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Carpe diem -seize the day!

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RosieandherMaw Fri 24-Oct-25 22:05:20

We are always being urged to do this aren’t we?
Sometimes, rather like when I am instructed to “Have a nice day !” and I’m tempted to growl “ No thank you, I have other plans” my reaction to carpe diem is similar.
So here is some much more sensible advice.

cornergran Sat 25-Oct-25 11:40:29

The cartoon amused me. Anything that raises a smile around here is welcome. I didn’t link it with the GM thread where I’ve been known to wish people a good day. Am I just slow to make links? No I don’t think so. There was I am certain no intention to cause offence or criticise, no need for any upset or tension. I’m off to have lunch at a favourite place, there may be a glass of wine smile.

nanna8 Sat 25-Oct-25 11:09:57

Have a glass of wine, that’ll cheer youse all up. Sanser to every tink. Sod the miseries, life’s too short.

RosieandherMaw Sat 25-Oct-25 11:06:38

(For posting a cartoon!)

Iam64 Sat 25-Oct-25 10:57:05

It’s coming to something when a long term regular supporter of the forum and members, is accused of being a misery guts

Iam64 Sat 25-Oct-25 10:55:59

Please do t flounce grannygravy, I really enjoy your contributions on many subjects

fancythat Sat 25-Oct-25 10:31:01

I think social media has created a problem.
Well several.

One is, people find it easier to write their upsets.

In real life, people walk away from conversations, and may feel a bit upset by what someone has siad. But would rarely go back and tell that person. And may even forget all about it.
Not the same on social media.

escaped Sat 25-Oct-25 10:17:49

Please don't flounce GrannyGravy13. I was overthinking earlier how much better GNetters had got at perusing light-hearted comments, and giving a wry smile, if they disagreed.
I don't read Good morning. It sounds like it's a small minority who are upset, but I guess that's enough to unsettle things.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 25-Oct-25 10:06:55

I am actually considering flouncing from GN

When a humorous simple cartoon can be taken the wrong way, leading to upset and bad feelings, well, I a, rather lost for words.

fancythat Sat 25-Oct-25 09:52:14

I like "seize the day".
Reminds me to live in the present.
I very rarely hear it.
And know nothing about some other thread.

Chocolatelovinggran Sat 25-Oct-25 09:47:41

Well, it made me laugh,Rosie. I think that days differ.
Some days I'm happy to seize, some I like to sneak up on, hoping to catch them unawares.

Lathyrus3 Sat 25-Oct-25 09:29:37

Oh well I thought it was funny🙄😁

Grannybags Sat 25-Oct-25 09:29:21

RosieandherMaw

Blimey - @ last eight posts! hmmhmm
It was meant to be lighthearted, a jokey post!
Thank you Karma, my “good energy” is well topped up, as is my SOH. hmm

Yes but these days you have to put 'light hearted' in the thread title and even then people take you seriously! 😂😂😂

I don't read the Good Morning thread so had no idea it was used on there

JamesandJon33 Sat 25-Oct-25 09:19:58

Love that saying, it is golden and positive.

TheWeirdoAgain60 Sat 25-Oct-25 09:17:35

HA HA HA that's hilarious!

I follow Steve on Twitter!

Blossoming Sat 25-Oct-25 08:58:21

I remember when Grandmattie began using this sign off and for me it is rather poignant. She certainly lives up to it herself.

I did enjoy the cartoon RosiesMaw, I haven’t come across the creator before.

Marydoll Sat 25-Oct-25 08:49:12

Now that I have found the actual thread, which has upset some, I can see it was meant to be tongue in cheek and no offence intended.

For me, Carpe diem is not posted as a meaningless sign off, but a genuine wish, to make the best of every moment of the day.

Iam64 Sat 25-Oct-25 08:42:22

Woollywoman

*RosieandherMaw*, your post has made me smile just when I needed it… thank you!

Same here 🌞
I’m generally a bit of a Pollyanna, we get this day once, find something positive in it. Yesterday was the third anniversary of my lovely husband’s funeral, it took place three eeeks after he died. I confess to feeling tired and sad, having to remind myself there are blessings to count, dogs to walk so get up and out.
But the idea of just responding “I’m fed up, I miss D, I preferred my life then “ …. And going on to list all the irritants needing sorting iPad appealing 🙈

JenniferEccles Sat 25-Oct-25 08:36:59

I think it’s much preferable to being advised to ‘take care now’ as shop assistants often urge us!

RosieandherMaw Sat 25-Oct-25 08:03:22

Just to add, the reference was to “Have a nice day (usually followed by “now” and with a mid- Atlantic twang) not “a good one, the best day possible” or any other more genuine and sincere valediction.

escaped Sat 25-Oct-25 08:00:34

I think the picture and the wording are funny, and cute.

However, as I'm full of silly expressions when I interact with people, and it would be more of an effort to rein them in, I'll just carry on.
Have a good one!

Usedtobeblonde Sat 25-Oct-25 07:56:23

I always ended my posts on GM with “have the best day you can everyone” because that is what I hoped for readers.
Likewise on Soop’s kitchen.
Just a pleasant way of wishing everyone well.

RosieandherMaw Sat 25-Oct-25 07:48:21

Thank you GrannyGravy13 !smile
As it was from another source, clearly not aimed at anybody in particular but it raised a smile here at any rate!

“Have a nice day now!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

GrannyGravy13 Sat 25-Oct-25 07:34:51

I saw it as a jokey OP Maw not aimed at anyone, just an observation of social interactions 👍

RosieandherMaw Sat 25-Oct-25 07:32:13

Blimey - @ last eight posts! hmmhmm
It was meant to be lighthearted, a jokey post!
Thank you Karma, my “good energy” is well topped up, as is my SOH. hmm

GrannyIvy Sat 25-Oct-25 07:30:36

Well said Karma. I too am guilty of of saying “have a good day” or various versions of it and think it is a nice way to end a post. I don’t think Rosie means to offend anyone. GM. Carry on signing off as you always do it is always lovely to read your good morning news.