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David and Tristan Tate and their “supporters”

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fancythat Fri 13-Mar-26 15:19:09

The trouble is, while "us women" are on one site talking about things, putting the world to rights, meanwhile, men are on others.

And I include po rn.
Which I think is doing untold damage.

fancythat Fri 13-Mar-26 15:18:08

Cossy

Fallingstar

Thanks for such an informative post Cossy I believe this is a very important issue which will have far reaching consequences.

I too believe this!

Yes, I believe we CAN do things about this kind of toxic and vile social media!

We can ensure that we’re aware of it, makes others aware, have good parental controls on our devices, lobby the government to hold providers to account, educate our boys to respect girls, bring up our girls to be independent thinking and courageous women, support organisations that try and close the worst sites down. Let’s not let these awful people, and I include Trump and Farage, poison our sons/grandsons minds and preserve ALL women’s rights which were fought and won by us and our predecessors.

Good ideas.

Though the parental control on devices can only last until say, 14? 16?

fancythat Fri 13-Mar-26 15:16:43

The "Women in Afghanistan" thread, it talking about some of the same things.

Maremia Fri 13-Mar-26 15:14:25

Good Law Project has sent just out an email about 'fighting back' It seems to be linked to merchandise speaking against these people.

Elegran Fri 13-Mar-26 13:59:34

Magenta8

Who is David Tate?

I think that should be Andrew Tate.

Cossy Fri 13-Mar-26 13:44:52

Magenta8

Who is David Tate?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_affairs_of_the_Tate_brothers

www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/world/tate-brothers-charged-with-rape-and-human-trafficking-in-uk

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyje823er4o

Magenta8 Fri 13-Mar-26 13:36:56

Who is David Tate?

Cossy Fri 13-Mar-26 13:17:24

Fallingstar

Thanks for such an informative post Cossy I believe this is a very important issue which will have far reaching consequences.

I too believe this!

Yes, I believe we CAN do things about this kind of toxic and vile social media!

We can ensure that we’re aware of it, makes others aware, have good parental controls on our devices, lobby the government to hold providers to account, educate our boys to respect girls, bring up our girls to be independent thinking and courageous women, support organisations that try and close the worst sites down. Let’s not let these awful people, and I include Trump and Farage, poison our sons/grandsons minds and preserve ALL women’s rights which were fought and won by us and our predecessors.

Maremia Fri 13-Mar-26 11:47:14

Can we do anything about this toxic media?
Yes, us.

Fallingstar Fri 13-Mar-26 11:25:24

Thanks for such an informative post Cossy I believe this is a very important issue which will have far reaching consequences.

Fallingstar Fri 13-Mar-26 11:20:30

Am afraid we see the results everyday of toxic masculinity. Women raped and killed, in most cases by an ex husband or ex boyfriend. These men may not be influenced by the Tates but by the circle of male friends and relations they are brought up with. But the Tates fuel hatred against women and tbh there is enough of it around already. My worry is kids at school, young boys who have no good male role models, getting groomed by the Tates.
And these were the brothers that Musk and Trump wanted to be pardoned for sex trafficking.

Cossy Fri 13-Mar-26 11:11:04

Not sure if there’s a thread about this, so apologies if there is.

This thread is about my concerns around certain social media content, primarily following David Tate. which I believe is shaping young men’s minds in both the UK and America. I apologise for the length of this post but to edit the quotes might lose the meaning.

I found this piece online, from a police statement online via Facebook:

“LATEST | A year on from seizing almost £2.9 million in assets from renowned social media influencer Andrew Tate and his brother Tristan, Devon and Cornwall Police is seeking to invest money in projects to support action on violence against women and girls.

In December 2024, Devon and Cornwall Police was successful in a civil forfeiture order against the Tate brothers which saw in excess of £2.9 million in assets and costs seized.

The order was granted after the force was successful in proving the brothers had both cheated the revenue and laundered money through bank accounts which were based in Devon.

The investigation focused on substantial earnings accrued between 2014 and 2022, during which time Westminster Magistrates Court heard no tax or VAT was paid on those funds.

Both the Tates also sought to hide the true nature of their funds by paying money through ‘front’ accounts. That represented criminal activity, and those earnings become proceeds of crime as a result.

Following the landmark ruling, more than £1 million of the seized funds has been returned to the force to spend locally.

A spokesman for Devon and Cornwall Police said: “Our work to seize the money from the Tate brothers was diligent and showed our commitment to not allowing criminality to operate in Devon and Cornwall.

“While a sum of the seized money has been returned to the treasury, a significant sum has come back to the force locally to reinvest.

“We have decided this money will be reinvested into projects which focus on our commitment to battle violence against women and girls and support our newly launched VAWG reduction strategy.”

The spokesman added: “A panel has been established to identify projects and initiatives in support of our communities.

“Throughout the coming months we intend to show our communities how these funds can make a difference and support our communities in taking a stand against those perpetrating abuse and putting those funds at the heart of victim support.”

My biggest issue around these two (vile) brothers is the amount of young male followers they amassed who are now (so called) influencers in their own right, spreading their appalling misogynistic rhetoric.

Louis Theroux has completed a documentary interviewing some of these “influencers” and I find the outcome quite shocking.

Here’s an extract from an interview with Theroux after his making of his documentary on the “manosphere”

I apologise in advance for both the length of this post and the language in the extract, but if horrifies me that this is content aimed at 18+ males, which of course is also reaching those under 18.


“At the other end are those in his programme who take their cue from the toxic creed of Andrew Tate, who with his brother Tristan is being investigated in connection with human trafficking. Theroux had wanted Tate to play a bigger role in the film, “because he’s kind of Exhibit A in the culture”. They had “extended back and forth” on text with Tate sending long voice notes. “I think part of him wanted to do it. He does do interviews,” Theroux says. He suspects Tate was ultimately nervous. “I suppose I should be flattered that he didn’t, in a weird way.”

Instead, he tails HSTikkyTokky (real name Harrison Sullivan), Ed Matthews, Sneako (Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy), as well as podcasters Myron Gaines and Justin Waller. They are proponents of “red pilling”, a term borrowed from The Matrix, claiming to “see the truth for what it is” (eg feminism is evil; a secret cabal runs the world, etc). There’s a segment in which Gaines tears apart young women on his Fresh and Fit show. “You’re huge, you’re not attractive and for you to behave in the way you do is a fucking embarrassment to society,” he tells one. “You fat fucking bitch, get the fuck out of my studio.”