Doodledog
I was in a neighbouring town the other day, and saw them for the first time (apart from the couple I’ve seen on road bridges elsewhere).
The town is deprived, with a high crime rate and unemployment. Why there would be a sudden upsurge in love of England here is beyond me. It was obviously an anti-immigration statement.
Errrm....I guess I'd get referred to as "lower middle class" if anyone was classifying and managed to be employed for all except about 18 months of my worklife - so not very high "up the pecking order" so to say.
Near enough to that position and only a couple of "rungs" up so to say that I can well understand why people who are at "the bottom of the pecking order" will be thinking "There would be more money/more Council housing etc around if not for.....".
People in nice big houses in nice leafy areas probably rarely have much comprehension that there are people stuck with darn all and sometimes (not always - but often enough) very little due to too much competition for what is "theirs". Certainly there was a lot of competition for Council housing and private rented housing anyway - and I can well understand why people would be angry if they saw someone else enjoying what is "theirs" by right (as they and/or their ancestors have paid in for it one way or another).
I believe in people putting in a fair amount of effort to get "their" share of things - but, if you've put in that effort = then frustration builds up. People do usually have a little scorecard in their head of what they need/have decided is rightfully "theirs" and that was pointed out to me very clearly by friends when a first spell of unemployment hit me and my friends said how I was obviously extremely angry and upset that had happened to me, then there was a 2nd spell and a 3rd spell and, at that point, I thought "Society - do NOT do that to me ever again or I'll probably turn so far that I'll be a communist". I was absolutely livid that something that was on the "not mine" list had happened to me and no-one and nothing was going to get me out of my final job - whatever they did (and boy did they do one heck of a lot trying to.......) but I fought them tooth and nail to not have that happen to me again.
If you know something is "yours" (eg housing) or "not yours" (eg unemployment) you fight and fight hard to have "your" situation you expected and need.
My father came from a large poor working class family and he never forgot - even when he married my middle-class mother. There would be comments of "The Council used to house relatives near each other/we all came first for what there was because we'd paid in for it". He was well aware that his own family were a contributory factor to his poverty (ie they'd had too many children - courtesy of no Pill/legal abortion yet at that point in history). He knew he would have had more if they hadnt had "all those children" but he was competing with "all those children" for scarce family resources. He knew that at least what there was was shared out between people that were "locals" - a lot of whom had also had too many children.
I've had my own analogous situation come up in my life (the second I had the chance to get a mortgage - married women had their earnings taken into account too and houseprices shot out of my reach just as I was about to get mine). So, from a different situation, I can sympathise when someone sees "their" Council housing grabbed out from under their nose/"their" private rented housing ditto grabbed from under their nose. One does think "But I've done my bit/this is my country/why am I not able to get my share then?"
It must be a sight easier for people who've always thought "There'll be enough for me to have my bit - of whatever-it-is".
That is THE phrase to bear in mind - if someone is putting in reasonable effort - "Why am I not able to get my share then? I've done my bit....."