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Goodbye Duke & Duchess of York.

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ferry23 Fri 17-Oct-25 19:13:44

Following the accusations earlier this week, Prince Andrew has relinquished his title Duke of York. Same for his ex-wife.

He will still keep his title of Prince Andrew.

But I guess that's the end of the titled road for Fergie.

ferry23 Mon 20-Oct-25 18:50:36

ronib

No not your menfolk personally. How would I suggest that not knowing your menfolk in particular? If you refuse to understand the point about privacy/non disclosure then there’s nothing more to add. We simply don’t know.
Allira

I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about ronib. I'm baffled as to what you're contributing to this thread in terms of both balance and relevance.

You've argued about the authenticity and value of a book written by an eminent author and historian and then told us you haven't read the book and don't intend to do so.

You've sought to diminish the value of post graduate degrees awarded by world class, prestigious and well respected universities and yet cannot back up your claims other than saying you "know people with PhD's".

You've started a rather nonsensical conversation about prostitution that really isn't relevant here.

You seem to fall into the category of those who will attempt at all costs to disprove a hypothesis or fight to manouevre the conversation into something that will support your own agenda or opinion.

What exactly is it you're trying to say in relation to the subject of the thread?

SueDonim Mon 20-Oct-25 18:50:16

Fact, there some men who need to spend time with prostitute , not the majority but definitely some

Dear lord, I cannot believe what I’m reading - that women are mere lumps of meat put on this earth to satisfy men’s needs. If men’s sexual needs are so imperative, how come a woman (or man) isn’t available to them on prescription?

Iam64 Mon 20-Oct-25 18:49:45

ronib

I don’t know- they wouldn’t tell me if they had. It’s not the sort of topic we discuss…. In fact I don’t go around asking. It isn’t my business….. is it yours? If so, why? Aveline

Wow. Just wow. Not any of your business, are you seriously suggesting you neither know nor care if “your menfolk had sex at an orgy with eight underage girls “.

There’s no point attempting to discuss why that statement causes concern

ronib Mon 20-Oct-25 18:38:15

I don’t know- they wouldn’t tell me if they had. It’s not the sort of topic we discuss…. In fact I don’t go around asking. It isn’t my business….. is it yours? If so, why? Aveline

Aveline Mon 20-Oct-25 18:22:56

Did 'your menfolk' have sex at an orgy with 8 underage girls? Andrew did.

ronib Mon 20-Oct-25 17:55:44

No not your menfolk personally. How would I suggest that not knowing your menfolk in particular? If you refuse to understand the point about privacy/non disclosure then there’s nothing more to add. We simply don’t know.
Allira

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 17:51:54

Fact, there some men who need to spend time with prostitute , not the majority but definitely some.

We know, Anniebach.

Neither Iam64 nor I are naive,

However, it is the constant assertion by ronib that our menfolk presumably paid prostitutes for sex which is offensive.

If she wishes to speak for her own family, fair enough.

M0nica Mon 20-Oct-25 17:07:49

I can confirm. Prince Andrew has always been arrogant and entitled. We had friends in the navy when he was serving, he was not popular for just those reasons, plus of course, it is not so much that he is stupid, that is hardly his fault, but what was his fault is that he would not learn. This is very different to Prince Harry, who was liked and respected by those working under his command and who learned alongside him.

Being stupid, arrogant and entitled does not preclude someone also being brave and courageous when faced with danger, and there is no doubt that both princes, Andrew and Harry, showed considerable courage when faced with danger.

Anniebach Mon 20-Oct-25 17:06:58

Iam64 Mon 20-Oct-25 16:17:38
Do you have friend or family relationships with men who ‘use/need the services of prostitutes’ ronib?
I know these men because of my work with their victims.

I’m with Allira in finding your suggestion that my father might have paid for sex. I am totally confident neither my father, or my husband would do thst.

I’m not sure what point you’re attempting to make. Is it that most men are like PAndrew, without a moral compass.

Fact, there some men who need to spend time with prostitute , not the majority but definitely some.

sandelf Mon 20-Oct-25 17:01:00

He's too thick to know he's thick. So, very gullible (possibly believed the girls really loved him too). But now is a loose canon and demonstrable liar. Needs to be ignored for the foreseeable. Amusing the way he thought he could get away with silly stuff like I don't know her, I don't sweat etc - bit of a buffoon.

OldFrill Mon 20-Oct-25 16:55:44

Nano14

winterwhite

Yes, ferry23, you’re right but I didn’t think that Andrew had been accused of procuring and trafficking. It’s plausible that he didn’t realise it was happening. He doesn’t appear to be a deep thinker.
I don’t question the seriousness of Epstein’s convictions , of course I don’t, I just wonder whether Andrew is paying an excessively high price for his own degree of involvement because he is already unpopular and disliked for other reasons.

I agree, although I'd describe him as an arrogant, egotistical, vain, sleazebag, I doubt that he knew what was going on behind the scenes. I certainly wouldn't describe him as a paedophile, on the evidence we've heard. I think if there were more to it, younger girls would have come out by now and spoken up about it. Especially after the payout that Virginia Giuffre received.

Most of the abused women at Epstein's trial chose to remain anonymous, quite understandably. The youngest victims of his abuse were 14 years old. Virginia Guiffre waived her right to anonymity. Maybe if she hadn't shed be alive today.

ronib Mon 20-Oct-25 16:40:40

Iam64 this is getting out of hand. Men who pay prostitutes are very unlikely, one hopes, to go around advertising the fact to their own families. At the end of the day, surprisingly it is not illegal to pay for sex.
This holier than thou attitude that somehow overlooks that some men have a basic need for sex seems to be overlooked. Of course prostitution is not an ideal solution. But it is legally available. And of course it is not an ideal job choice for women.

NotSpaghetti Mon 20-Oct-25 16:21:20

I don't understand why he should have to move if he's paying the rent.
He has a 75 year lease apparently.

kjmpde Mon 20-Oct-25 16:19:57

what I don't understand is why Andrew paid all that money without having a gagging order - who advised him it was a good deal?

Iam64 Mon 20-Oct-25 16:17:38

Do you have friend or family relationships with men who ‘use/need the services of prostitutes’ ronib?
I know these men because of my work with their victims.

I’m with Allira in finding your suggestion that my father might have paid for sex. I am totally confident neither my father, or my husband would do thst.

I’m not sure what point you’re attempting to make. Is it that most men are like PAndrew, without a moral compass.

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 15:56:01

I'm sure he has enough tucked away by now to fund a comfortable lifestyle for himself, his ex-wife and the dogs.
If he can curb her spending.

Far more than most of us can dream of.

Magenta8 Mon 20-Oct-25 15:47:37

From what I read, there is a whole lot more to it than PA's sexual adventures and his association with Epstein.

He has let the UK down badly as a representative and many of his business dealings were conducted unwisely to put it kindly.

Then there is the enormous amount of public money he and SF spent on themselves and their lavish lifestyle.

Aveline Mon 20-Oct-25 15:38:52

Have you heard the accusations in the Guiffre book? It was after hearing them that I posted that he must simply leave the country. They should go to America and never be heard from again.

ronib Mon 20-Oct-25 15:35:27

What hole? Allira

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 15:26:37

Smileless2012

For goodness sake Essexgirl; you read somewhere a while back ...... !!!

😂

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 15:25:24

When in a hole, ronib.

62Granny Mon 20-Oct-25 15:24:00

I think his days are numbered for staying in his present home too. I think it's William pushing for them to be disassociated with them, although I still think the daughters will be accepted into the Royal family

ronib Mon 20-Oct-25 15:22:25

No I did not Allira. You must realise that a man’s sexuality is really his own business and he’s very unlikely to tell his family and friends if he does require sex services.

Casdon Mon 20-Oct-25 15:22:17

I didn’t realise you knew Prince Andrew ronib. That must be why you are attempting to defend his reprehensible behaviour, because why else would you?

Smileless2012 Mon 20-Oct-25 15:21:19

For goodness sake Essexgirl; you read somewhere a while back ...... !!!