CariadAgain
Warmth - in every shape and form. One of the things I promised myself as a child was that I would never be cold again. Yep....one of my mothers economies was she simply wouldnt keep the house warm enough (a combination of things - she didnt want to go back to work and I think my father really only got her to do so finally when her youngest child was a teenager and she couldnt reasonably refuse any longer) and she did want to save (to an unreasonable extent). There was also the little point I could have studied much better if I'd had a warm bedroom - rather than giving up the struggle freezing my arse off there trying to study and heading down into the sitting room to get distracted by her always having the tv on and refusing to ever switch it off. All the better to make sure I'd not get many qualifications and wouldn't leave the town when I grew up (cue for 20 years old saw me move to Denmark and 60 years old saw me move to Wales).
So I promised myself - as a child - I would never go short of a decent number of clothes to choose from, a warm enough house, enough bedding on my bed and whatever I needed to get it warm (hot water bottle or whatever else), plenty of fresh fruit once I was an adult and in charge of my own life.
So - basically down to all the promises I made to myself as a child and I've fulfilled them all. So now - I've got loads of bedding on my bed and whatever I've decided on to warm it up, I've got loads of clothes (albeit part of that is I have 3 sizes worth = my own size, the next size and the size I'm currently wearing), fires all round the house to top up the central heating if need be and grow quite a bit of fresh fruit in my garden.
I also have to buy a lot of books - darn it. Reason being because I only bought the books I wanted to keep (ie reference books). Since moving to a small town = I've lost the unofficial arrangement I pretty much had with my last library (ie a decent size city library in a university city). That arrangement was so handy - that any time I wanted to read a book just the once (and it would always be a non-fiction one on a topic that interested me) I would just go to that library and order it. If they didn't have it already (ie because it had usually just come out) - they would usually buy it and I'd be the first borrower of it and then it would be there for anyone else that wanted a read thereafter. That usually included some of the library assistants themselves and I hadnt realised that until one of them commented to me - "Ooh you do pick such interesting books that you want to see - so we often read them after you". Hadn't realised I was pretty much their unofficial "chooser" of non-fiction books LOL. So I only had to buy ones that I wanted to keep as reference books for myself.
Since moving to a small town in Wales = one of the downsides is that they've never ever got any of these books (they put in a Wales wide request - but won't do a countrywide one) and they won't buy any at all for me. So it's so rare for anywhere in the whole of Wales to have/or decide to buy even what I estimate will be quite a popular book - and I land up having to buy a lot of books that I only want for one read....
So - yep.....pretty much every single month I'm having to buy 3 or 4 books - of which I probably only want one to keep as a reference book for myself. Fiction ones - I manage by buying cheapie ones from charity shops, a charity stand in one of the other businesses round here and resign myself to them always being the "lighter weight" fiction. I won't pay more than a couple of £s for a fiction book and I never keep them and they go straight back into the charity shops, etc here when I've read them. Also all the reference books I've decided to read/but not keep head into the charity shops here too.
I give books I don't want to keep to the library. If you do that many people can benefit.