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What is the most comfortable bra you have ever bought?

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Freeandeasy Thu 08-Jan-26 03:52:48

Just that really. I’ve just turned 70, and although I always used to dress really smart for work, comfort is my main priority now, as I suffer from very bad back pain, and seldom leave the house now. After a long (and quite expensive) search for comfortable trousers/tops to wear in the house, I finally came across M&S Modal rich pyjama tops and bottoms. They are great to wear as lounge wear, not just PJs? (Wouldn’t wear them outside though) but they actually (in my mind) don’t look like PJs, more like casual lounge wear.

My question is - I need a comfortable bra!! I’ve been wearing Sloggi comfort tops for a while now, but the last couple of bras that I’ve bought haven’t been up to their usual standard. My size hasn’t changed, usually a 36C, but they just don’t seem to fit as they did.

I’ve been looking online for an alternative, but haven’t been able to find one. It has to be non-padded, pull on (i.e. no hooks), giving enough support, and fairly thick straps. Does such a thing exist?

Please share your bra purchase experiences and tell me if you ever found the best fitting, most comfortable bra you ever had. I desperately need to find one! I have purchased many bras online, and have had to send them back (thank you Royal Mail for your pick up service) but I would appreciate any recommendations.

I would be prepared to pay a reasonable price for the perfect fitting comfort bra. I did look at Bravissimo, but their cup sizes are large - think they start at a size D cup?

Can anyone recommend their most comfortable bra?

Thank you.

NannieChicken Fri 09-Jan-26 15:10:08

I've always been measured and fitted by M&S. I wear wired bras because as a 34E or sometimes an F, I need the support a wired bra gives. Their quality has dropped though and they certainly don't last as long as they used to.

I agree with others that comfort doesn't seem to be easily found. I'm not that interested if a bra looks pretty, I just want it to fit me properly and have straps that don't dig painfully into my shoulders.

I have yet to find one but intend to give the ones SHYSAL mentioned on Temu a try.

Summysoom Fri 09-Jan-26 15:05:01

I’ve always put my bra on back to front and spun it around. I’ve tried front fastening but the aren’t adjustable in the same way as back fastening and seem to quickly lose their ‘oomph’.
I like M & S Flexifit in both wired and unwired versions. So comfortable and with good support.

MadameP Fri 09-Jan-26 14:24:19

Another vote for M&S Flexifit bras. I recently lost a lot of weight so needed to buy new bras and wanted to stop wearing underwires. These are so comfortable, wash well and are very supportive.

Janash Fri 09-Jan-26 14:23:21

In 2023 I had the misfortune of being diagnosed with breast cancer following a routine mammogram (no symptoms, no lumps and stage 3! - lesson here, please attend for mammogram when you are invited). I had surgery as well as chemo and radiotherapy. The instruction ref bras were, wide straps, padding if needed and definitely no wires. I found the most comfortable bra ever, and still wear them to this day. It was a George at ASDA post surgery bra, only available on line. It does have fastenings, but front fastenings which are easy to do up. It comes with removable pads too. These bras really do get my vote.

DollyRocker Fri 09-Jan-26 14:21:08

A cheapie pull on one off Temu or AliExpress. I have fibromyalgia plus other things and it's the only one I can bear if I have to wear a bra. I ordered a few. FB sells them at vastly inflated prices.

tattygran14 Fri 09-Jan-26 14:16:10

I bought an Anita twin from Bella di Notte, more expensive than I’d like, £62, it is so very comfortable, wide straps, no padding or itchy seams. But definitely fasten in front then pull it up.

nellflanders Fri 09-Jan-26 09:47:34

The last bra I bought was a lounge bra from Sainsburys, nice soft cotton and no fancy lace to irritate. Sold in packs of two and really cheap.

Castle25 Fri 09-Jan-26 01:56:06

I’m another one saying get properly measured and not at M&S. I was once measured there around a thick winter jumper. I have larger cup sizes and go to bravissimo. Since using them I can say I’ve never had an uncomfortable bra. I think possibly wearing a too large band size is where most problems stem from

Nandalot Thu 08-Jan-26 20:08:15

BlueBelle

Why do you all need to get your hands around your back to fasten your bra I never undo mine I just step into mine have for many years

You must have very slim hips. I am jealous!

Esmay Thu 08-Jan-26 19:46:14

It's ages since I bought one from Sainburys Their sports bras are very comfortable.
I've also bought a very similar product from Avon .They stock more interesting colours .
A very busty friend buys Belvia bras from the net .

petra Thu 08-Jan-26 19:15:36

LauraNorderr

Phew, I was beginning to think I was the only one in the world to fasten by bra at the front then spin it around.

It’s not rocket science, is it 🤷‍♀️

Harris27 Thu 08-Jan-26 19:06:12

Me too laurennirder. Any decent bras for us larger busted ladies please?

NotaGrannie Thu 08-Jan-26 19:04:29

and

the colours don't fade

www.thebigbloomerscompany.co.uk/collections/pull-on-bras

Reubenblue Thu 08-Jan-26 18:57:33

Another vote here for the big bloomers company, I have only recently found them and the bras are extremely comfortable. I have joint issues and the pull on style is an enormous help.

NotaGrannie Thu 08-Jan-26 18:44:45

www.thebigbloomerscompany.co.uk/collections/pull-on-bras

Are high quality, supportive, comfort bras.
High backs are comfortable and give good cover

Wash well and last well.

Find the size that suits - customer services are very helpful, reviews are positive

I have some and use them at home and for hospital scans to avoid undressing and struggling with bra hooks.

Gorgeous cheerful colours too

smile

Pittcity Thu 08-Jan-26 18:04:00

I wear Conturve bras and find them very comfortable.

shysal Thu 08-Jan-26 17:28:23

BlueBelle

Why do you all need to get your hands around your back to fasten your bra I never undo mine I just step into mine have for many years

Me too! I have never been able to do up my bra at the back, even as a teenager. Since injuring a shoulder I can't pull on over my head either.

BlueBelle Thu 08-Jan-26 17:19:04

Why do you all need to get your hands around your back to fasten your bra I never undo mine I just step into mine have for many years

LauraNorderr Thu 08-Jan-26 17:07:37

Phew, I was beginning to think I was the only one in the world to fasten by bra at the front then spin it around.

ClicketyClick Thu 08-Jan-26 13:25:55

I was about to suggest that as it works great.

petra Thu 08-Jan-26 12:29:14

Gagagran

Since my rotor cuff shoulder injury I have been unable to put my left hand behind my back so could not fasten a bra
Solved the problem by buying front fastening bras from the big river company.

"Gemma" and only £13.99, 90% cotton and so comfortable I shall never return to back fastening. Very soft but supportive and even my uncomfortable shoulder doesn't object.

Why not put the bra around your midriff, fasten, then just turn to to the back, put arms through straps.

Oreo Thu 08-Jan-26 12:14:31

Gagagran

Since my rotor cuff shoulder injury I have been unable to put my left hand behind my back so could not fasten a bra
Solved the problem by buying front fastening bras from the big river company.

"Gemma" and only £13.99, 90% cotton and so comfortable I shall never return to back fastening. Very soft but supportive and even my uncomfortable shoulder doesn't object.

The black Gemma with pink flowers is the best I find, all cotton too.😃

GrannyGravy13 Thu 08-Jan-26 12:02:37

The key to a comfortable bra is wearing the correct size.

Go to a shop that specialises in bra’s, get fitted regularly. What size we were last year may not be what we are today.

Hand wash or use little individual laundry bags that go in the washing machine to keep them in shape.

Homestead62 Thu 08-Jan-26 11:57:53

Ive never found a comfortable bra and they are making them with such horrible material now. M&S have done something with their sizing , so I now wear bra extenders with all bras as I have a very broad back. The Temu ones that someone posted look interesting as the other problem I have is they never seem to make shoulder straps wide enough to give good support. I'm too large for the vest things. I'm wearing a bra that's falling apart at the moment.

Blossoming Thu 08-Jan-26 11:10:13

My needs have changed over the years. The most comfortable bra I have at the moment is this £10 bralette from M&S.

www.marksandspencer.com/jasmine-lace-non-wired-bralette-f-/p/clp60727780