Ilovecheese
I don't resent people who have never earned enough to be able to save for a generous private pension getting pension credit, but then I don't resent stay at home mothers getting a pension either.
Trying to make all of life "fair" is a waste of effort.
Instead of resenting people who live on benefits, who have very little, why not resent the very wealthy who don't want to pay tax.
Maybe you don't, but can't you understand why some people will? I don't know your circumstances, but if you worked in an unfulfilling job for long hours and low pay, why wouldn't you resent paying tax so that your neighbour could stay at home when you are trudging to work?
I was lucky in that I did get more from my work than the salary, but I think it can be very patronising to assume that others should feel grateful for being able to go to work, or that a mind-numbing or dangerous job is somehow good for the soul. Many people only work for the money, and when they see others getting the same (or more) money for doing nothing I'm not surprised they are resentful.
That doesn't mean that wealthy people who don't want to pay tax are well-loved either, though
. I think the difference is that they can pay others to help them not to pay, and in any case their finances are not on display, so people don't usually know who is paying what.
Trying to make life fair might not be easy, but I don't see it as a waste of effort. If we want to live in a society ruled by consensus, it is vital that we at least try to make things less unfair than they are now.


