Eric Clapton wrote Wonderful Tonight, not George Harrison.
Eric also wrote Bell Bottom Blues for Pattie.

Thanks NotAGran for pointing out my daft mistake.

I meant Eric, of course, not George,

Duh!

(Getting mixed up as of course Patti was the ‘amour’ of both of them).

George’s beautiful ode to Pattie was ‘ Something’

Chardy Tue 04-Mar-25 18:01:21

We seem rather short of good people in 2025, lies, broken promises, not caring for vulnerable folk etc, but Dolly, whose dad couldn't read, www.openculture.com/2022/08/dolly-partons-imagination-library-has-given-away-186-million-free-books-to-kids.html
started working on illiteracy in her home area, then state, until it went international. And her foundation sends out a million age-appropriate books every month.
Imo she's an inspiration. So yes, I'm sorry when sad things happen to good people

Calendargirl Tue 04-Mar-25 17:48:46

NotAGran55

Eric Clapton wrote Wonderful Tonight, not George Harrison.
Eric also wrote Bell Bottom Blues for Pattie.

Thanks NotAGran for pointing out my daft mistake.

I meant Eric, of course, not George,

Duh!

(Getting mixed up as of course Patti was the ‘amour’ of both of them).

OldFrill Tue 04-Mar-25 17:19:44

Ziplok

David49

They stayed married but Dolly did her own thing throughout the relationship, its well known she had other relationships as well as a very tolerant husband.

Is it? I didn’t know that, and to be honest, question it as fact.

She always absolutely denied it.

Jaxjacky Tue 04-Mar-25 16:56:47

Clapton wrote Tears in Heaven for his 4 year old son

MayBee70 Tue 04-Mar-25 16:45:10

There is, of course, Carly Simon’s ‘ You’re so Vain’. I saw a programme on Sky Arts the other night explaining who it was written about but, it was late at night and I’ve forgotten ( I don’t think it was Warren Beatty).

MayBee70 Tue 04-Mar-25 16:41:57

Calendargirl

The George Harrison one he wrote for Patti Boyd was ‘Wonderful Tonight’.

And John Denver’s ‘Annie’s Song’.

Always wondered what it would be like to have a song written for you?

Well, no one will ever write one for me.

sad

The one I’m most envious of was when I read about the girl Syd Barrett’s ‘ See Emily Play’ was written about. I loved him so much.

NotAGran55 Tue 04-Mar-25 16:33:59

Eric Clapton wrote Wonderful Tonight, not George Harrison.
Eric also wrote Bell Bottom Blues for Pattie.

Calendargirl Tue 04-Mar-25 16:27:10

The George Harrison one he wrote for Patti Boyd was ‘Wonderful Tonight’.

And John Denver’s ‘Annie’s Song’.

Always wondered what it would be like to have a song written for you?

Well, no one will ever write one for me.

sad

MayBee70 Tue 04-Mar-25 15:49:05

I’ve just been pottering about in the garden thinking about this. How many songs have been knowingly written about a particular person? Patti Boyd had several, Layla, the one that George Harrison wrote about her ( can’t remember what it’s called). Sad Eyed Lady of the Lowlands; Sarah, Bob Dylan’s wife ( what I’d give to have someone write a song like that about me envy).Mind you, none of them ended well. And how many songs have women written about men, in which we know exactly who they’re referring to? Most have been written in an anonymous way after a break up. So to have one of the best songs ever to be written about you in such a positive way and for that relationship to have survived so many years is pretty special. I do wonder who Jolene actually was, though hmm.

rafichagran Tue 04-Mar-25 14:43:02

The big news channels deemed it news, and Dolly is a big star, the tasteless gossip by one poster should be ignored.
Dolly Parton stated they had 60 happy years, anything else is irrelevant. Respect should be shown on this thread, as some people like Dolly and her music and want to pass in their respects.

LovesBach Tue 04-Mar-25 14:35:11

A lady who has done so much to help people less fortunate; she seems wise, kind, intelligent and has a sharp business mind. I am sorry to read of her husband's death as she spoke so positively about him, and their happiness together.

Ziplok Tue 04-Mar-25 14:26:10

David49

They stayed married but Dolly did her own thing throughout the relationship, its well known she had other relationships as well as a very tolerant husband.

Is it? I didn’t know that, and to be honest, question it as fact.

MayBee70 Tue 04-Mar-25 13:33:35

I just read it on Facebook and it saddened me. I believe that she is having problems with the government as they have withdrawn their contribution to her book charity. I have a lot of respect for her.

Ziplok Tue 04-Mar-25 11:40:56

Calendargirl

Thanks Grandmadinosaur

That’s exactly what I thought.

I’ve asked for the thread to be removed though, as it’s deemed of no interest.

It’s of no interest to that particular poster perhaps. That doesn’t mean it isn’t of interest to others, so I hope your post stays active.
It’s sad news.

Barleyfields Tue 04-Mar-25 11:00:29

Well said Grandmabatty. I think only one person has been indulging in tasteless gossip, but at a time like this that’s one too many.

Grandmabatty Tue 04-Mar-25 10:41:47

I find the prurient gossip about Dolly by a few on here inappropriate and distasteful. She's lost her husband and is presumably very sad.

henetha Tue 04-Mar-25 10:39:41

I have great respect for Dolly, a good person and a great entertainer. I'm sad for her losing her husband of 60 years.

Shinamae Tue 04-Mar-25 10:34:28

Apparently, she met him outside the laundromat when she first arrived in Nashville when she was 18 years old…..
I feel very sad for her…💐💐💐

Indigo8 Tue 04-Mar-25 10:29:57

Why is there any need to get minty about a famous celebrity losing her husband of 60 years? Of course it is news, she is a big star.

She deserves sympathy just like anyone else.

Primrose53 Tue 04-Mar-25 10:18:44

I think it’s very sad. I saw her talking on TV a while back about how she left home to find fame as a singer aged 16. She got off a bus at some big place and was standing there wondering which way to go when her husband to be drove up and asked her if she was lost. He took her under his wing and the rest is history.

Harris27 Tue 04-Mar-25 10:10:16

Such sad news.

Babs03 Tue 04-Mar-25 09:35:24

No marriage is the same, but if it works it works, and after sixty years it certainly must have worked for them.
Sad that as well as losing siblings over the past few years Dolly has now lost her husband.
🌺🙏🏾

Rosie51 Tue 04-Mar-25 09:34:04

David49 you have no idea of the faithfulness of either party. I think what is being lauded is a 60 year marriage, and the inevitable grief when one partner dies. Would you voice such opinions to anyone's face in real life, how disdainful that would be?