I sound ungrateful, but my late friend's husband who I keep in touch with, sends me a probably expensive bouquet containing flowers which hardly last (and in colours I dont particularly like) together with a lot (too much) of greenery. I would hate to upset him, as I know he gets a lot of pleasure from sending them, and say please don't send anymore. Difficult isnt it. So I am grateful for the thought, but not the actual flowers.
One friend sent me a bunch and did ask whst they were like. They were very poor and she was pleased I told her the truth so then she wouldnt use the same company again. She also sent fruit to another friend. I think MS and that was poor as well.