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62Granny Thu 19-Jun-25 17:11:49

I went to lunch with some friends the other day , I was driving so I had a Zero alcohol drink, don't know why I bothered I would have enjoyed my usual sort drink just as much. 3 of the others were having alcohol , two shared a bottle of wine and then had large G&T's the other had 2 bottles of beer.
I have never been able to drink alcohol on a lunch time, more than a glass sends me sleep for the afternoon especially if it is warm weather.
I will have a glass of wine at home on a Saturday but always with food.

lafergar Sat 21-Jun-25 15:49:25

Madmeg

A medium glass of normal strength wine is about 2.4 units of alcohol which is above the safe driving limit and the advice is to not drive for abt 3 hours afterwards.

I have been a very heavy drinker at times in the past but as part of my long attempt to lose excess weight I switched to Zero alcohol red wine. It took ages to find one that was palatable and initially I mixed it with full-blown Shiraz, gradually increasing the percentage of Zero till I was eventually down to no real wine at all. It served me well cos I was diagnosed with oral cancer in 2023 so wine was off the menu anyway.

Unfortunately many pubs/restaurants still don't serve Zero wine of any sort, and very rarely the one I like. It also isn't sold in many supermarkets either and costs an absolute fortune to buy online. Even cruise ships only offer one brand - fortunately I find it pretty acceptable.

Sorry you've had a horrible day. Sometimes it is a very good answer.

Autumncolours Sat 21-Jun-25 14:25:22

I think the comments about not drinking and driving were prompted by silverlining48 who said she drank one medium glass of wine with lunch if she was driving.

Parsley3 Sat 21-Jun-25 09:28:31

MooM00

Been there, done that, got the teeshirt. Remembering the old days of the wine boxes in the afternoon, led to a very dark place. 27 years sober thanks to AA.

That's some achievement MooMOO. Very well done indeed.
I am very lucky that I can enjoy a glass of wine with lunch without any consequences. Never if I am driving, of course.

Retread Sat 21-Jun-25 09:16:47

That's brilliant *MooM00" 👏

Retread Sat 21-Jun-25 09:15:36

RosieandherMaw

^Speaking of "pissed as a fart" - there's little worse than an old woman farting and burping her way through the evening having over indulged earlier in the day^

Ageist AND sexist hmm

AND now, predictable hmm

(I had included "or old man" etcetera etcetera because one has to be so careful on GN, but then bored myself and deleted it).

MooM00 Sat 21-Jun-25 08:59:33

Been there, done that, got the teeshirt. Remembering the old days of the wine boxes in the afternoon, led to a very dark place. 27 years sober thanks to AA.

V3ra Sat 21-Jun-25 07:35:49

Mcguigan Zero Shiraz 75cl, Pack of 6 amzn.eu/d/6zkR0Ur

Madmeg is this the one you like?

RosieandherMaw Sat 21-Jun-25 07:35:19

Speaking of "pissed as a fart" - there's little worse than an old woman farting and burping her way through the evening having over indulged earlier in the day

Ageist AND sexist hmm

Retread Sat 21-Jun-25 07:29:22

Speaking of "pissed as a fart" - there's little worse than an old woman farting and burping her way through the evening having over indulged earlier in the day! I know from experience when I've had the misfortune of being away and sharing a hotel room with a friend.

It was enough to put me off red wine for good!

harrigran Sat 21-Jun-25 07:03:01

I was out for lunch yesterday and my friend and I shared a bottle of Champagne, we only do it once a month and we do have a chauffeur.
Yes I fell asleep in the garden 😆

CocoPops Sat 21-Jun-25 03:19:22

I got thirsty reading this so I am having G'n'T. (It's 7.20pm here)
Lovely stuff .Might have another. Bottoms up!

Madmeg Sat 21-Jun-25 01:00:46

A medium glass of normal strength wine is about 2.4 units of alcohol which is above the safe driving limit and the advice is to not drive for abt 3 hours afterwards.

I have been a very heavy drinker at times in the past but as part of my long attempt to lose excess weight I switched to Zero alcohol red wine. It took ages to find one that was palatable and initially I mixed it with full-blown Shiraz, gradually increasing the percentage of Zero till I was eventually down to no real wine at all. It served me well cos I was diagnosed with oral cancer in 2023 so wine was off the menu anyway.

Unfortunately many pubs/restaurants still don't serve Zero wine of any sort, and very rarely the one I like. It also isn't sold in many supermarkets either and costs an absolute fortune to buy online. Even cruise ships only offer one brand - fortunately I find it pretty acceptable.

Kate1949 Fri 20-Jun-25 23:31:10

Well I've had a few glasses tonight. I've had a horrible day. Please don't tell me drinking isn't the answer. I know

Allira Fri 20-Jun-25 23:09:00

Oreo

Allira

Elderflower pressé if out to lunch.

I tried this once but the smell put me off (Tom cat)🐱 but find a good lunchtime drink is a small amount of white wine mixed with soda.

Oh thanks!
🐱

Oreo Fri 20-Jun-25 23:06:15

RosieandherMaw

petra

Does everyone have to announce that they don’t drink and drive, isn’t that a given 🤷‍♀️
Nobody is going to admit being pissed as a fart when driving are they.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hic🍹

Oreo Fri 20-Jun-25 23:05:34

Allira

Elderflower pressé if out to lunch.

I tried this once but the smell put me off (Tom cat)🐱 but find a good lunchtime drink is a small amount of white wine mixed with soda.

RosieandherMaw Fri 20-Jun-25 22:57:08

petra

Does everyone have to announce that they don’t drink and drive, isn’t that a given 🤷‍♀️
Nobody is going to admit being pissed as a fart when driving are they.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

petra Fri 20-Jun-25 22:34:46

Does everyone have to announce that they don’t drink and drive, isn’t that a given 🤷‍♀️
Nobody is going to admit being pissed as a fart when driving are they.

ginny Fri 20-Jun-25 22:20:02

grandMattie

For goodness sakes! Not drinking - lunch, afternoon or evening - doesn’t make one a party pooper!

I agree.
I never drink alcohol. I’ve never found an alcoholic drink that I like. Never had a problem being invited out. I’m perfectly able to enjoy myself as much as the next person.

CanadianGran Fri 20-Jun-25 22:03:24

You'll often find me at 4pm in the garden with a cider or glass of rose. Since retiring I try to keep it to weekends, but if someone drops over the rule goes out the window.

M0nica Fri 20-Jun-25 21:07:20

GrannyGravy. Lafegar. if course we can all,enjoy a bit of 'what we fancy'. It is just that for some 'what we fancy' doesn't include anything with alcohol.

I am certainly not teetotal, but I have always been a very light alcoholic drinker. Most of the time I prefer a soft drink. In my case it is 'what I fancy'

orly Fri 20-Jun-25 21:00:43

Did you split the bill evenly?

grandMattie Fri 20-Jun-25 20:36:20

For goodness sakes! Not drinking - lunch, afternoon or evening - doesn’t make one a party pooper!

I was on medication at one time which forbade alcohol I was 22 at the time but still enjoyed myself and, as I was reinvited, I couldn’t have been such bad company, despite being sober.

GrannyIvy Fri 20-Jun-25 19:54:41

I never drink and drive but enjoy a glass or two of wine. Drinking at lunchtime makes me sleepy but I indulge occasionally 😂

Norah Fri 20-Jun-25 19:29:59

mabon1

I don't ever drink alcohol, morning, afternoon or evening even if I am out for a meal, nor do I share the drinks bill.

Have you considered separate tab?

My preference going with family, we pay the bill and tip.