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Harry’s over for a Court case but not to see his Papa. 🤔

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FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 08-Apr-25 12:56:51

Charles & Camilla flew out to Rome on a planned visit so they missed one another by mere hours. Harry obviously didn’t want to spend any time with them. He will have known of their itinerary. There are so few occasions when he does fly over now from Montecito. An opportunity lost, especially with his father’s health I think.

Aveline Mon 14-Apr-25 12:07:11

He's 'nursing his wrath to keep it warm' it's his only way to make a living.
No money in being happy well balanced family man. Cynical? Moi?

Anniebach Mon 14-Apr-25 12:05:14

Interesting Mollygo all his tv interviews have been since he moved to America.

eazybee Mon 14-Apr-25 11:37:47

Harry is still. in my opinion, at the bitter resentful phase, and he is out for revenge, not healing.
He has not been treated badly or unfairly, but there is no sober, wiser, impartial counsel available to him that he would respect, no grandparents,mentors or friends, so restricted is his circle now.

Smileless2012 Mon 14-Apr-25 11:33:34

That doesn't surprise me Mollygo grin.

Mollygo Mon 14-Apr-25 11:28:06

Smileless2012

It's possible I supposeAnnie and even with the very best therapist, there has to be a desire to 'heal' for the therapy to be beneficial.

Therapy is, according to our US friends, a way of life. The only reason for not having a therapist over there, is that you can’t afford one.

Smileless2012 Mon 14-Apr-25 11:17:13

It's possible I supposeAnnie and even with the very best therapist, there has to be a desire to 'heal' for the therapy to be beneficial.

Anniebach Mon 14-Apr-25 11:03:38

Can therapy become addictive, both Harry and Diana spoke of
their therapy

Sparklefizz Mon 14-Apr-25 10:15:25

Yes. Harry says himself he has had years of therapy, and most likely the very best therapy that money can buy, yet it doesn't seem to have helped him much.

As you say eazybee, "nothing to be done".

eazybee Mon 14-Apr-25 09:38:55

Well I don’t have first hand involvement but I’d speculate anyone with training and experience of working with children would reach similar conclusions

Well I do have many years of training and much experience of working with children, some from broken homes, and my opinion of Harry is that he is:
A Poor Type.
Nothing to be done.

ViceVersa Mon 14-Apr-25 07:54:55

Allira

ViceVersa

Yes, you said "I didn’t think Megan was going to be a breath of fresh air, 36 year old divorcee in white gown with veil walking alone down the aisle of a church , no." If that isn't disapproval, what is it?

And?

Opinions may differ. It's allowed.

Of course it is. I was confused by the answer Anniebach gave which seemed to contradict what she said in an earlier post, so was simply seeking clarification. And apologies to Anniebach if you felt bullied. That certainly wasn't my intention and I'm sorry if my posts came across that way.

OldFrill Mon 14-Apr-25 07:43:42

Anniebach

Quote Iam64 Sun 13-Apr-25 19:03:38
Well Anniebach, I don’t have first hand involvement but I’d speculate anyone with training and experience of working with children would reach similar conclusions

Iam speculate ? . After years of countless newspaper articles,
books, tv dramas etc tv interviews etc ? your similar conclusions have been shared by many with training and experience and without training and experience.

Do any have first hand involvement

OldFrill Mon 14-Apr-25 07:42:44

Allira

ViceVersa

Yes, you said "I didn’t think Megan was going to be a breath of fresh air, 36 year old divorcee in white gown with veil walking alone down the aisle of a church , no." If that isn't disapproval, what is it?

And?

Opinions may differ. It's allowed.

Seemed a fair question to me, but then I'm invisible

Anniebach Mon 14-Apr-25 03:38:00

Quote Iam64 Sun 13-Apr-25 19:03:38
Well Anniebach, I don’t have first hand involvement but I’d speculate anyone with training and experience of working with children would reach similar conclusions

Iam speculate ? . After years of countless newspaper articles,
books, tv dramas etc tv interviews etc ? your similar conclusions have been shared by many with training and experience and without training and experience.

Allira Sun 13-Apr-25 22:57:22

ViceVersa

Yes, you said "I didn’t think Megan was going to be a breath of fresh air, 36 year old divorcee in white gown with veil walking alone down the aisle of a church , no." If that isn't disapproval, what is it?

And?

Opinions may differ. It's allowed.

OldFrill Sun 13-Apr-25 22:48:58

We had an exchange at 1632 & 1635 are they part of the pile on? (Certainly wasn't intended, but I'm quite worried now)

Anniebach Sun 13-Apr-25 22:46:45

I don’t report posts , I said I felt , not I was

OldFrill Sun 13-Apr-25 22:45:05

Sorry to hear that, Have you reported it Anniebach?

Anniebach Sun 13-Apr-25 22:28:15

Thank you Maw I did feel bullied

OldFrill Sun 13-Apr-25 22:20:27

I think Anniebach's opinion may have been misinterpreted, and clarification was asked, l don't think there's any "pile-on".

RosieandherMaw Sun 13-Apr-25 21:48:29

Why this pile-on? Anniebach is as entitled to her opinion as anybody.

Allira Sun 13-Apr-25 21:29:29

Rather similar to my outfit but a different colour and a much more discreet hat 🙂
Perfick!

Allira Sun 13-Apr-25 21:27:02

Iam64

Thanks FGT’s. She sent me the invitations to fault check earlier. I wept - it’s quirky venue and timetable, so like the two of them. Now / a mob outfit that doesn’t make me look like the lady mayoress if weatherfield
Apologies for thread derail

the lady mayoress if weatherfield
😁

No big hat then, as I wore to DD's wedding?
I still have it 20 years later but will never wear it again.

Ps you can borrow it if you like.

Anniebach Sun 13-Apr-25 21:18:34

Quote ViceVersa Sun 13-Apr-25 21:07:51
Yes, you said "I didn’t think Megan was going to be a breath of fresh air, 36 year old divorcee in white gown with veil walking alone down the aisle of a church , no." If that isn't disapproval, what is it?

My opinion of someone I would think of as a breath of fresh air ? nothing fresh about it, I accept all here think it was perfect , I did not ,disapproval has nothing to do with it,

ViceVersa Sun 13-Apr-25 21:07:51

Yes, you said "I didn’t think Megan was going to be a breath of fresh air, 36 year old divorcee in white gown with veil walking alone down the aisle of a church , no." If that isn't disapproval, what is it?

Anniebach Sun 13-Apr-25 21:00:23

Quote ViceVersa Sun 13-Apr-25 20:56:25
Anniebach
Quote Galaxy Sun 13-Apr-25 19:47:02
No but I think 36 year old divorcees are allowed to get married in white.

Expect they are allowed to marry in any colour they choose,
again I spoke of ‘white gown with veil’
I'm confused. Now you're saying she could marry in whatever colour she chose, but you didn't approve of her marrying in white?

A 36 year old divorcee wearing a White gown and veil and walking alone down the aisle

I said I didn’t approve?