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Rudeness from a stranger in public

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Ashcombe Fri 27-Feb-26 07:08:00

DH and I often invite shoppers with a few items to go ahead of us in Lidl where we usually shop here or in France. This is met with gratitude here but with incredulity in France!! It probably confirms their suspicions about the weird Brits!

Calendargirl Fri 27-Feb-26 06:57:23

Also, if it’s something we’re not familiar with, and takes a bit longer to work out what to do, any ā€˜regulars’ like to show how quick and clever they are, knowing what’s required.

cornergran Thu 26-Feb-26 23:35:12

I think in general there is less patience around acdc. I’ve noticed a lot of huffing and puffing in supermarket queues lately although recently a young man waved us to go first as he had a trolley full and we had half a dozen things, he reminded me there is kindness and consideration too.

ACDC Thu 26-Feb-26 23:10:31

Thank you that has made me laugh šŸ˜‚.

Sarnia Thu 26-Feb-26 22:50:33

Sueinkent

I would have taken even longer. Maybe started again after she spoke. I like to wind rude people up if I can. Bit risky but quite satisfying. If she said anything I would say it was her fault for putting me off.

Quite right too. Play her at her own game.

Sueinkent Thu 26-Feb-26 22:31:17

I would have taken even longer. Maybe started again after she spoke. I like to wind rude people up if I can. Bit risky but quite satisfying. If she said anything I would say it was her fault for putting me off.

ACDC Thu 26-Feb-26 22:25:26

I don’t get out much, but today I was able to visit a National Trust property on my own (a very rare treat).
My thread is about rudeness because as I went to pay for parking I pressed a wrong button and had to start again which annoyed the person behind me enough for her to say ā€œ Oh just park your carā€.
It only took less than a minute for me to press the buttons again and get a parking ticket.
I don’t know if I am imagining it or are people getting ruder?
She was middle aged somewhere between 45-50 at a guess. I’m 55. I didn’t react to her at all. I’m not upset just surprised 😳 and sad if this is the way things are going. I hope it was a one off, I will try and press the right buttons next time and save a few seconds šŸ˜‚.