I'm only just catching up with this thread Bluebelle. Well done for posting, and starting a debate.
I agree that some of the rhetoric is demoralising but, I think, comes from a very vocal minority. I knew who was going to be adding negative, derisory comments as soon as I saw the post
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You have a lot of suppport - Cossy, Lemonjam & others, too many to mention 
"I know there are people worse off then me"
Good Morning Wednesday 27th May 2026
