Good morning Mick and all GN's on a windy but dry saturday morning in North Yorkshire. I rarely fall asleep before midnight so tend to say white rabbits at that time of night. However did manage to fall asleep a bit earlier and forgot when I woke to say it so now say Pinch and a Punch first day of the month to you all instead.!! I am having a bit of a different day today and am going to the park and ride and then on into Durham for a look round. How long I can manage to go around depends on how my back holds out, but I am going with the intention of enjoying a look in the city for a change. The weather is set to be definitely windy today and possibly rain later , so a good day to have a mouch around. As usual I shall mostly just window shop, more likely to look at art galleries and look down on the river, and see if there are any little secondhand book shops or places to poke about in.
Yesterday, I was sorting things out, felt I had worked quite hard but when I looked at it all it didnt look much different!! Went off to Strikes, which is a garden centre with a good cafe and plenty of places to park for disabled. Was struggling to walk about much so that seemed the best place to go, but somewhat of a mistake! It was still half term round here and so lots of grandparents on childcare duties, plus the usual friday visitors and of course even more looking for halloween stuff so hard to find a place to sit. However found somewhere to sit, and a quick browse of the local paper and then out to look at the lovely acers they had on show. They had a sign saying sale and so of course I hastened to see if there was something for me. Huh!! The smaller ones were reduced from £40 to £30 and the greatest bargain was a lovely larger one reduced from £150 to £120, so I just looked and drooled over their lovely colours and left empty handed.
I then drove down to Thirsk to see their beautiful display ready for remembrance day of wonderful tops on bollards and post boxes and the lovely sweep of red poppies down from the clock tower and in the corner the same sweep of purple poppies reminding us of the animals who lost their lives in the war too. A young boy of about 9 asked his granny why they were there and when she said she wasnt sure, I spoke to them and explained the meaning. He was a bright little boy and said he had heard of the Dicken medal presented to a pigeon etc and was pleased to know about them. I talked to him of my grandfathers horse (he was in the cavalry in the first world war) and how important the horse was , as not only carrying him but being able to touch and stroke and care about him helped my grandfather to get through things. He said he was going to find out some more things from the library and would tell them in his class when he went to school. I was happy to feel that now this is not just words to him but he has some sense of the reality, to be able to pass that on to other children as something real.
So went on a hunt for more euro games, no luck, and had a wander around but actually got nothing at all today until I finally went into Oxfam looking for the games and bingo, no games but two good music books. Oxford book of carols and opera chorus . Two good clean books for less than £6, which is a bargain these days. Music is so expensive now and with amateur choirs it is a serious amount to find for perhaps 40 people. So even if I already have a copy of some music myself, if I see a good clean copy of a popular edition of say Messiah I will buy it. Then I tend to keep a spare copy myself to lend to any friends who need one for a specific concert, and give the others to a choir librarian, who are grateful to have it and it saves them money, but also when there are different editions , it is very irritating if people are having to use two different editions as you have to keep saying page 3 in X edition and page 5 in Y edition etc. I have all the various editions of Messiah and Bach B minor etc etc, and it saves me a lot of faffing around. So if any of you have music that you never use and is not of great sentimental value to you, I do urge you to think of giving an early christmas present to a choir near you or donate it to the charity shop that does music. You usually find in a town one particular shop tends to keep it in, and I can promise you it is much appreciated by hard up choirs and singers, not to mention the joy of risking buying a new to you sheet music to try out if it is not too expensive. Sometimes we have great difficulty if we get some new members of a choir, when you may have 40 copies of X music, but never mind the cost, you cannot find another copy as it may be out of print, and copywrite means that you cannot photo copy something to perform in public, so it ends up with members have to share copies. Can be done but logistically quite difficult having to share a copy to learn something and what markings you can put in etc.
I am rather a stickler about things following on as they should and not jumping ahead of themselves. By which I mean that I strongly resist looking or buying anything for that december date before bonfire night!! An exception is made of course for friends overseas as, being yorkshire , I am not forking out pounds for postage, so still try and remember to post stuff to get there in good time. So I shall be concentrating on fireworks, parkin , and bonfire toffee, which I should not eat at all of course being diabetic, but I do allow myself one or two small pieces, as that is part of my tradition that I enjoy and still probably find some sparklers if possible. We always used to love "writing our names in the sky" and my dad had to light both my sisters and my sparklers at the same time and then a mad rush to write my name as quite a lot longer than her name so sometimes I didnt manage to do it all to my disappointment. Well there is no law that says you cant have sparklers at 80, so I hope to be whizzing my name in the sky as usual and think of her and of many friends from around the world, that used to share bonfire night with us. Then and only then I shall start looking onto other things. I am actually sorry for both the children and the parents having all the advertising shoved at them. Older children can have things explained to them, but the little ones have difficulty in the concept of time , and where you can say to a child two more sleeps , you cannot possibly get them to understand two months away, and it is so sad to me that you cant have that exciting anticipation any more. The advent calendars are a bit of a help , (mind you I rather disapprove of them all just being things to hold sweets in too!) Anyone who comes carol singing too early will also be told they may come back later but not now!! But I am also very sorry for the poor staff in supermarkets and shops who get endless carols 8 hours a day from now onwards. It would still be too much if it was Kings College Cambridge, but it is usually some horrible tinny badly done music and enough to put people wanting to ever hear it again. In the days of tapes before cds I once went into a shop , where the tape was so old it was woowing and horribly distorted. To me that is like having nails scraped down a blackboard. Painful. So I asked to speak to the manager, and when he came, I asked him not only to turn it down , but to take if off and throw it away as not only was he putting customers off but subjecting his staff to listening cruelty!! He looked a bit put out, but duly took the horrible thing off and I told him that no music was much better than distorted stuff and he would gain more custom that way, and I would be one of them. So I bought various things, told him I would tell my friends that they could find a peaceful shop here and as I left one of the staff came over and thanked me as she was nearly driven mad by the racket being a singer herself!! No doubt today I would be told to mind my own business. Ah well thats life, so time to think of getting ready to go out.
Hope you have a good day Mick and your team win.GranMattie hope you are able to sooth the dragons down and they dont breath fire across your stall. I think you should "volunteer" your vicar a difficult job or to sort out a whole load of jumble or something and see how he likes to be put in that position. Alternatively you need to think up a valid excuse to have ready so that the very next time he says Oh I put you down for X you can say sorry not available and perhaps you need to do it yourself!! I am so glad you have had good news from DS in Tanzania and you will be able to sleep better tonight. Karmalady well done for all your sorting. I have never heard of a socker, is it a shaper thing or something you can make bigger or smaller as you need? Well wishing you all a positive day today with a chance to meet a friend or two or get some job done that you planned.