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Girl in Union Jack dress sent home on diversity day

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Primrose53 Tue 15-Jul-25 17:05:47

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cyvj289y788o

Poor kid. I heard this on breakfast news and could not believe it. She is apparently a grade A student in her first year at High School and this will surely stay with her right through her school career now.

The school have apologised but what on earth were they thinking of in the first place?

I guess the buck stops with the Head Teacher and she should definitely be forced to take some training on being proud to be British.

Allira Fri 18-Jul-25 21:35:49

Not at primary schools my DGC attended (although when my DC were at primary school then yes!).

Secondary school can be like a bear pit.

Iam64 Fri 18-Jul-25 21:28:52

That is not the case in the primary schools my grandchildren attend Allira. It certainly was the case at my high school but I expect they’ve improved as well

Allira Fri 18-Jul-25 19:50:22

PoliticsNerd

Iam64

Let’s hope the fuss dies down

... and that we don't loose more teachers because of yet another parent confusing his role with regard to schooling.

If your child is bullied by either pupils or teachers what is the answer?

Not all teachers are perfect and in the job because they want the best for their pupils although I think most are. Some seem to actively dislike children and humiliate them.

icanhandthemback Fri 18-Jul-25 17:53:55

escaped

Let's put this into context ......

It's a weapon that the parent can use against the school.
The school cannot publically explain the situation.
And most importantly, the school will NOT disclose any information about the child.

That is what posters on here meant by no one having the full story, or knowing the background.

The very fact that the school have publicly apologised and said their staff will be trained further in policy shows they believe they were in the wrong so no explanation is needed. I am quite sure that if there were legitimate reasons for their stance, they would have said that they couldn't comment on individual cases but stood by their decision. You don't always need the full story to know a mistake has been made.

Granmarderby10 Fri 18-Jul-25 16:41:41

Galaxy exactly

Galaxy Fri 18-Jul-25 16:36:26

If organisations behave in a ridiculous or discriminatory manner ( there is currently a thread running on organisations behaving in this way) then people need to have methods to challenge that behaviour. Now as I have said I am sure this father is tricksy to say the least but when schools behave in this way they are playing into the hands of people who may want to 'use' this behaviour against them.

escaped Fri 18-Jul-25 16:31:46

Let's put this into context ......

It's a weapon that the parent can use against the school.
The school cannot publically explain the situation.
And most importantly, the school will NOT disclose any information about the child.

That is what posters on here meant by no one having the full story, or knowing the background.

Iam64 Fri 18-Jul-25 16:17:04

I don’t disagree with you icanhandthemback. The entire episode was very badly handled by the school. Sadly teachers and other public servants live with the fear of ending up front page daily mail

icanhandthemback Fri 18-Jul-25 16:08:19

PoliticsNerd

Iam64

Let’s hope the fuss dies down

... and that we don't loose more teachers because of yet another parent confusing his role with regard to schooling.

When a mistake is made that causes your child to miss school unfairly then the parent has an absolute right to challenge it. I would have done too. I would have approached the school with the view of allowing them to put things right and if they wouldn't, I would have publicised it too if I thought it was the only way to get justice.

Iam64 Fri 18-Jul-25 15:58:56

Well indeed - recruitment retention of teachers, police, social workers and more, no wonder we have problems

PoliticsNerd Fri 18-Jul-25 15:56:18

Iam64

Let’s hope the fuss dies down

... and that we don't loose more teachers because of yet another parent confusing his role with regard to schooling.

Iam64 Fri 18-Jul-25 15:48:52

Let’s hope the fuss dies down

escaped Fri 18-Jul-25 15:20:52

No doubt it will all be forgotten when they go back in September.
Yes, the school will be thanking its lucky stars that there's 6 weeks off for it all to go away. (Though the Head might be having sleepless nights over the summer break!)
That clean slate September feeling is such a nice feeling for everyone.

Jaxjacky Fri 18-Jul-25 14:54:25

We have 2 or 3 Union Jacks flown on poles in our village, they change too for events such as the Olympics or Christmas, nobody bats an eyelid.
That includes MrJ who’s from a Catholic family in Belfast, although he’s not practicing as he was also bought up to be accepting.

NotSpaghetti Fri 18-Jul-25 14:02:29

I do not support Hamas either nanna8 - but i don't believe "so many seem to now".

I also don't think the Palestinian flag is the Hamas flag, any more than our flag is the Labour flag or the German flag is the CDU flag.

JaneJudge Fri 18-Jul-25 13:57:51

Farmers want people to "Back British farming". That isn't racist, is it?

Iam64 Fri 18-Jul-25 13:51:37

I was enjoying a long walk in open countryside with a group of friends. We saw an England flag on its pole in a farmers front garden. Oh dear said a friend, racists live there. He was a Catholic from Northern Ireland, a lovely kind, sensible man. I challenged him, referring to Irish flags I’d seen flying in the north and well as Southern Ireland. What to do? I identify as English but support the union as well as English flag. It’s long past the stage where we should be afraid to support our flag and heritage .

nanna8 Fri 18-Jul-25 12:39:12

PoliticsNerd

nanna8

Maybe time we dropped the Union Jack from the corner of our flag if it means so little to the British these days ?

I think some of us have made it very clear that we respect our flag nanna8. Members of my family have fought under that flag as did many from other countries when the call was made.

I'm disgusted that it's treated as a petty game to some when it means so much that many thought of it as a symbol of the country they then gave their lives for.

How do you feel about your Australian flag?

I respect your flag. I hate the way so many don’t seem to these days. My parents were both in the RAF in the war and I totally respect and admire what they did. My great uncle fought and died under the Australian flag and I also respect and honour him. I do not honour the Palestinian flag, it is not mine and I do not support Hamas as so many seem to now. I can’t understand why flying a Union Jack is considered rascist . I really can’t.

JaneJudge Fri 18-Jul-25 12:38:18

I agree that when it's used in this way it is almost like a form of vigilantism

REKA Fri 18-Jul-25 12:35:02

So they've closed the school early due to online abuse.

Whoever made the decision was wrong. The school appreciates this and had apologised.

No doubt it will all be forgotten when they go back in September

Social media is a beast.

V3ra Fri 18-Jul-25 12:28:14

Thank you JaneJudge

Allira Fri 18-Jul-25 11:21:49

JaneJudge

I like your poster V3ra

What are the 5 main British Values?
The five core British values —democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, mutual respect, and tolerance of those with different faiths and beliefs— serve as the pillars of British society, influencing how individuals interact with each other and the state

Individual liberty is the freedom of individuals to make their own choices and pursue their own interests, within the bounds of the law and respecting the rights of others. It encompasses the right to express oneself freely, choose one's own beliefs, and participate in society without undue external constraints. This includes freedoms like speech, religion, and movement, but also the responsibility to act within the confines of the law and to respect the rights of others.

Maybe the school should have googled before sending pupils home

Well said.

All pupils are equal but some seem to be more equal than others.

JaneJudge Fri 18-Jul-25 11:06:01

I like your poster V3ra

What are the 5 main British Values?
The five core British values —democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, mutual respect, and tolerance of those with different faiths and beliefs— serve as the pillars of British society, influencing how individuals interact with each other and the state

Individual liberty is the freedom of individuals to make their own choices and pursue their own interests, within the bounds of the law and respecting the rights of others. It encompasses the right to express oneself freely, choose one's own beliefs, and participate in society without undue external constraints. This includes freedoms like speech, religion, and movement, but also the responsibility to act within the confines of the law and to respect the rights of others.

Maybe the school should have googled before sending pupils home

Boz Fri 18-Jul-25 10:57:51

PoliticsNerd

Boz

Diversity seems to be the worst thing to promote these days. A red rag to a bull to some people inviting trouble and controversy as we are seeing.

The Trump effect?

When the USA sneezes, we catch a cold. Especially when our PM and Ambassador cosy-up so close!

Jaxjacky Fri 18-Jul-25 10:05:55

It is Maremia