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Sago Wed 19-Mar-25 08:07:26

We are moving house on Friday, my life for months has been about packing, sorting etc.
We are now pretty much packed, the removal company come today to pack some artworks and take some boxes, the rest goes on Friday.
So the past few days I have been cleaning, all windows, cupboards, paintwork etc, then all I have to do once the house is empty is paintwork behind furniture and floors.
My husband just keeps saying “is all this necessary”?
Yes it is bloody necessary!
When we eventually move into our new home in a few weeks I hope the same will have been done for us.
In all our many moves we have only moved into one house that was filthy, I cried when we walked in, it was the days of company moves so we paid professionals and moved into an hotel.
Have you had any moving in nightmares?

petra Wed 19-Mar-25 08:13:59

The worst was when most of our worldly goods were abandoned in Budapest. The Turkish driver had a row with his employer and just buggered off.

escaped Wed 19-Mar-25 08:16:47

Yes, it is really necessary to leave a house clean, I think. On our last move our estate agent organised cleaners for us. They were there for 6 hours, and even sparkled all the windows.

I've only had one cry occasion when you walk
into a filthy house. On top of everything else, there was a poo left in the loo! 🤮 And they were people we sort of knew. 🙈

Churchview Wed 19-Mar-25 08:37:43

We moved to a new house that was absolutely filthy to the extent that the fabric lightshades were so soaked in grease from cooking that when you turned a light on the house smelled like a chip shop. The bathroom was like a dirty protest, the oven still had dirty cooking utensils in it and the dishwasher was full of lamb bones confused. The bins were all full of waste food that had been there since the previous owner moved out. There were dirty pants and socks in a bag in the airing cupboard.

The garden next door was full of drinking, swearing teenagers smoking something that you couldn't buy in the local tobacconists.

We knew immediately we would do the house up, sell as soon as possible and move on.

On day one we made a temporary home in the garage and spent the first few days tearing out carpets, scrubbing every surface and airing the place. It took 18 months to get the place square.

cornergran Wed 19-Mar-25 08:41:07

Definitely necessary. We’ve only had one move to a very dirty house, I still can’t fathom what they kept in the airing cupboard as the slats were covered in black grease. Our family seem destined to move into dirty houses and have been shocked as they have experienced (suffered!) my pre-move clean.

Pantglas2 Wed 19-Mar-25 08:52:37

I’ve cleaned every house I’ve moved into and every one I’ve moved out of and always say that those two days are when my home is at its cleanest!

I blitzed most recently mi Casa in Spain where I was shocked at the amount of dirt behind appliances etc. I thought I was the the Queen of Clean…seems I was wrong 😱

Coconutty Wed 19-Mar-25 08:55:25

I always do but I’ve moved into some absolute dumps where others don’t.

M0nica Wed 19-Mar-25 09:10:54

My only contact with dirty houses has been short term flat rentals. Every house we have bought, 5 in all has been acceptably clean. I am not 'the Queen of Clean' and have never wished to be. I am quite happy with sufficiently clean.

Mind you, our current house was immaculate when we moved in because the previous owner probably scraped off all the dirt to try and sell it. He tried to get us to pay £200 for his mother's very elderly washing machine among other things and when we refused to pay for any of the in-place tat he offered us, he stripped the place, carpets, curtains, lampshades. He left nothing that he thought he could get away with taking.

TillyTrotter Wed 19-Mar-25 09:19:21

2 houses stand out in our many moves.
One had a room that was so smoky (just ordinary tobacco!) and a kitchen which was extremely greasy from constant use of a deep fat fryer.
The other was also very greasy in the kitchen and no attempts made to do anything about it.
Each time I got my best friend (the Queen of Cleans Pants ) who helped me to make my new homes acceptably clean - and she is still my best friend of 50 years so far.

Cossy Wed 19-Mar-25 09:19:43

Yes, completely necessary.

Greyduster Wed 19-Mar-25 09:30:20

Yes it is necessary. When we were in Army quarters, we never left one less than spotless and ready for the inevitable “March out” white glove treatment. However, I lost count of the ones we moved into that were very dirty. When we sold our first proper home thirteen years ago, I cleaned it from top to bottom, not least because the couple who bought it were expecting their first child literally within days of moving in and I wanted cleaning to be the last thing they should have to think about.

Astitchintime Wed 19-Mar-25 09:31:34

Many years ago we moved into a house that we bought from a lady who was self employed cleaner. She claimed to have 'bottomed' the house.........not sure on her standard of cleaning but we started at the top and worked our way down emptying the Dyson several times and the water in the buckets we used for wiping paintwork had to be changed several times too. The place was filthy!

Witzend Wed 19-Mar-25 22:12:03

It wasn’t dirt, but when we moved into our current house, decades ago, the vendor had removed all the light bulbs and taken all the curtain rails down.

I was particularly upset because we’d allowed her to stay for 4 days beyond completion, since her new house wasn’t ready. Our solicitor was horrified! And she knew I’d be moving in on my own, with a small baby - dh was working an 8 hour flight away.
She was evidently majorly pissed off with dh for having bargained hard over the price. She had said very sniffily, ‘You are not in an Arab marketplace now!’
Dh had replied, ‘Well, you can take it or leave it…’

Galaxy Wed 19-Mar-25 22:31:20

Think I have told this story on here before. We arrived at our new home, inside there were clothes and belongings strewn everywhere, in the middle of the sitting room floor were 2 empty bottles of wine. Owner had obviously thought should I pack in preparation for my move tomorrow, nah will just get drunk.
We rang them and said if they didn't come and sort it out their belongings would be on a skip within the hour.
The house was filthy too.

Allira Wed 19-Mar-25 22:45:10

Witzend

It wasn’t dirt, but when we moved into our current house, decades ago, the vendor had removed all the light bulbs and taken all the curtain rails down.

I was particularly upset because we’d allowed her to stay for 4 days beyond completion, since her new house wasn’t ready. Our solicitor was horrified! And she knew I’d be moving in on my own, with a small baby - dh was working an 8 hour flight away.
She was evidently majorly pissed off with dh for having bargained hard over the price. She had said very sniffily, ‘You are not in an Arab marketplace now!’
Dh had replied, ‘Well, you can take it or leave it…’

It wasn’t dirt, but when we moved into our current house, decades ago, the vendor had removed all the light bulbs and taken all the curtain rails down.

When we moved into our first house it was evening and the previous owners had removed all the light bulbs and even left bare wires hanging from the ceiling in a couple of rooms. No curtain rails either! They'd also dug up everything from the garden, even the spring bulbs. It wasn't very clean but not absolutely filthy.

Mogsmaw Wed 19-Mar-25 22:48:30

I lived for years in military quarters so was very used to deep cleaning a house before moving.
My daughter knew this so I was drafted in to clean the rented flats he lived in.
I spent 2 days, on my own, scrubbing an Edinburgh flat for her, I scraped thick grease off the tops of the kitchen cupboards. I don’t think they had been cleaned for years.
She hot her full deposit back…
Because the upstairs neighbour burned the flat down!

Deedaa Wed 19-Mar-25 22:51:31

We sold our house in Cornwall and bought one in Berkshire. The family we were buying from were renting a house, A couple of days before we moved we had a phone call asking if we could postpone our move for a week because their rental had fallen through. So we arranged for all our stuff to go into storage and we went to stay with our daughter. That week stretched into three months before they found another rental! To cap it all the day we moved we arranged for the removal van to arrive early to give us plenty of time to unpack everything. It turned up at lunchtime having gone to another area with the same name. We had sent them maps, but they hadn't bothered to bring them!

Truffle43 Wed 19-Mar-25 23:04:02

I only cried once and that was with the house we are in now. I spent days ripping up carpets emptying the vacuum cleaner time and time again before sitting down and sobbing. It is laughable now but at the time i wondered what we had done. I absolutely love living here now but thought we had made the wrong decision at the time. I am glad no one ever had to do that with a house they moved into after we left.

Katyj Thu 20-Mar-25 06:46:05

Yes it is ! Wish everyone would think the same. I left my last house immaculate, the new people commented to the next door neighbour that they were so happy to be left a gleaming house.
Unfortunately for us our new house was terrible. The boiler was broken, the kitchen doors fell off when we opened them, and it smelt of dogs. We stayed in a hotel for a couple of nights, I got a professional cleaner in, then moved back in and cleaned it again.
Hope you’re lucky with your new home.

M0nica Thu 20-Mar-25 06:51:37

Witzend Many years ago, friends had a similar experience. They were buying a renovated Victorian house with all the period features.

When they and their possessions got to the house after completion, they found the front door swinging open because th previous owners had removed the lock, and this was just the start for finding that the house had been stripped of light fittings, light switches, door handles, plus curtain rails etc.

They had to move into a hotel for a week until they had found a locksmith and an electrician to make the house safe for them and their 2 small children, and, to begin with, fitted basic white plastic electrical fittings to replace the original fittings that had first attracted them to the house.

A lot of people had similar experiences, which is why, at the moment we are filling in a long form saying, room by room exactly what we will be leaving in the form of light fittings, fixed mirrors, door furniture etc for the house we are selling.

DD moved last week. Her new home has been let out for the last 10 years, we had gone round it with her, and it was a lived in mess, so she was all prepared to get professional cleaners in as soon as she took possession, but to be fair to the tenants, they may have lived in a mess, they clearly got a professional cleaner in when they moved, but they had a dog and a cat and DD walks around indoors without shoes and has an obsession about not having to walk on carpets that animals 'had been wiping their bums on'. So the day she moved in she began ripping all the carpets up and I must say, when all the carpets were in the skip, the faint lingering smell of dog disappeared.

Calendargirl Thu 20-Mar-25 06:58:49

When we moved 20 years ago, DH had repainted the house top to bottom ready to sell, it sold in days.

We cleaned it all thoroughly before we left, it was going to people we knew, and I would have been mortified if they had said to others “ Oh, you should have seen what a mess Calendar left the house in”.

But I would have done it regardless if it had sold to strangers.

Luckygirl3 Thu 20-Mar-25 07:11:34

Leave it generally clean by all means ... but don't overdo it ... you have enough on your plate.

Toetoe Thu 20-Mar-25 07:15:01

My daughter rented prior to buying for a year . On leaving we cleaned and even painted slight marks on the walls . At one time we were cleaning each other's cleaning ! She received a letter from the estate agent to thank her for leaving the house immaculate. We've always left homes sparkling , yet I've moved into filthy houses . Bought one 1930s house , lived in by old man who's daughter helped him move . Nothing was cleaned and she left a letter saying she didn't have time to clean and left a cheap bottle of wine ! It was filthy .

Trisha99 Thu 20-Mar-25 07:35:39

One of our house moves was to an empty bungalow; the owner had died and his daughter showed us round on the two viewings- both in winter but each time the back door was open as were some of the windows.
The intention was to do it up, so we weren’t too worried about the internal condition which was shabby, as we knew the structure was ok.
Just as well, on moving day we opened the front door to be knocked back by the reek of urine.
We ended up replacing the floor boards in one of the bedrooms, the bathroom and the loo before we got rid of the smell.
Lovely place when it was finished smile

Babs03 Thu 20-Mar-25 07:42:23

Leaving a house clean is how most of us have been brought up am sure, my OH laughs whenever we stay in a hotel because I tidy up and make the beds, making sure the bathroom is in order before the cleaners come in.
We are moving but are nowhere near completion and will of course clean the house before we go, touching up with paint here and there. The bungalow we are moving to looks very clean and well kept anyway but am hoping the owners will think to get rid of the accumulated dust behind furniture as they pull pieces out for removal. It is amazing how much muck there can be in a house kept immaculately clean once you move stuff around.
We moved into a house 30 years ago that had carpets soaked with cat wee and walls nearly brown with nicotine stains. We couldn’t live in it for some time and had to rent a place whilst we ripped out carpets and stripped walls. We used to love doing up houses back then, would just roll up our sleeves and get stuck in, and the kids would help. Happy days.