I retired on ill health at 57 my proper finishing age was 60 although I didn’t get my state pension until I was 66, I had my NHS pension.
My husband retired at 55 although he is 6 years younger than me, he also had an NHS pension but won’t get his state pension for another 5 years, we manage ok and go on cruises a couple of times a year, I enjoy cruising now as my mobility is limited, we did all our long haul holidays when we were younger and fitter so now enjoy relaxing holidays.
The problem is the government wants us to carry on working until we have one foot in the grave and that’s mentally and physically impossible in some professions.
I go to a choir once a week and husband has his various hobbies, I am looking for other activities during the day but find there’s not much in my area for over 60s but not yet 80 if you know what I mean, there are plenty of walking groups but as my mobility is limited they wouldn’t be for me.
Just a last thought I was much more organised when I was working than what I am now as I tend to put things off until tomorrow, and I’m finding fault with the house all the time as I’m in it more often.