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100th birthday - gift suggestions please!

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NonnaW Wed 02-Jul-25 14:56:47

A member of my family is approaching 100. She has mobility problems, and failing sight but is still bright and alert. She lives in an assisted living facility and has carers come in. I am stumped for gift ideas other than the usual flowers but she will probably be inundated with those!
Any suggestions please?

OldFrill Thu 03-Jul-25 16:39:14

When l bought this house it came with nearly all the previous occupant's personal possessions (died in her 90s).
The drawers and cupboards were full of the paraphernalia that she'd obviously received as presents over the years
Stratton powder compacts, perfume, hand creams, face and body potions and lotions, scarves/shawls/ pashmenas , handkerchiefs, picture frames, ornaments, jewellery, nighties, gloves, underwear.
Mostly these were brand new, unopened, unworn and mainly - due to smell, fading, age and various other conditions, unusable.
I'd stick with giving flowers, chocolates, biscuits.

caje193 Thu 03-Jul-25 16:16:42

A really lovely frame for the letter from the King

skate Thu 03-Jul-25 16:03:20

I think a beautiful.pashmina would be well received.. It looks elegant and is warm and cosy too, as well as being lightweight (as opposed to a bulky shawl which can be a bit of a nuisance to manage).

Mt61 Thu 03-Jul-25 15:54:11

I think a lot of older folk can’t be bothered with flowers, especially bouquets. All that faffing, carting a heavy vase round to change the water.
I prefer to see them in a garden.

Mt61 Thu 03-Jul-25 15:51:35

Can’t go wrong with a pretty shawl

Frenchgalinspain Thu 03-Jul-25 15:43:34

Jaxjacky

A special pedicure/manicure?

That would be lovely .. And also the hairdresser ..

Soozikinzi Thu 03-Jul-25 15:03:57

Daffodil afternoon teas are very nice with welsh barabrith etc

grandMattie Thu 03-Jul-25 14:58:08

One of my more successful presents was a book of vouchers. Not your usual sort, but one of promises, like baking a cake, a bunch of flowers, taking her out, etc. She was absolutely delighted!

justwokeup Thu 03-Jul-25 14:26:11

My relative compiled a moving photograph frame to show photos of people that meant a lot to the birthday recipient throughout the 100 years of her life. It took quite a bit of effort to get good digital copies of old photos but it was like having family and friends in the room. A lovely gift if you have the time, patience and access to such photos, of course.

GrannyBettie Thu 03-Jul-25 14:21:16

Someone I know lives in a care home and the home had the greetings from the King framed for her. Perhaps you could do that?

Mojack26 Thu 03-Jul-25 14:16:59

Agree. I am nowhere near 100 yet but I am getting rid of 'stuff' would rather have 'presence' than 'presents'..as someibe abive said

cc Thu 03-Jul-25 14:08:00

I'm not sure whether she spends most of her time up and dressed or in bed, but one elderly lady we know was very pleased with a beautiful bed jacket, though I agree with Minnieme that a pashmina would be lovely and serves the same purpose - nice ones are very expensive though.

shysal Thu 03-Jul-25 13:55:12

This won't be suitable in your case, but I knew a gentleman who requested a stainless steel garden spade and fork for his 100th! I asked for the same as part of my retirement present at work.

If you have time, cartoonists on line will compose and print a picture made up of all the incidents, people and places you provide. We used some hilarious ones for retirements at work, they became the norm for these occasions. However, in those days it was a local artist who did them.

I hope the occasion goes well.

Narnia Thu 03-Jul-25 13:49:13

Subscription to Audible so she can listen to books etc

imAbat Thu 03-Jul-25 13:44:48

I have a bottle of scent to the last centenarian I knew......any sort of cosmetics would be acceptable I should think......what about a voucher for a manicure or, my favourite, a bottle of really good single malt.....but then I'm only 80!

Applegran Thu 03-Jul-25 13:42:31

I agree with creating a photo book of her and family - she would love it and love knowing that others in the family also had copies of this book, so by implication she will be remembered by later generations.

Vintagegirl Thu 03-Jul-25 13:42:16

My mother got many cards and also the one from the Queen - it was the only one she kept out on display for the rest of her life. What about a nice photoframe to put it in and maybe allow the inside section to be visible as well?

SaxonGrace Thu 03-Jul-25 13:39:42

I suspect that once you get to a great age the one thing that’s nice even in assisted living is visits, not necessarily on the day as probably a big fuss will be made of her, but maybe a week later when the excitement has died down a bit

Minnieme Thu 03-Jul-25 13:34:07

A nice cardigan or pashmino

NonnaW Thu 03-Jul-25 12:43:08

Thanks for all the suggestions. As I previously stated, we will be seeing her in person on the day, all being well. I’m sure we will be able to come up with something out of all the suggestions.

Many thanks!

Chardy Thu 03-Jul-25 09:13:36

If you're on Etsy, you can get a journey through the years card with her name and date of birth on. Or a poster to be framed

Jane43 Thu 03-Jul-25 09:13:10

My cousin is in a care home, for her birthday I sent her a box of three small bottles of very nice hand cream and a silk scarf, my other cousin tells me she was delighted with the gifts.

Chardy Thu 03-Jul-25 09:07:41

Thortful do a journey through the years birthday card. (My vote is always for a Photobook too)

Allira Wed 02-Jul-25 22:07:37

Good idea!

butterandjam Wed 02-Jul-25 20:30:04

You could make a family photo album , including lots of her self and her homes or life at all stages, as many relatives as you can with their names, . and perhaps get some of them to write a little personal memory or message to go with their photo . You can type them up to be more legible (and match).

Lots of memories for her, and she can show them off to her carers and cronies.