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Entitled Parents on Public Transport

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Musicgirl Fri 12-Sept-25 00:50:02

On MN at the moment there is a thread about whether or not very young children should be expected to sit on a parent's lap where possible to make room for an adult on public transport in the case of overcrowding. I am amazed at how many young mothers seem to think that their child's needs should trump those of an adult and that they don't want their children sitting on their laps because they wriggle. Certainly, when my children were small, I would not have dreamt of not moving them onto my lap in such a situation. I, too, was brought up to respect adults and that they took precedence over children. I would imagine most people here were the same. It seems these days as if children's wishes trump those of adults and the sheer entitlement of a minority of posters was palpable. What has happened to common sense, decency and consideration of others?

Roxynounou Tue 16-Sept-25 15:25:15

My GC love the bus. I wonder never let them seat on a seat if the bus was full. My issue is the pushchair. There really is not enough space. But we seem to muddle through. Love this site!

Musicgirl Tue 16-Sept-25 15:29:40

grannybuy

I was in London for a few days last week ( booked and paid for before we knew about the tube strike ). We obviously had to use buses, which were packed of course. I was amazed at how often I, and my son, who has Down’s Syndrome, were offered seats. People sometimes made us go ahead of them in the queues too. On our last day, the strike was over, and a couple of times someone carried my son’s suitcase up steps for him underground. On our train journey home ( on three different trains ), men lifted our cases up onto the luggage racks without being asked. It made such a difference to our travels. There were always the ones who wanted a seat for their bags too, of course.

This is lovely. I'm very pleased for you.

Momac55 Thu 18-Sept-25 12:53:17

Yeah that and people who put their feet on seats drives me mad

theworriedwell Thu 18-Sept-25 13:21:07

Another positive experience. Got on crowded train for two hr 30 min journey, it wasn't the train I planned to be on so no reserved seat. I got on and was looking down packed carriage thinking I'm going to be standing when I saw a young man signalling me that the seat next to him was free. He moved over to window seat and I sat next to him.

People can be helpful.