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Five things I’ve never done. How about you?

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chicken Tue 30-Sept-25 09:30:25

I have never—-

Climbed a ladder

Eaten an oyster

Been in a bookies

Had an affair

Learned to swim

Looking at my list, I can see that I’m very risk averse—-my username says it all! What is your list and what does it say about you?

suelld Wed 01-Oct-25 14:34:53

I have never done lots of those things, but wanted to do some things in the past that I will never do now. Too old, unhealthy and tired.
Each to our own when it comes to choice!
Some of the things we wanted to do might have been out of reach due to finances and circumstances, and sometimes realisation we wanted ‘ things’ for the wrong reasons, with age comes a certain amount of learning/ understanding… to some! but we can always try new things where possible! I enjoy life thoroughly even with my limitations! Always learning every day which is both a joy and a worry often!
Today I am learning , with the help of YouTube to fix my dishwasher… I hope! If not it will be the inevitable get a person in!

Secondwind Wed 01-Oct-25 14:39:25

I have:

Never trodden on an upturned plug.
Never done karaoke.
Never watched Friends.
Never found a wine that doesn’t taste like vinegar.
Never skinny-dipped.

Usedtobeblonde Wed 01-Oct-25 14:43:53

I have discovered one more prompted by another thread.
I have never had my ears, or anything else, pierced.

jenpax Wed 01-Oct-25 15:15:38

Never had a piercing (including ears)
Never had a tattoo
Never smoked
Never been in a fight (arguments yes 😂 fights no)
Never fired a gun

jenpax Wed 01-Oct-25 15:22:57

I thought I had led a tame life 😂 but so many of the things people say that they haven't done or places they havent been to I have! Its quite cheered me up 😁

Franski Wed 01-Oct-25 15:33:15

Gone to the loo in front of anyone
Dropped litter
Broken a bone
Watched Eastenders
Voted Tory

loopyloo Wed 01-Oct-25 15:38:05

Oh dear,
What you people have missed out on.
I have skied, when I lived in Switzerland. Wonderful.
Driven a car, all over Europe in the 70s.
Had a little dog, I miss him still.
Have been to USA, well LA airport on the way to New Zealand.
Come on, live a little.
On the other hand,
I never had a divorce, still time I suppose
Never taken drugs,
Never unemployed.
Never been to a big concert.

Siptree Wed 01-Oct-25 15:45:02

Owned a dog, died my hair, had a tattoo, had a manicure/ gel nails, eaten sea food apart from prawns.

NanaPlenty Wed 01-Oct-25 15:59:39

I have never:-
Sky dived
Driven a bus
Eaten a lobster
Visited China
Been skiing
Been on a cruise

gillyknits Wed 01-Oct-25 16:16:40

I’ve never-
Filled a car with petrol or diesel.
Had a tattoo.
Been skiing.
Learned to play musical instrument ( wish I had)
Run more than 100yards!

AshleysGran Wed 01-Oct-25 16:30:30

I've never:

had a (full) driving licence
been on a plane
eaten sushi
been to a pop concert
had a perm

yogitree Wed 01-Oct-25 16:34:22

Travelled beyond Europe - haven't had the means or time to!
Eaten Lobster - because I think cooking them alive is awful
Gone out and about in London - unnecessary
Driven a bus (but I did a breakdown waggon)
Climbed a mountain - not nimble enough

Grandmama Wed 01-Oct-25 17:10:32

Swum the Channel. An absolutely loopy regret. I've never been much of a swimmer, dare not go out of my depth but would love to say I'd swum the Channel.

SunnySusie Wed 01-Oct-25 17:16:16

This is an eye opening thread. Thank you chicken. I have never:
been able pass a maths exam;
been to New Zealand;
learned to knit;
had any kind of beauty treatment (except hair cuts);
been in a helicopter or hot air balloon.

53up Wed 01-Oct-25 17:30:27

I have never:
Had my own bed (siblings then hubby)
Climbed a tree
Passed a day without reading
Rode the Big Dipper
Sang at a karaoke

Allira Wed 01-Oct-25 17:41:11

jenpax

I thought I had led a tame life 😂 but so many of the things people say that they haven't done or places they havent been to I have! Its quite cheered me up 😁

😁 Same here, jenpax

However, I have never:

Taken recreational drugs
Had an affair
Been to Russia nor Italy (more's the pity)
Owned a cat
Learned to ski

GrammarGrandma Wed 01-Oct-25 17:55:42

I have done lots of things that other Grans have not but am with the majority on not doing bungees jumps or having tattoos, though I do have pierced ears.

I have never:
Learned to ride a bike
Been divorced
Visited Russia
Seen the Northern Lights
Voted Tory

Or the other hand, I can;
Drive manual, automatic, electric (though I didn't start till 50
Knit and crochet
Speak and read Italian
Do cryptic crosswords
Write books

I'd like to hear what others can do.

Lizzielogs Wed 01-Oct-25 17:59:30

I have never:
Been sick in the back of a taxi
Had a heart attack
Been sawn in half as a magicians trick
Played in a rock and roll band
Made jam

Musicgirl Wed 01-Oct-25 18:01:51

I have never bungee jumped or abseiled
Water skied or skied on ice
Smoked
Run a marathon
Driven a lorry.

Gandalf Wed 01-Oct-25 18:51:43

I have never:

Waxed my legs (or any other body part)

Dyed my hair

Taken drugs

Got a tatoo

Owned a dog or cat

TwiceAsNice Wed 01-Oct-25 19:02:20

I have never
Learnt to swim ( afraid of water)

Gone on a cruise ( my idea of hell, sea all around me and surrounded by strangers)

Owned a dog ( wouldn’t hurt them but I’m a cat person, we have 4)

Travelled anywhere in Asia or Africa

Read any sci fi ( but an avid reader of anything else)

Gwyllt Wed 01-Oct-25 19:17:22

Trouble with this thread is that it makes me think of things I haven’t done and might have liked to

GrammaH Wed 01-Oct-25 19:51:16

I have never
Broken a limb
Had a natural birth (2 emergency C sections)
Eaten marmalade
Had a tattoo
Played a musical instrument

However , I have
been on a cruise
eaten oysters
dyed my hair
stayed in a trullo in Puglia
been on the stage

Allira Wed 01-Oct-25 19:56:17

I'd forgotten some of the things I have done until I read this thread 😀

Labradora Wed 01-Oct-25 20:05:03

Lizzielogs

I have never:
Been sick in the back of a taxi
Had a heart attack
Been sawn in half as a magicians trick
Played in a rock and roll band
Made jam

Never been sick in the back of a taxi....... made me think of another "never":
despite eating, drinking and carousing my way across London in the 1970s and 1980s I have never been sick on the Tube.......