“Bet Lynch”

Well of course I had a look, and I don't know what I was expecting really. However what I saw was the face of an older lady, full of joy and beautiful. That is the face her family loves. I rather think we should at least feel nothing negative looking at it.

To be honest I liked the photo. She looks so happy. At that age my mother in law - who did not have dementia - just looked permanently miserable.

It's also about consent.

It was about her dignity, he should have had enough nous to transpose himself into her position. Would he want someone posting such a picture if he was not compos mentis, not being able to make an informed choice and that picture going out to the nation to mull over, with the inevitable comparisons made between "then" and "now" Disrespectful and crass.

A vile act on the part of her husband. Was it an act of revenge for a past argument and he's holding a grudge? Or did a media outlet offer him a fat cheque?

He still loves his wife and posted the picture saying he and his lovely wife had celebrated her birthday, because he loves her and has seen her every day he does not see what others see, he deleted the post from his Facebook after the nasty comments and is very upset at what others were saying.

Have a pint glass from Coronation street with her on. Pint please Bet. She looks so glamorous

Why should we hide people away and be ashamed of them because they are no longer glamorous
I m not at all sure of the reason behind these photos but she shouldn’t be hidden because she has aged poorly
It seems he put the photos on FB and the newspapers picked them up and ran with it
Surely it should be the paper (which newspaper was it by the way ? ) which should be sued by him or her family

I thought the pics were awful as she was always such a glamorous lady.
I can't imagine she would want anyone seeing her like this, sad

The picture is still there I had not seen it but found it straight away
She looks happy and clean, her hair is tidy It's definitly a shock I am ashamed to say I thought she died years ago Its just her missing teeth which makes her look so different but maybe she won’t wear them
My mum couldn’t hear anything without her hearing aids which she’d relied on for years and years but when she had Alzheimer’s she would not wear them she pulled them straight out She also bit the dentist so he wouldn’t even look in her mouth any more.
She looks happy
I wonder why this picture was made public Perhaos he’s trying to say I love her anyway or I m not ashamed of my wife or perhaps he did make money out of the shock factor
Maybe it’s the media that’s in the wrong here

It does seem very disrespectful. I have seen the photo and was shocked at her appearance. Could it be that her DH wanted to show people the reality of dementia. We watch adverts on tv about people living with dementia, sweet elderly people who forget what day it is and constantly ask the same questions, if only Alzheimers Disease was so simple!
It can be hell on earth for carers , having to cope with their loved ones irrationality and poor judgement and their inability to listen to reason .
I have mixed feelings about that photograph, Julie Goodyear deserves dignity , but it is a stark reminder of what dementia can do to a person . It's a truly shocking progressive disease.

In what way was he raising awareness though. We know what alzheimers is, we know it us a terrible disease. He isn't performing any useful public service by doing this.

My Mum had Alzheimers and would have been horrified to have her photo taken without her teeth. She always looked beautiful, wore lovely perfume and I bought really nice clothes for her.

The husband is a lot younger. Good on him for caring for Julie but I don’t think the pre dementia Julie would have wanted this picture published or even taken. Perhaps he was just trying to raise awareness idk.

Mean and unnecessary I think. To give him the benefit of the doubt perhaps he wasn’t thinking straight. My DH and I both said it’s not the way to treat a person you love. At the very least he could have dressed her in nice clothes, a little makeup, teeth in etc.

Barbara Windsors husband didn’t do this sort of thing when she was ill. Nor Prunella Scales’ family.

Still maybe they need the £ as others have already pointed out.

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The picture has been removed, I think

Well, I’ve just seen it again, on F/B, only a minute ago, under ‘Celebrity News’ or similar.

The picture has been removed, I think

My mother passed Away last July of dementia and we told all family no pictures of mam were to be posted on social media as it’s just not respectful at all when someone is that ill . That picture of Julie saddens me

Was there monetary gain to be had by her husband I wonder by releasing Julie's photograph to the press.

I understand he's withdrawn the photo now, due to the backlash he's received, but obviously it's too late now.

Very unkind to post. There is a picture of her from 2024 which is much nicer, he should have re posted that.

My mum had Alzheimers and died aged 84. I made sure she always looked neat and tidy, took her to all her check ups, including the dentist.

It wasn’t kind to publish the photo as I’m pretty sure the lady herself would not have wanted it published if she was in her right mind. I found it upsetting.

It was unkind and disrespectful thing to do to a lady who was always proud of her appearance. No way was she able to consent to this either.

Wish I hadn’t looked, poor Julie.

Barbara Windsor’s husband didn’t post any unflattering pictures of her whilst in the throes of dementia.

Personally I think it is rather unkind, but hey ho not my decision to make 🤷‍♀️

I haven't seen this photo and am not going to look for it.
Some newspapers and websites look for the worst possible paparazzi pictures of celebrities to publish. As said above clickbait. Very cruel. But they obviously sell so some people must like seeing them.
Maybe the family need the money. Luckily she doesn't know. So sad.

I’m in two minds about it is well being shocked when I saw it.

It brought back memories of when my mum died in early 2022. I live 100 miles away from her and due to Covid restrictions hadn’t seen her for about a year. I went to see her in the funeral home and was so shocked and upset with how she looked. It was nothing like how she’d want me to remember her but naturally I wanted to see her to say goodbye.

I have been trying to find a photograph of my late H just before he died.
He also was 83 and had had Alzheimer’s for about 10 years.
He was well dressed and groomed and had all his own teeth.
The only thing out of order was the blank look in his eyes as he didn’t know what was happening,it was Christmas Day.