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M0nica Sat 01-Nov-25 16:40:47

Forthe last 3 months, because of the vagaries of Vodaphone and Openreach we have had no telecomms at home so I have had to be dependent on my mobile phone.

The problem is I do nto always have it onme or close to me. When i go out I put it in my handbag, and when i return Iput the bag under the stairs, and if the phone rings I do not hear it. Alternatively it is on my desk - and if I am not near my desk, and I often aren't , it rigs and I do not hear it. Ditto whenit is in the car.

I tried putting it in a little bag slung round my neck, but the phone kept resetting itself and one of the things it reset was whether it would ring or not, so it kept turning off sound.

Carrying around in my hand all the time gives me cramp and anyway, I need both hands to do things.

There is nowhere in the house to put my phone where I can hear it all the time, and so many clothes lack pockets.

In our last home we had a VOIP (pretend landline) and that had a loud ring and we had three handsets, all of which rang in different parts of the house.

We have decided not to have fibre to the house, I do not quite understand what we have but it is some wireless gizmo that provides an excellent internet service, but no phone.

So I am utterly perplexed as to what to do to make sure I pick up all my calls.

keepingquiet Sun 02-Nov-25 21:23:14

I only have a small house and my living space is open plan so it is always within reach.

I don't worry about missing calls though as I pick it up often just to a quick puzzle or check messages.

However, I rarely take it upstairs except at bedtime and don't panic if I hear it ring- there will be a record of who rang and if it is a unknown number I know its a cold call.

I don't see what the problem is really. Why do people feel the need to constantly have their phone on their person?

When I go out I pop it in my handbag like I would my glasses.
If I leave it behind it might annoy me but again, I know any messages and calls I missed can be recovered.

Mollygo Sun 02-Nov-25 21:19:36

Having read this thread, I’m just looking at a lanyard. I keep my phone in my pocket or next to me on the seat. I like the idea of a lanyard for when I haven’t a pocket.

V3ra Sun 02-Nov-25 21:16:04

Ha! Forgot to say I do virtually all my shopping online these days, on my phone 😁

V3ra Sun 02-Nov-25 21:13:42

My mobile phone is by me all the time, for a variety of reasons.

We no longer have a landline phone.

I use it as an alarm clock.

I check the weather forecast on it before I get up.

We both have very elderly parents, who have recently moved into separate care homes, and there have been a lot of settling in issues to address.

I have minded children whose parents I need to be available for.

I do all our banking and pay our bills, and do my Dad's banking and pay his bills, on my phone.

We have our own family, most of whom live away, some are shift workers, but we keep in touch, and share photos, by WhatsApp, usually daily.

I listen to the radio through my phone.

I keep up with the chat on Gransnet on my phone 🙂

So, I just automatically take it round the house as I go from upstairs to downstairs 🤷🏼

Allira Sun 02-Nov-25 20:30:52

Keep it somewhere visible and turn it up to LOUD!!

M0nica Sun 02-Nov-25 19:49:56

SueDonim

I find some of these posts utterly bizarre. I will not be made a slave to a little device It makes me feel like a dog on a lead. You posters who take it everywhere, do you really want to have a conversation with anyone whilst you are sitting on the loo? Just asking! dont need a umbilicalcord and so on.

Mobile phones are tools. You can do what you want with them. Answer a call or not (and maybe sitting on the loo is the only quiet time you have to make a call!). Look at social media (which we all are on GN) or not. Read adverts or ignore them. Read a book on your phone or not. Use sat nav to guide you to places or use a road atlas. I really don’t understand why people get so het up about what other people do, unless it impinges negatively on your life.

But still doesn't answer my question as to how to remember to carry the damn thing with me all the time.

I quite agree a mobile phone is a tool. But who carries a screwdriver everywhere or would remember to do so if they had to?

RosieandherMaw Sun 02-Nov-25 17:47:11

I find some of these posts utterly bizarre. “I will not be made a slave to a little device It makes me feel like a dog on a lead. You posters who take it everywhere, do you really want to have a conversation with anyone whilst you are sitting on the loo? Just asking! don't need a umbilical cord” and so on

Nothing new here Suedonim - Gransnet’s USP seems too often to be being judgemental

Doodledog Sun 02-Nov-25 17:12:41

Agreed, SueDonim. I don’t understand the need to judge others for just doing things differently from oneself. Do people really think there is only one way to live?

SueDonim Sun 02-Nov-25 17:09:29

I find some of these posts utterly bizarre. I will not be made a slave to a little device It makes me feel like a dog on a lead. You posters who take it everywhere, do you really want to have a conversation with anyone whilst you are sitting on the loo? Just asking! dont need a umbilicalcord and so on.

Mobile phones are tools. You can do what you want with them. Answer a call or not (and maybe sitting on the loo is the only quiet time you have to make a call!). Look at social media (which we all are on GN) or not. Read adverts or ignore them. Read a book on your phone or not. Use sat nav to guide you to places or use a road atlas. I really don’t understand why people get so het up about what other people do, unless it impinges negatively on your life.

Margiknot Sun 02-Nov-25 16:45:09

I have a poor memory - always have. We have a purpose built little shelf by the front door for my phone and charging base. Anything I need to take with me when I leave the house is put visible ( not concealed in packaging) by the door - and if needed on the door mat so I ( or household members) cannot leave without at least moving the item out of the way. DH carries his phone ( in a holster) when awake on his belt.
The times I forget my phone are when it’s on charge elsewhere such as in the car or upstairs -(I don’t usually take mine to bed as DH does) I have not solved that one!

Tenko Sun 02-Nov-25 16:33:20

I don’t carry my phone around with me all the time whilst at home . I have an Apple Watch which rings when my phone rings . So I can talk on that if I’m upstairs and my phones downstairs. In fact that’s better for me as my phones often on silent . I have it on silent at night and forget to switch it over.

Margiknot Sun 02-Nov-25 16:24:36

I forgot to say my phone has a case that covers the front ( opening like a book) so the key pad is is protected.

friendlygingercat Sun 02-Nov-25 16:24:21

I will not be made a slave to a little device so I dont carry a phone around with me. There are several landline handsets dotted around my house and they have to suffice. If someone rings the smartphone and misses me I can email or text them.

RosieandherMaw Sun 02-Nov-25 16:16:27

I don’t think you need to carry it at all times though.
Have it nearby- ish, ie upstairs somewhere if you are spending any time there, nearby in the kitchen, again if you are there for more than a couple of minutes or in your sitting room or garden. Unless your house is massive, the hall table should be reasonably central so it could sit there. Turn the ringtone volume up if you think you might miss it (but remember to turn it down or off if you are at a friends house or eg in a cinema.)
I don’t see the problem!
And the bottom line is, callers can leave you a voicemail if you don’t hear them if it is important.

M0nica Sun 02-Nov-25 16:09:41

ViceVersa

Check out the Dora ones, as I suggested earlier in the thread.

I have looked at them a number of times over the years. I do not want a phone with reduced functionality. .

However my main need as exressedin my OP is how people remember to carry their phone with them all the time. It makes me feel like a dog on a lead.

ViceVersa Sun 02-Nov-25 15:56:31

Check out the Dora ones, as I suggested earlier in the thread.

M0nica Sun 02-Nov-25 15:48:42

V3ra

^I think the real problem is that mobile phones with their tiny touch screens and tiny electronic touch keyboards require me to do things I have great difficulty doing, numb fingertips and most of all my dyspraxia, which means I am truly cackhanded, do not fit well with mobile phones.^

M0nica have you tried using a foam-tipped stylus to tap the keys with?
I don't have your physical problems, but I often find I miss the appropriate key with my finger tips.

I di think of that, but I need a phone with SatNav, and I do use the internet as well on occasions. I do really want a fully functional smartphone, but easier to operate - and I need to remember to have it with me!

Allira Sun 02-Nov-25 15:42:19

Oh, I see.

I find it easier than using fingers and find typing with fingers can cause numbness in fact.

M0nica Sun 02-Nov-25 15:41:00

Allira

Styluses are useful, I find.

I cannot hold a stylus between my fingertips because of the numbness.

Jaxjacky Sun 02-Nov-25 15:40:29

dalrymple it’s not obligatory to answer it!

dalrymple23 Sun 02-Nov-25 15:12:41

I HATE smartphones. I can't operate the blasted things. Total brain fog. Also mine (Motorola) is incredibly heavy. Arthritis in wrists makes carrying the wretched thing around even worse and unlikely to happen. So it is downstairs and I am up.

I go to bed and then fret that there might be a fire and I have no means to contact anyone. No, I do not remember to take the blasted thing with me. Anyway, reception is so atrocious, it is not worth it.

You posters who take it everywhere, do you really want to have a conversation with anyone whilst you are sitting on the loo? Just asking!

Norah Sun 02-Nov-25 13:49:33

I've no smart phone, a dumb phone resides in the kitchen on an island, the other dumb phone is at my husband's office desk. The dumb phone takes messages, I can easily see the light blink. I call on a land line.

I only use a phone if I leave our property, no reception inside.

Lathyrus3 Sun 02-Nov-25 13:17:45

How about a nice pinny with a pocket in the front, like my mum used to wear😬

Allira Sun 02-Nov-25 12:49:51

Styluses are useful, I find.

Allira Sun 02-Nov-25 12:46:35

V3ra

^I think the real problem is that mobile phones with their tiny touch screens and tiny electronic touch keyboards require me to do things I have great difficulty doing, numb fingertips and most of all my dyspraxia, which means I am truly cackhanded, do not fit well with mobile phones.^

M0nica have you tried using a foam-tipped stylus to tap the keys with?
I don't have your physical problems, but I often find I miss the appropriate key with my finger tips.

The foam tipped styluses (styli) are good but they do tend to hit the wrong letters quite often.