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Burlesque? Am I just out of touch?

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Oreo Fri 14-Nov-25 09:58:47

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Galaxy Fri 14-Nov-25 09:52:40

Hope that helps grin

Galaxy Fri 14-Nov-25 09:52:22

It doesn't. It is nonsense.

Magenta8 Fri 14-Nov-25 09:51:01

I struggle with this new wave version of feminism too.

I have a friend whose daughter took up pole dancing as a way of "celebrating her femininity." I am not saying that it is rubbish just that I don't get it.

If anyone on GN can explain how this squares with feminism I would be grateful.

Lathyrus3 Fri 14-Nov-25 09:50:32

I think I’ve always had a quite pragmatic ( and enthusiastic) approach to sex.

I’ve never really needed titillating. So stuff like burlesque does nothing fir me,

Galaxy Fri 14-Nov-25 09:45:34

Choicey choice feminism ( everything is empowering), not for me.

Oreo Fri 14-Nov-25 09:40:27

WI?!
Sounds like a load of tripe, what woman wants to watch that?

Granatlast007 Fri 14-Nov-25 09:37:13

I was a bit surprised recently to find our local WI had invited a young woman called Ivy Malice to do a presentation. I googled her and and struggled to understand what the difference was between burlesque and a nicer version of stripping.

Her performance was all about corsets, 'tasteful' stripping to show stockings, suspenders, high heels, lots of make up and lots of flesh while prancing about. I couldn't be bothered to go to the meeting on the basis of what I googled but after the event, members I have asked seemed to have loved it and want to ask her back.

I suppose it's not for me and as a once ardent feminist, I thought we women had rid ourselves of dressing up in attire which is surely about attracting men in the most basic way possible?

Apparently though burlesque now is about 'body positivity and self-love and about self-expression in the most vulnerable way possible. I am puzzled, perhaps I need to get out more! Anyone else?