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Easter celebrations cancelled at Primary school

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sazz1 Mon 24-Mar-25 14:25:39

Miss Mander head of Eastleigh primary school has cancelled the Easter Service and Easter bonnet parade at a primary school. She thinks it's not inclusive? It's all over the press if you Google her name. What do others think?

Rula Tue 25-Mar-25 16:47:46

I was trying not to give too much information about a school. Is that a crime? Maybe it is these days.

Rula Tue 25-Mar-25 16:45:58

Maybe some have converted! I have no clue.

Good grief.

Churchview Tue 25-Mar-25 16:44:20

"There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing. "

It wasn't a guess then.

Rula Tue 25-Mar-25 16:30:54

No Oreo, it's not a big assumption on the case I was talking about.

They are all Muslim children. No white children in the school. All Muslims.

So there you have it.

Oreo Tue 25-Mar-25 16:23:55

True to an extent, but more wars are about acquisition of land.

Frenchgalinspain Tue 25-Mar-25 16:13:57

Subjective relationship with theologies.

Though it would be a wonderful world of knowledge to respect and learn about other belief systems, many parents do not believe in this format.

If parents wish, they could send their child or children to a Catholic or Protestant school verses a Government Public School.

This is very sad, as children, do not have a racist bone in their bodies. They are open and play with all children, white, black, Catholic, Protestant, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish etcetra.
It would make a better world !

Just turn one´s head and take a look at this world .. Most of the wars have been because of a racist nature or a theology ..

Oreo Tue 25-Mar-25 16:02:46

Allira

^But this school has managed to teach their pupils about all religions and their celebrations which is surely a good thing^

Yes, it is.

Anyway, must get started on my Easter bonnet. No time to waste.

😂 please post a pic when you’ve made it.

Oreo Tue 25-Mar-25 16:00:52

Churchview

*There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing.*

Eh? Not all Christians are white. There are over 700 million Christians in Africa and 26 million in India where Christianity is the third largest religion.

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It’s a big assumption that Christians are all white isn’t it?And I think a lot of the Windrush generation and their families are too.

Churchview Tue 25-Mar-25 15:38:23

There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing.

Eh? Not all Christians are white. There are over 700 million Christians in Africa and 26 million in India where Christianity is the third largest religion.

glasshalffullagain Tue 25-Mar-25 15:37:34

I am white, I was raised as a Christian.I have never , ever had any dealings with an Easter bonnet.

I too struggle with Easter time. I vividly recall my son sobbing when he saw a depiction of Christ being crucified.

We're all different? Surely?

Allira Tue 25-Mar-25 15:32:43

But this school has managed to teach their pupils about all religions and their celebrations which is surely a good thing

Yes, it is.

Anyway, must get started on my Easter bonnet. No time to waste.

Cateq Tue 25-Mar-25 15:31:06

My children celebrated all the religious festivals at playgroup, the teachers didn’t try and indoctrinate the children but taught them tolerance of another persons faith. I can still recall my DFiL face when my eldest wished him a happy Diwali, and when he asked my DS what he had learned he was able to explain what the festival related to. My DFiL a committed Christian was delighted my DS was being taught tolerance of other faiths. Perhaps if we had more of this type of lessons there could be greater acceptance of others.

Rula Tue 25-Mar-25 15:19:01

Allira

^There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing.^

That's rather an assumption.

A colleague many years ago was Indian and a practising Roman Catholic.
Some of my family are from the Caribbean and are Roman Catholic, another is Anglican.

Well it wasn't really an assumption. Just going on what my daughter in law has said.

But it matters not. Most of these children would not celebrate Christmas or Easter, they would celebrate Ramadan etc

But this school has managed to teach their pupils about all religions and their celebrations which is surely a good thing

Oldnproud Tue 25-Mar-25 15:14:31

Wong

Oh dear!! I thought her national religion of our country was Christian. For the last 78 years I have been under a false impression apparently. I think all religions are welcome in our country but on the understanding that this is our national religion and as such should be respected. I would take my kids out of that school. Does she believe in the ten commandments or is it okay to kill and steal etc.......What a creep.

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Oldnproud Tue 25-Mar-25 15:11:37

Jaxjacky

This school is local to us.
Posted on local FB by a parent and supported by many others

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Allira Tue 25-Mar-25 15:07:52

There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing.

That's rather an assumption.

A colleague many years ago was Indian and a practising Roman Catholic.
Some of my family are from the Caribbean and are Roman Catholic, another is Anglican.

Wyllow3 Tue 25-Mar-25 14:59:56

Good one, jaxjacky. I hope it will feature now in MSM.

Jaxjacky Tue 25-Mar-25 14:54:46

This school is local to us.
Posted on local FB by a parent and supported by many others

Wong Tue 25-Mar-25 14:52:09

Oh dear!! I thought her national religion of our country was Christian. For the last 78 years I have been under a false impression apparently. I think all religions are welcome in our country but on the understanding that this is our national religion and as such should be respected. I would take my kids out of that school. Does she believe in the ten commandments or is it okay to kill and steal etc.......What a creep.

Wyllow3 Tue 25-Mar-25 14:48:47

Thank you rulaIt's educative to see which MSM papers are carrying this news with a "shock horror headline".

Only a segment, the others have refrained as its at best half a story and taking it further involves unsubstantiated allegations.

Now followed up by the usual suspects crying "woke!" " our society destroyed". They are responsible for making this into a pile on, as you say having to involved the police and so on. No doubt threats.

Rula Tue 25-Mar-25 14:35:26

My daughter in law is a primary school teacher. There are no white children in this school at all. So no Christians I'm guessing.

She loves teaching these children. But they celebrate Christmas, Easter, Ramadan, yom kippur and probably more.

No parents have complained about celebrating Christmas and Easter and learning about other faiths. Hopefully all schools will evolve like this.

I've read that this head had to leave her school with the aid of the police yesterday lunchtime. No idea if that's true or not but they've been inundated with phone calls/emails/ texts etc etc.

In today's world we need to think. With social media the way it is there is a massive pile on and it becomes an horrendous ordeal for the people concerned.

Maybe it was inadvisable to send this letter out. Sure, cancel the wretched bonnet competition.

But let's try and evolve into educating without upsetting too many people. This has grown legs now. I wouldn't be surprised if she resigns, which would be a shame

Wyllow3 Tue 25-Mar-25 14:35:23

Sheian57

Easter is the most important date in the Christian calendar. All children in this country, being educated in our schools, irrespective of whether its a church school, should be educated as to what it is about. I am sure Ramadan, Eidd, Passover, Hannakah, Diwalli etc are all taught. Will they be off school on Good Friday and Easter holidays? Why? Surely this woke nonsense has gone too far. Our culture and foundations are being lost. I hope the feast is celebrated and taught and the head and governors reflect. Christianity is the most inclusive of all religions demonstrating love, forgiveness and compassion. The head is being exclusive anti-Christian IMO

What, because an Easter bonnet event is cancelled? As said repeatedly, we have not got the information as to the path the school will take to respecting and information on religions.

Sheian57 Tue 25-Mar-25 14:24:56

Easter is the most important date in the Christian calendar. All children in this country, being educated in our schools, irrespective of whether its a church school, should be educated as to what it is about. I am sure Ramadan, Eidd, Passover, Hannakah, Diwalli etc are all taught. Will they be off school on Good Friday and Easter holidays? Why? Surely this woke nonsense has gone too far. Our culture and foundations are being lost. I hope the feast is celebrated and taught and the head and governors reflect. Christianity is the most inclusive of all religions demonstrating love, forgiveness and compassion. The head is being exclusive anti-Christian IMO

yvonnebrown29 Tue 25-Mar-25 14:24:45

I agree with this ! Best reply on this thread !!

knspol Tue 25-Mar-25 14:00:19

If it's a multi cultural school then I think they should either celebrate all religions or none at all and my preference would be to celebrate all to encourage children to have a better understanding of the world around them.
As for the Easter bonnet parade, surely that's just a bit of fun for all to take part in, as far as I'm aware there's no religious background to this