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Aveline Wed 06-Aug-25 13:47:17

Have people seen this? It's for peri, menopausal and post menopausal women. It was started in America but has online branches all over. In it a lady with big glasses reads out the days list of things we do not care about.
Everything listed applies to me too.

Oreo Wed 06-Aug-25 13:48:16

Haven’t seen it but sounds fun 😃

Aveline Wed 06-Aug-25 13:51:40

She's called Melani Sanders and she just does not care any longer

Oreo Wed 06-Aug-25 13:55:39

I’ll look her up, sounds like my kinda thing😄

AmberGran Wed 06-Aug-25 16:22:47

I know this is a tongue in cheek thing where everyone jumps on the 'I don't care either' bandwagon but - why would anyone waste precious time and brain power even thinking about things they don't care about, much less drawing up lists. The things I don't care about disappear off my radar pretty fast.

Astitchintime Wed 06-Aug-25 16:31:48

I am rapidly getting to the point where I don’t care any more. My ‘filters’ are wearing out and I am long past the stage of apologetic behaviour when I know for a fact I am not in the wrong!

Hithere Wed 06-Aug-25 16:40:24

I think it should apply to all women despite their age - she is brilliant btw

crazyH Wed 06-Aug-25 16:41:40

Yes Aveline - I love her; I think her name is Melani 🤣🤣🤣🤣

crazyH Wed 06-Aug-25 16:42:38

Sorry, you did say her name is Melani Sanders

Aveline Wed 06-Aug-25 16:52:34

Every one of the things she reads out that we do not care about - I find myself completely agreeing with grin

Doversole Thu 07-Aug-25 13:42:13

I love it. And especially the way she crosses things off the list with her highlighter (I think) after she has said them.

Aveline Thu 07-Aug-25 13:45:48

She's so serious too.

Bucci Thu 07-Aug-25 13:46:48

It’s a meant to be a sisterhood so women don’t feel alone. I love her!

keepingquiet Thu 07-Aug-25 13:49:13

I haven't heard of her. I have a friend who uses this phrase a lot but she does actually care about a great many things, and rightly so.

Another common phrase I hear a lot is, 'I don't do anything I don't want to do anymore.'

Sometimes when I hear people say this I think, 'neither do I so why am I even in your company?'

Nannan2 Thu 07-Aug-25 14:02:03

Keeping quiet😁😆

Holiver Thu 07-Aug-25 14:10:33

I watch it - she’s fabulous! Didn’t know there were other sites - in the UK?

Romola Thu 07-Aug-25 14:10:40

"Don't care was made to care" as our nanny would say if any of us said "I don't care."

I'm not saying you have to do something about every issue, but at least to be conscious of what goes on has to be right.

And to say, "I don't care" if someone has made a suggestion about what to play/eat/go to/say, that's so negative and rude.

WithNobsOnIt Thu 07-Aug-25 14:28:54

Sounds like good fun. Must watch it. I am approaching Sod it all.myselg
Has anybody watched

"Is it cake"

Quite daft really,but raises a good old fashioned chortle

NannaFirework Thu 07-Aug-25 14:31:00

I love her! Always makes me laugh x great gal ❤️

Lindylou23 Thu 07-Aug-25 16:00:55

It seems like the self help book that is all the rage at the moment, 'Let Them'. I've not read it yet.

Trisha99 Thu 07-Aug-25 16:26:43

I think she’s brilliant. It’s the deadpan delivery, the many pairs of reading glasses and she has the ‘calling the meeting to order’ just right.
One of today’s that made me smile was ‘ I do not care that your room is your safe space, it’s in my house. Clean it’.

Paddington1914 Thu 07-Aug-25 17:51:36

I agree with Amber gran! There is far too much else to worry about.

grannydarkhair Thu 07-Aug-25 19:04:57

I’m another fan, she always makes me laugh when she appears on my feed.

Bridie22 Thu 07-Aug-25 19:24:27

She makes me smile everyday, and I agree with her lists .🤣

Room4Life Thu 07-Aug-25 22:39:32

I didn't know she existed. Just brilliant. Thank you!