There are no winners here. A family schism hurts all concerned in different ways and to different depths I imagine. Harry is doing his best as is his father and older brother. They will muddle through life, perhaps overlapping, perhaps not.
Itâs just really sad to witness as owing to their status and degree of public interest, it gets played out on the world stage.
Most families are able to keep their business under wraps and just share what they choose to.
Harry made his choice. He must lie in the bed he chose as far as Iâm concerned. With choices come consequences and his perceived lack of security was one such. That said heâs wealthy! Very. He could visit and pay for his own security no problem but I think heâs dug in now and sees this as a matter of principle for a royal born Prince.
He seems a mixed up lad. He didnât want to âbe royalâ anymore and to some extent I can sympathise. But he canât cherry pick. Itâs like you canât be a little bit pregnant. Youâre in The Firm, or not.
I was hoping there might have been some reconnection by now, especially with his Papaâs cancer condition but apparently thatâs not shifted the dial any so his feelings must be pretty concrete by now.
He has a beautiful wife, gorgeous children, a stunning home. I wish he could be happier with all the blessings he has in his life and I just hoped (the reason for the thread) he could maybe be magnanimous towards his family by now. Say âsorryâ perhaps? It would go a long way and someone has to make the first move.
Sadly heâs not there yet.
I hope in time, given his Papaâs palliative chemotherapy treatment, he doesnât leave it too late.
Thereby would lie regrets that could not be put right and I think his mental health is fragile enough.
Missing the boat would make him a very bitter man I think.