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kittylester Sun 29-Jun-25 18:35:51

I am horrified to have been told, in the last couple of days, that Rod Stewart's music should not be listened to because he supports reform and to stop watching Eastenders and read a library book.

Well, I watched Rod Stewart and am still an SDP supporter - if they only still existed!

And, the library in our village is a very successfully run community library which i helped transition from Council control -between watching episodes of Eastenders.

For goodness sake - get a grip some of you!

GrannyGravy13 Tue 01-Jul-25 14:18:50

Wyllow3

Rod Stewart released "Maggie May" in 1981. The questioning/critique of misogyny was very well underway by then by both women and me.

Released in 1971, well, that would have been a different matter.

But the whole issue is changed anyway by the fact that"Maggie May" was a sex worker. The young man is paying for what he gets.

I do understand, some young men lack confidence, and turn to a sex worker, possible in 1981 when everyone around seemed to be very active in that way:

However he pays for it, which is bold not shy, and also paying for it just avoids all that Rod Stewart is moaning about.

Rod Stewart first released Maggie May in July 1971.

I remember it well as one of my Grans absolutely loved Rod and this song.

BlueBelle Tue 01-Jul-25 14:18:28

I ve no idea what I said either kittylester but I know it put me back into my shell I d come from for a good while
I think the referendum really divided people up all those years ago as well and brought out the harsh side in some and then Covid didn’t help, all stuck in feeling vulnerable
But I came back and cautiously found my voice

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 14:15:18

Wish I could claim it as mine own Cossy 🤭

Cossy Tue 01-Jul-25 14:07:55

Oreo

The past is a another country, they do things differently there.

I love that phrase!

Claremont Tue 01-Jul-25 14:06:21

Oreo

The past is a another country, they do things differently there.

Tonight's the night- is really quite shocking in today's money- about sex with a virgin child.

I remember when Rod was a keen supporter of Enoch Powell- and now seems to think Farage is worth a chance- so not that much changed!

Wyllow3 Tue 01-Jul-25 14:02:11

correction, "men" in first paragraph.

Wyllow3 Tue 01-Jul-25 14:01:40

Rod Stewart released "Maggie May" in 1981. The questioning/critique of misogyny was very well underway by then by both women and me.

Released in 1971, well, that would have been a different matter.

But the whole issue is changed anyway by the fact that"Maggie May" was a sex worker. The young man is paying for what he gets.

I do understand, some young men lack confidence, and turn to a sex worker, possible in 1981 when everyone around seemed to be very active in that way:

However he pays for it, which is bold not shy, and also paying for it just avoids all that Rod Stewart is moaning about.

AmberGran Tue 01-Jul-25 13:38:30

If anything Maggie May should be a warning to all impressionable schoolboys to stay away from older women!

Poor lad, seduced by probably his first major crush who appears to just want him for sex , and abandons him when she's not interested. But a major crush in a youngster being what it is he hangs around, even though he knows he's been stupid and should get back to his own life.

Not a huge Rod Stewart fan but I loved Maggie May, and still do.

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 13:25:07

The past is a another country, they do things differently there.

Wyllow3 Tue 01-Jul-25 13:23:03

lafergar

*Tonight’s The Night is grim though*

Urgh, really creepy.

Rod was part of the sound track to my youth. I wished he'd stayed there. I wish I could go back to those days and unknow a lot of what I know now.

Blimey, it's creepy. And too close to home, I was divorced from a man who was coercively abusing me, police and all: this says it all, really, how men like him relate to women.

"Come on angel my hearts on fire

Don't deny your man's desire

You'd be a fool to stop this tide

Spread your wings

^ and let me come inside^,

'cause
....
Tonight's the night
It's gonna be alright
'Cause I love you girl
Ain't nobody gonna stop us now
^Don't say a word my virgin child
Just let your inhibitions run wild
The secret is about to unfold
Upstairs before the night's too old^

all there, isnt it.

(yes, I have recovered, 3 years on, living happily alone)

so I guess you might say I'm not a fan.

and to those that say, what's a song got to do with politics?

My answer is "the personal IS political" - otherwise we wouldn't have political threads on abuse of women and children

kittylester Tue 01-Jul-25 13:04:57

I'm giving up mow - command should have been comma- beeping auto whatsits!

Wyllow3 Tue 01-Jul-25 12:57:34

Doodledog

Maggie May was a Liverpool prostitute who features in other songs. She steals a sailor’s money in some and gets him transported to Botany Bay in others.

Tonight’s The Night is grim though.

Ah, that answers it, thank you.

Wyllow3 Tue 01-Jul-25 12:56:02

LizzieDrip

Nevertheless Wyllow the next lines are:

“But that don’t worry me none,
In my eyes, you’re everything”

🤣🤣🤣

Indeed, what a winger. Poor little boy led astray by Older Woman (needy, yes, but fgs) she took him away from school

(I suspect it happened to him so he's having a good moan at her expense very publicly. Of course he could claim "it happened to a friend" hmm

GrannyGravy13 Tue 01-Jul-25 12:50:55

Allira Every Breath is definitely creepy.

I remember the furore last Christmas about Baby it’s Cold Outside.

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:46:55

Phew, what a relief!

kittylester Tue 01-Jul-25 12:45:43

For the avoidance of doubt- I hope allira knows I'm joking!! I'm sure she does but......

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:45:34

GrannyGravy13

lafergar

Tonight’s The Night is grim though

Urgh, really creepy.

Rod was part of the sound track to my youth. I wished he'd stayed there. I wish I could go back to those days and unknow a lot of what I know now.

Tonight’s the Night is rather innocent compared to the rappers and drill artists lyrics of today, both female and male.

The creepiest song is Police and Every Breath You Take
Eeurgh!

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:44:42

kittylester

Honestly, they are pop songs!

Allira what I'm reading? I missed a command, sorry. Are you the grammar police? 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

😁

I'm getting all confused now!

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:43:36

Galaxy

A lot of entertainment from even 10 - 20 years ago can seem very odd when viewed through today's lens. There are many songs which have very sexist/creepy lyrics (The Police spring to mind) . But even if you watch classic corrie or emmerdale, there are some really unpleasant storylines around relationships between much older men and teenage girls which wouldn't be written today.

Peggy's one-time love interest in Eastenders was 10 years younger than her.

kittylester Tue 01-Jul-25 12:43:03

Honestly, they are pop songs!

Allira what I'm reading? I missed a command, sorry. Are you the grammar police? 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

Galaxy Tue 01-Jul-25 12:40:35

A lot of entertainment from even 10 - 20 years ago can seem very odd when viewed through today's lens. There are many songs which have very sexist/creepy lyrics (The Police spring to mind) . But even if you watch classic corrie or emmerdale, there are some really unpleasant storylines around relationships between much older men and teenage girls which wouldn't be written today.

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:37:37

lafergar

*Tonight’s The Night is grim though*

Urgh, really creepy.

Rod was part of the sound track to my youth. I wished he'd stayed there. I wish I could go back to those days and unknow a lot of what I know now.

Yes, but if Rod had stayed there and you had too, he'd still be there!

As it is, we didn't hear much about him, until Glastonbury.

I must admit to never really listening to the words of many songs.

Beechnut Tue 01-Jul-25 12:33:18

0°0° my schooling for today, thanks GrannyGravy

GrannyGravy13 Tue 01-Jul-25 12:28:24

lafergar

*Tonight’s The Night is grim though*

Urgh, really creepy.

Rod was part of the sound track to my youth. I wished he'd stayed there. I wish I could go back to those days and unknow a lot of what I know now.

Tonight’s the Night is rather innocent compared to the rappers and drill artists lyrics of today, both female and male.

Allira Tue 01-Jul-25 12:12:53

kittylester

Best not ask Allira blush

Ask me what?

¿Qué? I know nothing!