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Young people not interested in anything but their phones

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Primrose53 Sun 16-Mar-25 14:46:13

The first time I met one of my nieces partners he was on his phone and never came off it the 10 mins I was chatting to them.

Same on the streets, on buses, in waiting rooms, young parents pushing kids in buggies out walking, just everywhere.

The other day a physio came to the house to work with my husband. He brought with him a second year male student. He barely interacted, he asked no questions and kept glancing at his watch. At the end of the session the physio asked to use the toilet. The student followed him out to the hall. It was all quiet for 5 mins then I walked through the hall and the student was sitting on the stairs playing with his phone. He coloured up when he saw me!

I thought what a shame he didn’t use the opportunity to chat to my husband about strokes or at least go away with more knowledge than he came with. He is so lucky to get the chance to train as a physio with competition so fierce these days.

Visgir1 Mon 17-Mar-25 14:39:33

My DH is a phone addict too, drives me nuts. It was only a few weeks ago after a meal that both my GC with partners, and DH all sitting around looking at their phones .. I was the only one not on my phone I was watching the Film they all wanted to see.
What makes it worse they are all looking at rubbish.

marymary62 Mon 17-Mar-25 15:00:04

The physio student should be reprimanded by his tutor. Poor placement practice.
My adult daughters have a no phones at the table rule, or in social situations. Their young children do not have phones (5 and 7) thankfully. My DH is the worst culprit …. ! I hate it when I see whole families out for a meal
- all on their phones . One dad with two young girls trying to get his attention - couldn’t take his eyes off his phone. It’s not the use of the phone I object to it’s the killing of real social interaction . Yet here I am on my phone ! But I’m ill so I’ll excuse myself thankyou !

Camry1952 Mon 17-Mar-25 17:20:16

I live in a college town and if I happen to drive through when classes are changing , the kids are walking with heads down while on their phones. They pay no attention to surroundings and will even walk out in front of cars. I've also noticed people of all ages ignoring their companions while on their phones when eating out.

Rula Mon 17-Mar-25 17:40:51

There will be parents in Australia where this ban is to be implemented
. I'm pretty sure parents still find a way round if got them.
Very hard to police I'd think

PaperMonster2 Mon 17-Mar-25 18:00:36

I volunteer with young teens and pre-teens and thankfully don’t see much of this phone obsession. Usually when one of them has just got a phone there seems to be a reluctance to put it away but that doesn’t last long. They become too interested and engaged in the activities we do. Sadly my daughter’s school don’t allow them to look at their phones during the day, unless needed in a lesson. This has fuelled her school-based anxiety as she can’t talk to me at lunch to calm her down.

Rosiebee Mon 17-Mar-25 19:44:03

We were in Singapore a week ago and made good use of their MRT system- underground- looking down the carriage each time, almost every person was tapping away on their phones. Everywhere we went the phone was king. Is this the future for us too?

Churchview Mon 17-Mar-25 20:33:56

I agree that the fixation is spread equally across all age groups.

Mothers pushing prams, dog walkers, people eating their lunch in the park, men waiting for a fish to bite..........one day they will look up and realise they've missed the best moments of their life by spending them looking at photos of other people's dinners on Instagram.

Stillness Mon 17-Mar-25 21:47:08

This is surely an addiction-to having to be constantly stimulated, I would say. And I think it’s all age groups. I was on a long train trip today and nearly everyone regardless of age was just looking at a phone. One good thing was that it was nice and quiet!

Primrose53 Mon 17-Mar-25 22:02:51

Mojack26

Physio should have told him to get off his phone! Student is there to learn not tag along...and student should know better.

Physio was in the loo.

Catterygirl Tue 18-Mar-25 00:12:42

Tik Tok draws people in. I prefer to spend my time making money on eBay. Kerching. Much better than laughing at people messing around but each to their own.

Egbele121 Tue 18-Mar-25 04:49:10

It’s a complete distraction to our teenager kids.my grand daughter is just 10 year old nd all she cares is her phone she can be staring at the phone for couple hours nd won’t move an inch

Harv1 Tue 18-Mar-25 10:37:34

It is shocking that they can’t go or do anything without their phones .
But who is it to blame ?
Is it the parents that start them off to keep them Quiet in early years or schools for allowing it .