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A present for other granny.

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kircubbin2000 Wed 17-Dec-25 18:33:00

We don't usually see much of her but I've been told she will be there at Christmas this year and has bought me a nice present and a bottle of spirits for grandad.
I'm at a loss as to what to get her . Spend around £20 /£25.
Any ideas?She's around 70 and caring for her husband who has dementia.

RosieandherMaw Thu 18-Dec-25 18:19:34

merlotgran

^I never buy real candles and certainly not as a gift to anyone elderly. Accidents waiting to happen^

You think a 70 yr old isn’t capable of lighting a candle without burning the house down?? 😮😮

(Shakes head in despair)

BendyNan Thu 18-Dec-25 18:16:58

I always think a really nice orchid is good as they last for ages.

Stansgran Thu 18-Dec-25 16:51:17

At 80 I’d quite like lots of Lakeland goodies like stem ginger,Turkish delight, things I wouldn’t buy for myself and DH would look askance at,though possibly he’d have the nougat. In fact I think I’ll do myself an order for the new year . DH is always buying himself a case of wine when he is feeling down.

M0nica Thu 18-Dec-25 16:45:50

merlotgran

In 78 and if anyone gave me a present for an elderly lady, I’d give them a knuckle sandwich! 😂

I am 82 and I uite agree. Food for older people is almost invariably sweet and I juts do not have a sweet tooth. If I am to have a food present I would prefer really good English hard cheeses, smoked salmon, Gentlemans'relish and such like.

I already know that one of my presents this year is several packets of Sage Derby cheese, the original, green all over and infused with sage, not just a this stripe of sage leaves across the middle like jam ina sponge cake.

merlotgran Thu 18-Dec-25 16:25:34

I never buy real candles and certainly not as a gift to anyone elderly. Accidents waiting to happen

You think a 70 yr old isn’t capable of lighting a candle without burning the house down?? 😮😮

Allira Thu 18-Dec-25 16:18:27

No retro sweets for me, though, thank you!
Unless it's fudge or dark chocolate.

Mateus rosé is retro, I suppose!

Barbadosbelle Thu 18-Dec-25 16:16:30

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I never buy real candles and certainly not as a gift to anyone elderly. Accidents waiting to happen.

If you want something aromatic then play safe and go for a diffuser with reeds.
Most stores stock them - M&S (inc Kelly Hoppen), JLP (inc Esteban), etc.
Loads on Amazon (inc Molton Brown).

Prices from about £12 to ........... £s.
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Bluecat Thu 18-Dec-25 16:08:17

I don't mind someone calling me an elderly lady if they're giving me a basket of delicious treats. Particularly if chocolate and alcohol are involved.

Allira Thu 18-Dec-25 16:05:00

Retro is fun.

The gilet is very practical and a good idea.

paddyann54 Thu 18-Dec-25 15:52:34

Oops I, ve bought lots of retro brands for my 76 year old sister.Hoping to make her smile after another horrible year .
Sweets ,biscuits,perfume etc along with a gilet just like one she had 50 years ago.
That’s meant to be practical too as she is paralysed down her right hand side so I thought she might be able to get her affected arm into it as there’s no sleeves?

Astitchintime Thu 18-Dec-25 15:42:17

This brought back memories of when I had my 50th birthday and my Dad gave me a gift set of 4 bath cubes and a bottle of 4711 Ean de cologne……….because, in his words ‘I had reached a certain age’ 🤔🤣🤣🤣

Mojack26 Thu 18-Dec-25 15:41:55

70 not old..I'm 70...A nice candle,a bottle of fizz/wine & chocolates,scarf &gloves. You make 70 sound decrepit.....🤣

RosieandherMaw Thu 18-Dec-25 15:36:46

I just find it so ageist funny that anybody should immediately jump to "elderly" when talking about the " other granny" confusedconfused

Allira Thu 18-Dec-25 15:09:43

Calendargirl

And the spring bulbs, although lovely, may not be suitable for someone with allergies.

I’ve been given some hyacinth bulbs by a friend whose son can’t be doing with the smell…..

Hyacinth planters can be put outside (if they have a garden, of course).

Emeraldforest Thu 18-Dec-25 15:07:16

Another one for the knuckle sandwich here ! I have no will power so prefer no sweets ( have ibs) but nice bubble bath goes down well. Or an Amazon voucher.

AlpineGranny Thu 18-Dec-25 15:06:25

A pashmina?

Stillness Thu 18-Dec-25 15:00:38

Some really nice organic wine and a good quality box of chocs would do it for me.

Barb22 Thu 18-Dec-25 14:58:08

Merlotgran so would I

Bazza Thu 18-Dec-25 14:38:30

How about a ready planted basket from a garden centre? I would avoid food or alcohol as you don’t know her tastes especially if you don’t know her all that well.

Romola Thu 18-Dec-25 14:24:10

Maybe check how they're getting to your DD. If by coach/train, nothing too heavy or difficult to carry.

Catgrann Thu 18-Dec-25 14:15:47

Lol @ knuckle sandwich smile

SueDoku Thu 18-Dec-25 14:07:24

I'm going to my DS & DIL's this year, and have bought a gift set of Sanctuary Spa for the 'other gran' as she's diabetic, so biscuits, jams, chocs etc are not suitable. I know that she enjoys a nice warm bath, so body lotions etc seem a decent bet... 🤞🏼

Nansypansy Thu 18-Dec-25 14:03:53

I’m 81 …. A young 81. You know you’ve reached that age when you hear whispers that one of the (younger) guests will be giving me biscuits! BISCUITS😵‍💫 in the name of Amy Winehouse I just want to say No No No.

Sanmrbro Thu 18-Dec-25 13:52:23

Ha ha. Much needed after a knuckle sandwich! 😂

Calendargirl Thu 18-Dec-25 06:31:22

And the spring bulbs, although lovely, may not be suitable for someone with allergies.

I’ve been given some hyacinth bulbs by a friend whose son can’t be doing with the smell…..