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Having a fall…or falling

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Angelafeet Thu 18-Dec-25 14:03:26

This is my pet hate …. falling over and «have a fall»
At what age does falling over become having a fall
Why be cause we are older than average do we “ have a fall”
I will state here and now at the age of 73…. I will never be old enough to “have a fall” not even if I get to 93…😂😂
It’s so condescending

ronib Sat 20-Dec-25 16:46:43

Well I have suddenly become my lovely which might not be entirely accurate…..

2507C0 Sat 20-Dec-25 16:49:20

Completely agree. People say it about themselves without even thinking how patronising and ageist it is. Grrrr. 👿

HelterSkelter1 Sun 21-Dec-25 07:45:35

I am trying to think of better words instead of the Had a Fall which seems to incorrectly encompass too many things and smack of ageism.

A 5 year old trips or falls over his feet. Has a tumble. Never "Has a Fall".

Is it a medical understanding or shorthand for the type of crumpling fall due to dizziness or low blood pressure whivh is so different from tripping over the hoover or stumbling over a tree root or unevrn pavement. Not watching where you are going up or down the stairs. Carrying something so you dont see where your feet are going. In essence something which can happen to anyone of any age. But past 70 you "Had a Fzll" often whispered.

And sadly to say I have done a Norman Wisdom or even done a Norman only those over 70 will understand!

jeriatrux Mon 22-Dec-25 02:56:57

HOW do you preview your whole messavge ? Preview only shows a few lines

Azalea99 Mon 22-Dec-25 09:13:05

Don’t Americans have a fall while we have an autumn?

andrea67 Fri 26-Dec-25 01:23:20

I fall over quite a lot, sometimes sĺowly other times with a hefty wallop, doesn't matter which as I can't get up due to my m.s. Reluctantly call the paramedics for help( live on my own) they are so kind snd soon get me up but always say " you've had a fall" NO I've fallen over. I will try the exercise of swinging opp arms to legs to see if this helps my balance. Merry Christmas and hopefully a peaceful 2026 for everyone.