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Living with pain - some thoughts which could make a difference

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Applegran Mon 08-Sept-25 10:09:05

Like everyone else I have had physical pain in my life, but I know that there are many people who live with constant pain. I can hardly imagine how hard that must be and wish I could offer a magic cure. I cannot do that, but do want to share some information which might help - and it is not about more and more pain killers.
These are resources from qualified people and they do not offer instant or magical relief - but they have helped many people and I hope this may help some one at least.

www.saga.co.uk/magazine/health-and-wellbeing/alternatives-to-prescription-drugs-for-chronic-pain

www.waterstones.com/book/chronic-pain-your-key-to-recovery/georgie-oldfield/9781910077757

www.waterstones.com/book/they-cant-find-anything-wrong/david-d-clarke/9781591810643

www.curablehealth.com/

I am not medically trained but these are resources I have learnt about because someone I care about has chronic pain. I hope others will look at these possible ways ahead, make up their own minds, and consider finding a way ahead - and of course if in doubt , consult your doctor.

MayBee70 Wed 10-Sept-25 18:47:19

I sometimes try to keep a record of how I’m feeling. I know I had sciatica a few years ago and thought there would be no end to it. And I’ve often talked on here about my arthritic knee and what I’m doing to improve it because it’s interesting to look back and see that things did improve after eg exercises. Unfortunately nothing seems to be helping now. When you are in pain but that pain goes I think the brain immediately blocks out the memory of it. A classic example of that being childbirth or no one would have more than one child!

Gin Wed 10-Sept-25 19:04:37

Because of other conditions I can only take paracetamol for pain relief. I have arthritis is my spine, knees and hands but all the help offered is a referral to a pain clinic. This was in Sept 24. They just wrote to me for the first time to ask if I was still interested!

Weddingbelle123 Tue 16-Sept-25 09:49:59

I live with pain daily and have forgotten how it feels to be pain free. I welcome anything that might help my situation. Thank you

Applegran Tue 16-Sept-25 10:06:45

Weddingbelle I do hope something will help you and that you can get a referral to a pain clinic from your GP, even if you have to wait a while actually to get an appointment. And I hope Gin gets help from the pain clinic now they have made contact - even though it was to ask if you are still interested! They might help - I hope so.

Weddingbelle123 Tue 16-Sept-25 10:36:44

Thank you. I was referred to Escape Pain in June and am told I will get a place in November. I have had two hip replacements and am desperately trying to avoid a knee replacement but if all else fails, it may come to that as I can’t cope with the daily pain. The ironic thing is that the pain started after a physio’s exercises for my hip! I will be sure to look at your links.

MayBee70 Tue 16-Sept-25 14:34:59

I had pain in my hip after having a couple of sessions with an osteopath so I didn’t go again. Although I think it was caused by the way I lower myself into the bath.